 told us unless he made it known to us that we might then listen and hear the ideas. And he's given us the grace to understand. So in marriage, it's, I think exactly the same way. It's, it's a miracle. It's how you think about the, everything that happens in mechanics that goes into us talking right now, right? You're thinking thoughts, you're putting them together into words. You're, you're, you're flexing various muscles to make air come out through your, your, your vocal cords. I'm saying things are coming across. They're vibrating through the air, going into your eardrums,