 is saying this is how you get out, and we can all get out together. We can do it together, that's right. No one wants to be the only one stepping out. But if everyone's uncomfortable, and somebody said, hey folks, what do you say we all get out? That's how we do it. That's why it's so important to have clear norms. More of Jonathan Haidt in just a moment. Stick around. Four things you can do to help your children reclaim their childhood. Right after this.