 So you've got these two opposite, and it's like, y'all got it wrong. I mean, the one on the left, for sure, the one that's like, I'm not going to be loving to my husband. I'm not going to treat him like a partner. No, it's very unloving. Why wouldn't you do something nice for your husband? Because in her mind, you have the opportunity to. It's weak. It's weak. So what I say, we've talked about this, two things can coexist at once.