 where we will bring in a new word, we will load that word up with all of the sin of our behavior, toss that word out, pull a new one in, and then all of a sudden we let that word soak up all the sin, and we never really change the way we actually treat people. It becomes the words' fault. I've been called fat, overweight, obese, husky, big guy, you know, chunky, any number of words. All of those words just loaded up with venom.