 uh... with the cost of living and everything and she put up a station and you know i let her on the position for a while and now that i'm having this conversation like if you want to buy a house we need to increase our income you know she's just saying like you know i'm i'm never you know doing enough facing your standards and you know we get into this kind of conversations so you know i just want to see yeah it sounds to her like it sounds to her like that you are uh... trying to just get more milk out of the cow and she's the cow