 But sometimes I feel like I just don't understand him, right? Like, I'm his, like, sassy American wife, and he's this very polite white Dutch dude. And I don't understand him sometimes. And I feel like he doesn't understand the nuance of an American husband. You know, I'm from Jersey, and he thinks I sound aggressive all the time. That's his thing. Like, I'll be making breakfast, and I swear to God, I feel like he just hears DMX, you know?