 that's okay. Uh, sometimes we need a lot of words. You, you give someone some words when they need it, you know? And they handed me this letter and they said, I'm really shy and there's stuff that I want to tell you, but I don't want to do it here. And it's like, sure, no problem. And, um, I got back to my hotel room after the event and I read the letter and, um,