 and that process was painful, you know, to see your weaknesses, to be exposed, your cracks. You think you're doing it for them, and then God says, I'm actually doing this for you. I mean, it is kind of a wow. And you realize your need for the church and your need for him and his mercy. But John, you and Dina adopted. We did, yeah. That was a foreign adoption, not quite the same thing, but our son had gone through some trauma in an orphanage over there, and so I'm identifying. I wish I had your wisdom, Bishop, because...