 um it was a mutual decision we both wanted the we both wanted the house okay all right so you didn't buy a house and then tell your new bride ta-da no no no it's been uh it's been it's been a journey we've been on to find the right home it's a new construction so it just ends up closing 10 days before the wedding gotcha okay good that solves number one problem dave thought paul was just taking over well he's a man on a mission i can tell that so um the uh uh