 so that's what i would do first off is just delete everything in my messages if you're okay with that and then i would go through and i would restart my phone make sure everything is up to date on the software updates which i'm sure you've already done and then i would see if it keeps happening if it keeps happening um then i would probably personally i would format my phone completely i know this sounds wild but if you're trying to you know if you're telling me you're restarting your phone two or three times in a row that should not happen with an iphone an iphone is just not that