 I am going to say it is not entirely their fault. I believe that there are many things at play here. One of the reasons why I love your story about the work ethic with your kids, same thing with me. My dad came in when I was 15 and said, where are you working this summer? I said, Dad, it's not legal for me to work. He goes, you're going to find a job doing something, so get out there. And I was terrified, but it built confidence.