 affirming that confusion is cruelty, but I think belittling them is also cruelty. So the question is, how do we actually get to the bottom of what many of these kids are struggling through, rather than resorting to physical intervention by way of... How about for adults? Do you have a different attitude if it's an adult? My attitude for adults is this. You're free to live your life how you want, without the government standing in your way, and you deserve to be treated with dignity. But that's different from kids. Kids are not the same as adults. Now, on adults, I also believe this.