 you know, I have learned to love myself and wrap myself in the warm blanket of sort of like self-affirmation. And in those two lyrics, what you see is two flawed and messy and smart and talented women reflecting on the same exact moment and how they both saw it differently through the lens of their own pain, the lens of their own comparative-itis to one another, but that they're exposing to one another here as a means of actual healing.