 and we're not going by them but not listen be in the masters not hard it's been a slave it's hard now that's right is that that's a that's a easy position in the story and so yeah that's a good it's a really good call zachary thank you are not that grams are saying i'm that's a good question it's a valid question moms and dads do good things bad way shouldn't grandmothers do good things bad ways that's that's a choice because they're ignorant about it they just don't notice anyone ignorance is not malice it just i don't know