 It empowered them to say, oh, here's somebody older than I am. I get to help her. They didn't make fun of me. I thought they're going to laugh at me. They're going to make fun of me. And I think it's just it's the fear and anxiety on both sides. We feel like somebody is going to find us lacking. They're going to make fun of us or they're going to judge us. And we just all need to be a little more authentic and be willing to take a step out there. Are we going to meet mean people that don't care? Sure. But keep trying.