 three years ago with my then seven-year-old now ten-year-old and it was already with her soccer club it was about the competitive tryouts and are you going to go in that direction and we you know did she's like that sounds awesome but then it turns out it's four to five days a week there's cuts there's the possibility you're paying a ton of money and your kid's not playing or not playing much one of her best friends went out made the team three months later