 and I'm going to want to get paid back, I will say something like, hey, I'm happy to cover this for now, can I just Venmo you afterwards? And usually it's like, yeah, perfect, this is my Venmo, and then it's discussed, it's settled, the box is checked. To me, the bigger problem is when there isn't some sort of real human conversation about it, and then all of a sudden, boom, surprise, here's a request for something, that starts to rub people the wrong way. And there's plenty of times where I'll just...