 But they bring you down because there's always a problem. They're always upset about something. There's always something to complain about. Oh, it's so dramatic. Oh, I can't believe it. And you're like, you know what? How about we just go get a burger and some fries and lay off all the heavy stuff? They can't. It's it's it's who they are. And then you find yourself making excuses to not get together.