 So if you're going to be an encourager, if you're going to be an encouragement to someone else, you've got to be able to provide comfort. That comes in all kinds of ways. There's books out if you have read them. Good for you. If not, don't go buy them on that. But they talk about the love languages. My wife and I have boiled it down to a cup of coffee. That's our love language. So that's kind of...