 When someone we care about loses a loved one, we know to show our support. We send flowers, cards, and make charitable donations. But when it comes to words, we often draw a blank. At the Elias, Kal-El, and Shaw Funeral Homes and Crematory, we suggest you help your friends express their feelings. It's okay to cry with them or even laugh, but go at their pace. And above all, stay in touch. You'll find many more suggestions in pamphlets available at any of the locally owned and operated Elias, Kal-El, and Shaw Funeral Homes and Crematory in Alton, Bethalto, and Godfrey.