 And if you can build up the confidence as a woman within yourself to realize we can do this and we can do this together, a lot of times the communication shifts or changes between a husband and wife. Let's also add anything you want to that, Erin. But let me, you know, like I do, the last question. Oh, but there's one more. There's one more. You can address that issue of the husband who's struggling here because we really haven't talked to him yet.