 But you're going to put yourself back together. You're going to know the mystery. You don't have to go through the next 30, 40, 50 years of your life not knowing who's your biological dad. Your uncle may not want to be connected, but you do have a loving husband. So I would put all your energy on being passionate about your life with your husband, the life that you are in control of. You weren't in control of the life that you're...