 Start there and just work your way. To be fair, I'm much more in the mode of pampers than depends at this point in my life. Oh, you certainly are as you're approaching diaperdom. Terrified, dude. I am absolutely terrified. Of changing diapers? Oh, you know my stomach. Everything you thought you couldn't do just becomes reality. There's nothing you can train for or anything like that. It just happens.