 reflect on those experiences. We'd have them think about them and then try to really work through their deepest thoughts and feelings surrounding those events. Half of the time, we had them try to work through their feelings as we normally do in the first person. So why did I feel this way? What was going on? In the other half of the time though, we'd have them use their own name and the second person pronoun you. So Ethan, why did you feel this way? What was going on?