 but they think they're female or the female and they want to become mail and can we sell the idea this is the next civil rights horizon and many said now that's never gonna work people are gonna buy this one however here we are many years later and it's arrived and in fact uh... it is a element of truth in many schools in california they came out a few days ago with that message starting in august that if your kids are going to transition from one gender to another the parents will not be told about what's happening in school