 and so the more that i got to know joanne the more i saw her love is real her love for her son is real when she asks me to let him sleep with a particular little animal blankie because she wants him to still be able to smell to smell her and she had had that with him in the hospital that's real she cares for him she loves him she wants him to remember his mom she's working hard so that she can regain custody of him and parent him and raise him