 there's two guys opinions and we're telling you there's no bad option there's not a bad option here but I think you're burning so many brain calories and toiling over this when really there's no destruction either way let's say you move and you hate it in 18 months he was guaranteed 600k you pay down the mortgage you move back and by the way our families live hours and hours Fort Worth is like three and a half depending on how you drive or four hours away it's not long it's half a day