 You're not allowing the Lord to kind of direct what he has for you and where he wants your marriage and your family to go. What I put in the microwave, he takes out and puts in the Crock-Pot. That's a good analogy. Couples can tend to fall into patterns of criticizing each other. We call it pushing your buttons. At Hope Restored, which is our marriage intensive, that's a lot of what the counseling is, is how to re...