 not a good relation at all, healthy, and the abuse and stuff, it wasn't worked out yet. But something in my heart was just like, I forgave him. I actually forgave him. So I'm sitting here ministering to this young man not to kill his father and to give him a chance. And he listened to me, and he said to me, he said, the only one I would probably listen to is you that told me that, because I know you come from what I come out of, and I see you're a really sincere