 Every night, every night, what I want you to do is you pick up the new cat, sit on one side of the living room or den, whatever you are, have your husband have his cat on the other side, two or three minutes when they ignore each other, that's enough for the day. The next day, do it a little bit more. So what we're going to do is let them both know that the assertiveness, number one, is not necessary, and number two, we're going to use a little first pet psychology to make sure that the cat that was there first is getting more attention from the other cat.