 Carol listened to her mom put into words the exhaustion of that time. Her mom said, I don't even know how I lived through it. Carol was stunned. It rung the bell like mom was working her off after dad died. She was sleeping like four and a half hours a night. She was tired. And I'm thinking, God, you know, that love, that motivation that she had, that my mom had to keep us alive and well and good.