 but um you know six is really not exactly a hardship compared to history anyway i mean you have to look at your options and none of them's good if you stop today you're not going to have enough money saved and if you bought a house with what you have today you're going to be house poor and that's not that's not an option for you so i just want to assure you you're going to get there yeah you'll get there you're going to get there you're going to get there you're going to make it don't abandon don't let the fear of being priced out of the market cause you to do something stupid