 Yeah. I mean, a marriage takes two. So if you've got a, there's a lot that can go into it. Now, if a husband is at a, at a standstill and he is trying to communicate, he has been around him or saying, Hey, you're, you know, you're seeing this clearly. That's maybe a different conversation, but many, in many cases, it's just, yeah, you haven't quite tried everything. Pretty powerful illustration about compounding communication in the book. Yeah. That 30 day thing. I was like floored by that. Yeah. Explain what the question is.