 I've leaned and told her my strong convictions, you know, that I think we need to wait. And she feels that, and she knows where I'm coming from. And a lot of her tradition, it seems like, there are a lot of people, and she has felt this and feels a lot of it, of, hey, if you're monogamous, it's okay. You don't have to wait for marriage. It's just as long as you're not being promiscuous, you know, and