 both spouses need to feel good with the counselor because, you know, Sam and I, you know, we've gone to counselors and it's been like, I don't like her or I didn't like him. And you do sometimes have to. Yeah, but if you don't like them because they're telling you the truth, that's a problem. Yeah, that is a problem. Yes. I mean, he also didn't like that that guy didn't get his name right a couple times, which I won't argue, you know, whatever. But, yeah, it was mostly because of he's telling him the truth and he doesn't want to hear it. Yeah, that's mostly. So he is going and he is going for himself. That's good.