 it takes a village and so we usually there's usually grandparents are along for a trip either one set or both sets this trip we had both sets so we could kind of play zone defense or double coverage we got to do a lot of double and triple coverage which was nice and so yeah that's kind of how we did it and we got some nice relief thankfully so me and Taylor got to go out and do some fun stuff like we got to do universal with just adults with my brothers and sisters and both dads so that was definitely that was definitely nice