 as you go along but not so much so that it's out of whack all of that fits into this contentment issue it's a great discussion jim it's a great question and the the the meta thing here is it's okay to feel weird anytime you're doing or experiencing something that you're not used to that's okay you're not crazy not something wrong with you matter of fact you'd be something wrong with you if you didn't feel right so just make sure you practice practice your way through it that's good good word john this is the ramsey show