 This kind of situation is one where men are much, much more likely to respond in a cool, calm, unemotional, and level-headed way. Men and women are different. We have different bodies and different minds. A man's mind and body are made a certain way and specially equipped for moments like this. So, we've all noticed these dynamics. We've lived them. We just have. And yet so many of us have been engaged in a giant game of make-believe.