 Then she goes on to say that he always says, this is not what you told me. And he goes into defensive mode and he argues. Then I gave you the example at the beginning of the show where she said on Christmas morning he got her a sweater that was a size small when she felt he should have known that she didn't take a size small or at least he shouldn't have become defensive. He should have just said, we'll go back to the store and exchange it. But they argued and it totally ruined their whole Christmas morning.