 about the defense or whatever it is you want to tell her about her shooting or whatever but he's like well she already knows what she did right i just need to tell her what we should do wrong i'm like no that's not the case because that's really detrimental to her self-esteem which she said these parents that have been yelling things from the sidelines about who she should pass to and this that and the other that that's affecting her right now she's like i just got my confidence back mom and then these parents are yelling things at me and i'm like they're irrelevant