 But all I need is for you to say, gosh, you worked hard today. You know, the house smells good or, you know, whatever. So you do. You kind of go back and forth and figure out what works for you. They did have these moms on Dr. Phil. I mean, these Mormon ex-trad wives. Okay. And they're divorced. And they were on the side of the, you know, more of the woke one that was like, you know,