 But I have to realize what my words come across as. And for me, I'm a type A driven person who has serious tonal voice issues. And I can make Laura feel two inches tall just with my tonal voice. And one of the things that we've come to really try and keep at the forefront of our mind as we're communicating with each other is if Christ is in you and Christ is in your spouse, the way you speak to your spouse is the way you speak to Christ. And that is...