 I'm still not a great person, but certainly better than the alternative. It's not a coincidence, I think, that people are giving up on kids in our culture. And they're also giving up on everything else. Ten million open jobs that nobody wants to take, workers dropping out of the workforce, grown adults living at home with their parents, and so on. We aren't seeing that people forgo families and then go out into the work world and obsessively pursue their ambitions. That still wouldn't be the right way to live, in my opinion, but that's not what's happening. What we find more often is that people give up on kids,