 You could say how are you or get a fake tattoo. You could ask with an app if it works for you. You could write him a text or knit him a sweater. If you can't be together, you could write him a letter. Whatever, whatever, whatever gets you talking. Whatever, whatever, whatever gets you talking. You could chat on a game, kick off your flip flops. You could ask on your couch while you binge watch.