 And so I had, you know, like some control because his personality is that way. But then when I stopped working and I was at home and he became the sole provider, it became very hard for me because I'm doing all those things that I love and they still matter to me. But I had somebody say, no, we're not going to do that because he thinks very differently about how you spend money. Budgeting. Budgeting. And so then it became a little bit of resentment, you know, like, no, I gave up this. Yeah. Not for you to tell me, no.