 I mean, I'm individualistic. Pull up your own bootstraps, you know, like I'm not going to let me. Or, you know, the sort of collectivist culture part of my brain is like we should sacrifice. You should run screaming with all the money that you have when somebody needs help. Today on LifeGate, we'll tackle all of these aspects of lending money. When to say yes, how to say no, and how to make sure your relationship doesn't change through it all. That's ahead.