 yeah i've kind of hit that point too yeah well you go buy beer they don't even card you anymore like for the longest time you know when i was probably in my 30s they were still carding me i was like ah yeah i still got it then you turn 40 and they don't even think twice about it yeah here is that the rule of thumb 40 you have to be look younger than 40 before you get carded i think that's yeah for most places i think so if you're if you look 40 or younger they're gonna card you