 they're afraid to ask because they don't want, and I've had several say, well, I don't want to seem stupid. That's a stupid question. And I told them, it's your money. You're the boss. There are no stupid questions. You've got to know because it's your responsibility. And that's why we do our inspiring women. And that's why I just, and I've had several clients that have come in and you know, the husband, uh,