 This is something that's happening on the surface, but what is the greater lesson behind this? And that way we could transform something bad to something that expands us and evolves us, and we can grow from it. And so when we're, you know, open to, you know, what happened to me versus saying, okay, hmm, that's interesting. You know, what's going on? What's happening? What's the lesson behind it? Curiosity opens up the doorway for growth and evolution and