 I've spent every day, almost every day of my life with Sarah for the last 20 years, but I don't really know what it's like to be Sarah. I only know what it's like to love and be loved by Sarah. Right. And like, it feels like part of being a human in relationship is like trying to get as close as we can. Like we'll never, even being a writer, I'd imagine is like part of the exercise is trying to get to articulate someone else's internal feelings.