 maybe it was early in your marriage, like you needed to win every argument or what were you expressing? That was actually more Laura than me. Because she's the third of four. I was trying to give you a softball, buddy. Well, she's the third of four children, so she was rarely right. Okay, so I grew up the son of a minister who was in the military. Okay. So I live with nothing but fear and guilt. And everything was black and white. I mean, and I say this honestly.