 he and I have been together since I was 18. And I have always judged him by the standard of romance novels. And I've always been pleased with, you know, how I came up. And so when I was writing Love Interests, I would think about him a lot and think about the way that I want to be treated and that I'm lucky enough to be treated. And I've always instinctively sort of woven that into my books. And