 When a man of the stature and involvement, such as Bi Gosden, leaves his many friends for the last time, it's a time of reflection for those of us left behind. For those who have been the closest the longest, it becomes a flood of memories from all points of things big and little that they remember about the man. For others, it's the one or two things that stand out from the time or two they came in contact with that particular vibrant personality.