 homemade but you know you forget how long it takes to kind of prepare everything and cook it and i remember when john and i were dating early on so we were we decided we were going to make a homemade lasagna but we didn't realize not only how long it would take to to prepare all those ingredients and get it ready and then how long it had to bake and so by the time we get this thing in the oven you know it's like eight o'clock and we're starving and so we had bought ben and jerry's ice cream for dessert so we ate the ice cream while the lasagna