 today's question of the day comes from molly in west virginia she says i believe my father-in-law has been tricked into a marriage by a younger woman his wife passed away a year ago and the new wife took advantage of his loneliness my husband doesn't seem to see what i see how can i let go and not be bothered by the fact that she's using him i don't want to be fake and pretend everything's great when i see a lot of issues