 to love like christ and what did christ do to love he died he loved sacrificially we don't see that call to wives now as christians wives are called to love sacrificially but in the marriage like if anybody's going to die for this thing it's going to be the husband it's going to be the husband putting himself on the cross so to speak and saying i'm going to love you sacrificially so that the marriage can flourish now the flip side this is the part that bristles against our culture is the the