 No, just since I got married. I was a dog person, but my husband was a cat person, so I thought we'd give it a try. Did you sit down and tell the cat that maybe that's the problem? Did you tell the cat you're a dog person? That's the problem. Now we see where... Anyway, Lynn, what I want to do is I'm going to... I know I'm giving away a lot of my books. I don't know why they're available on Amazon. You can buy them. I'm going to send you a copy of How to Get Your Cat to Do What You Want. There's a whole chapter in there on first pet psychology, but...