 She said, Here is what I know. My uncle was the first one to hold me after my birth. My father was not there to support my mother. My uncle has been in my life indirectly paying for things in my life that I was told were from my dad. My mother gave me lots of money before my wedding and made me promise not to tell my dad. I later found out it was from my uncle. He's very wealthy. My uncle sends me money on Christmas and on my birthday.