 he can't be in her life. And what was the context of that? Was this like a, were you leaving? Was he leaving? No, I, um, I was having, um, an ultrasound member. He said he'd be there for me. And so I was having an ultrasound for the heartbeat and he didn't show up. And I showed, I went by myself and I listened to it by myself. And I sent the recording to one of our mutual friends who let him listen to it. And, um,