 So if you're judging people at your church and you're getting judgmental about things that they're doing, chances are it's based on who you are and not who they are. You don't always want to go to work either. You don't always want to get up and go to work, but you do it. You're being responsible and you're being a good model to your children. But when it comes to church, you think that you can just go, eh.