 Back in the late 90s, looked at me like you're a professional gay male black. You doing well. Why would you even think to do something like this to yourself? We think you're making a very big mistake with your life. And we as a group, we have to tell you this. And as time went on, that the calls came less and less than invitations dropped. And I was pretty much dropped from a group of men that I'd been friends with maybe 10 years. Mm hmm.