 i think you're right the girl's hurting financially yeah and she's not very good at relationships yeah they're all the all the tones were off on this one if she had asked in a better tone if it had been received i think i feel like tone is what messed up this whole and patterns of living that i'm not going to give a drunk a drink that's true i'm not going to reward this continual flightiness and irresponsibility and impulsiveness and i'm not responsible for your lack of maturity