 and that includes making decisions like this there's no way i would have but but you know i work on with one of them and they were picked up their own car but it would have been within the ten thousand dollar budget we would have gone down this with all that kind of stuff and but what i find a lot of parents doing is just taking a hand off will okay you're eighteen you're physically look like you're grown and uh... just turn them loose and they get they get i mean poor brianna she got sallade by car dealer