 That every etiquette question could be reduced to that. You don't like somebody's wind chimes. Someone put lipstick on at the table. Do you invite your gay cousin-in-law to your wedding? The thrust of every question is people are different from me and I can't stand it. And then the thing that you have to say to everybody is you have to stand it. That's the human condition. You have to approach it with as much grace as is humanly possible, which is more grace than you're currently mustering.