 You say everything you think people want to hear because that makes you look better. Sure. You're not. Sure. And when you said that, my friend's very religious. I work with her. And I said, what would you do? What am I supposed to do? Love thy mother, love thy father. She says, you know what? If it was your mother, you could take her in in that condition because mothers are different than dads. Dads are supposed to be stronger mothers.