 however if she uh... in how much in advance uh... rob uh... is uh... well let me put it this way uh... when did mom call you and say it's over i'm canceling and at the bank and i had the wedding what's the time uh... i'd about two weeks ago okay else when she calls you and she calls you two weeks before the wedding are actually takes place okay uh... now you're a lawsuit against the venue you have it against her