 we were talking about that phenomenon and he was talking about some kids he knows and one that like can't order at a restaurant like waiter or waitress comes by and like almost can't look the person in the eye and just would rather order on the phone it's like listen this is something you're gonna have to get over it so it can be learned just how to get along with people basically the takeaway from that i've seen that phenomenon man it is it's almost frightening