 a level-headed grown man he understands his role his girlfriend was talking about when he had his son she goes it changed him it really it softened him he's it's not just football football football he gives us time there's time he watches his film you know show him like watching film rewind and then it's and it's time he's with us where the tv's off and he's playing with the kid and it really does pull the curtain back like you said money doesn't mean anything guys it's