 The author makes a few other points, like the way Taylor always plays the victim in her breakups, and the fact that she makes it seem like, quote, partners can be replaced as easy as toilet paper. Okay, there is a common saying with that. Look, I don't know how many people Taylor Swift has dated. I really don't care. But if you constantly say that it's the other person who's at fault for the relationship going into the toilet, then that in and of itself is a red flag.