 If you think back in your own life, have you ever been told you're selfish? Somehow, self-valuing, being self-assertive, having self-esteem, having a self, selfishness, having that not someone that runs roughshod over people, but valuing, truly loving your life. Somehow, these are made to seem bad. And that's sacrificing for other people, whether it's Cheryl's lazy, slothful, mooching family members or...