 and she's written a book for Focus on the Family. It's the basis for our conversation today, and the title is I Want Him to Want Me, How to Respond When Your Husband Doesn't Want Sex. And then we have our own Focus colleague, Erin Smalley, here as well. She's an author, speaker, licensed counselor, and is a primary spokesman for the ministry with her husband, Dr. Greg Smalley, for Focus on the Family's Marriage Ministry.