 Now that I think of it, the tomatoes are teaching the kids about patience, and the kids are teaching us. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13, 4, love is patient. In our instant world, we can lose the skill of patience if we're not careful. Patience is important for healthy relationships, and when we don't have it, we're quick to snap and lash out. When we do, we pull back on the reins and start to look for ways to love and understand.