 that we've been hearing over and over and over, if you have a flicker of same-sex attraction, oh, that means you're gay, whatever the heck that means, and it means you've got to follow that path. And you think, why? And also this issue of loneliness. I mean, there are plenty of people who are attracted to the opposite sex who don't find a mate. And so they don't have the kind of relationship maybe that they're longing for. But