 and tom's like i know he's not he's like no he is not that there's anything wrong with just he is so tom segura went his whole life thinking this certain actor was gay and at one time you know he would just hey you know about this his lifestyle choice and then all of a sudden he met one of his friends and the guy goes that's not true i know him his i've met his wife he lives with his kids that's not true so tom segura is like what and he goes back to his dad he's like dad you told me this