 you know, the quote-unquote, you know, lifestyle where we have a car and a house and finally can have some stability for the kids. But I'm like, no, we're in mass amounts of debt. We need to get that stuff paid off. How much debt do you have? $48,000. On what? Two car payments, $2,400 in credit cards. I bought her some jewelry for our 10-year anniversary event.