 You know, so there is the, I think that's what happens in a lot of marriages. There's the sacrifice. There's a sacrifice that they're not happy with. It's uncomfortable. And honestly, the one thing that I would say sometimes is you have to understand the appreciation is our payment. Yes. So if you take me for granted or if you expect things rather than appreciate it, you are going to have trouble. Very. Because since I don't get paid to do this, I mean, the payment comes in the children you raise and it's in the mouth of beautiful human beings in the world.