 However, maybe my husband has ADD. Could this be the reason for a lot of our problems? He constantly forgets stuff. He doesn't pay any attention to details. Then everything always gets messed up, and I confront him. His answer most of the time is, well, I thought you said, or he will try to justify it with something. It drives me crazy. It's been this way for over three years. It's causing me to want to run away and not turn back.