 he's okay let me let me play the other side of that which is some people just are they're such tight wads and it's like you want me to cut back even more there's nothing left to cut and i don't know if that's the situation here it could be what john is saying it could be what i'm saying but she's saying he's buying so much toys and that she's having to pay his bills yeah because he's spending so much yeah it's it's not good um she said i think it's nonsense to save he