 And should be shamed. That's not the purpose of it. And so if you make it about that, if it becomes that in your life, it's missing the point and the purpose of the law. The purpose of the law is to hold marriage sacred. But it's two people. You did. Your husband didn't. And there's nothing you can do about that. What about the law of the church and how I feel? How can I get over how I feel about it? I just feel so much...