 um, a break. She asked, we need a five minute break. And she took me outside and she leaned down and she got about eye level with me. And she said, don't you let them make you cry. And, and she, she was, she told me what they were trying to do, that they weren't trying to hurt me because they didn't even know me, but it was their job to make me crack. And, and I sucked it up and, and I understood a lot after that. And, um,