 uh i just found out uh she makes uh 62 about 663k net a year and finally got out of her that when i was trying to make a budget for our soon to come plan uh that she owes uh over 76 000 in credit cards so um i would have no issues paying it and we could probably pay it off in a year year and a half after we get married it just makes me mad and i'm considering three options