 she wants. And, and Gerald Ford said, my wife's legacy is going to be greater than mine. And I actually believe in that case. It's true. Katie, go ahead. Oh, just, I was thinking of Betty Ford as there was one small, small detail in researching my book that I, that I wrote about, which is that she was frank about the fact that they shared a bed, which at the time was the height of scandal. And just these very small cultural moments where Betty,