 So I would not let... You've gone... It may overshadow her wedding, but that's the consequence not of you, but of the family members who perpetrated this, and they don't have to let that happen. But the truth only serves you if it comes out. You find out what happened. You put the pieces together. They'll all have to deal with the consequences of their own actions, whether it's your mother, your grandmother, your father, your siblings.