 What if it really is lights out? I've even had people say to me after everything I've been through, I hope it is just lights out. I need a rest. Now, of course, we don't really mean that when we say that, but also there are souls that don't want to cross over because they're concerned about being judged when they leave this body. So lots of reasons for fear, but we don't really need to have fear because it doesn't work that way. There's no fire and brimstone, no judgment.