 And yet, listen to the power struggle that they get into. Mom puts down the gauntlet and says, makes a challenge. You can't stop me. And her daughter says, oh, yes, I can. I will leave this house. So the point here is that you can't force a mind. When you try to, even as a good parent, you try to reach out to your kids and beat some sense into them. You can't beat sense into a kid.