 So if you're here and you're desiring a wife and God's told you you're not going to get one, you're discontent. You haven't reached godliness and contentment. You want a position or a place that's not been given to you, you're not operating under any godliness. All these secret sins, these secret lusts, these secret things, these sins of the spirit, they're an abomination to God. He knows every one of them in all of us.