 I have found that I'm really glad you brought that up because it really has been it is a difference I've noticed between men and women you know men wake up in the morning they are the CFO they are the CEO and when they're not they feel lost so when I start working with them really one of my first things I do is get them out of the grief period get them right-sided moving forward with a vision and that's why my service is great for them because it's project based it gives them homework it gives them something to do okay and