 it off and I gotta tell everybody it's just a it's an annoyance I get it so I whisper this to the waitress like hey I have a seafood allergy are there any alternatives she kind of gives me a look like I mean she's like all right we'll go figure it out three minutes later Drew the head of the family reunion committee gets on stage with a microphone and says I'm not sure why those of you who had seafood allergies didn't tell us beforehand