 And when we come back, I'll talk about this. And coming up, a woman whose partner has caused her to acquire a lot of gray hair, so she says. And we'll talk about cheap forgiveness, too. And how to deal with bad news about your health. I'm Dr. Ellen Kenner. Here's an excerpt from The Selfish Path to Romance by clinical psychologist Dr. Ellen Kenner. It is essential that partners take the time to show their love for one another as often as is feasible.