 That's why the my life is miserable genre is pretty popular. People are looking for ways to rationalize their worst tendencies. They want to be able to point at somebody and say, man, I felt kind of bad about myself, but it turns out that this person behaves the same way and even worse, actually, so I guess I'm not so bad off. One of the most popular mental health slogans these days is, that I'm sure you've heard before, is it's okay to be not okay. But I can't think of a worse thing to say to someone who isn't okay.