 you, you become attuned to that. And I, I'm not saying this to be sexist, but as a woman, you know, I have two daughters, I have four younger sisters. I was raised by my mom. My dad was in the Navy. He was gone a lot. My wife, they have a sixth sense when it comes to guys, they can tell when a guy's hitting on them. Yep. Yep. Well, you know, God gives men and women different gifts and women. We usually get the intuition. We get the, the being able to read people. And, um,