 And the children are told that. I know I was told, if you tell an adult, a trusted adult, it will stop. And it did for me. But for the majority, especially these days, it doesn't stop because they leave you there. So there had to come a point in your life where you decided, I'm going to move forward. How difficult has that process been? Knowing that there's going to be no nice house with a white picket fence, but you're going to make the best of it as you can.