 Sometimes the speaking truth doesn't come out by you saying truth. It comes in how you act and how you respond to their needs and how you're an encouragement to them. Put away lying. Speak every man truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another. Be ye angry and sin not. Let not the sun go down upon your wrath. Don't hold grudges. Either give place to the devil. Don't let Satan get a hold of you.