 and saying hey seafood people why didn't you tell us earlier that was a little harsh that i wonder if bob set that up maybe that was maybe bob was the one who was at my family reunion and he's the one who slipped the note uh to the person who went on stage and called me out maybe that was it i don't know man but that seemed a little over the top for what could have been a private i felt like a private conversation at the same time drew am i am i at fault for not filling out the form is that on me