 to be there anymore, because they wanted, the church wanted me to have an annulment, and I didn't do that. Because, you know, what I did, I was married and I had children. How can you annul a 10-year-old marriage? You can't. That's just it. I couldn't. I couldn't. I wouldn't do that. And I did not. But the shame of being a divorced woman, you know, how many times people ask me, you know, am I divorced? But, you know, I feel the need to explain it, but