 not giving you all you know you're trying to help her and she really wasn't giving you she's not willing to do anything all right no i can't live with my daughter we have personality issues no i can't you know and i don't want to sell my dog i love my dog and i don't want her to sell her dog but also don't want you to not be able to eat so prioritizing your budget when you're in that kind of situation say first thing we do is eat foods first lights and water second