 It will simplify his life. If your relationship is strong enough, then you can connect afterwards. And then you'll see that he's not just using you, that you are there. Now, that's tempting because you're at work, which also complicates factors. People can be very professional in their workplace. But if I tried to pretend that I didn't love my husband and you saw us together for eight hours, how long would it take for you to detect that there's something a little more than just a friendship there?