 We damn well don't invite them to brunch in the daytime at one of our fancier restaurants because that's just not what we do. To an educated group of people, it looks extremely crazy. Yeah, it sounds like it was very taboo within the culture that you were in. All the black community was like, listen, the gay thing is just coming around. We're beginning to get some traction. Gays and lesbians are still trying to get power in the late 90s, early 2000s.