 to pray with you and maybe direct you to not just resources, but a counselor if you need to address something deep and you need somebody to go along with you for that journey. Our number is 800, the letter A, and the word family. 800-232-6459. And we've got details at focusonthefamily.com slash broadcast. And Sherry, in your book, I Want Him to Want Me, you're really trying to help married couples recognize that