 yeah i think that is a big dividing line whereas once you there's a difference between a 35 year old with two kids and a 35 year old without and a lot of the people i talked to for this story said the divider isn't always necessarily age it is just at some point once you do get married and have kids you just kind of hopefully don't have time to worry about exactly how cool you are thanks emily emily stewart senior correspondent at business insider 20 minutes now in front of the hour on this morning america's first news coming up next the mic drop