 um the judge was in there with us and she kept saying um my sister-in-law you know i don't want them in control of my financial situation i don't want them in control of my financial situation and she was fighting it so bad and the judge looked at her and she said well why not and she said i don't know because she absolutely did not know what to say they had just programmed her you know we were so bad and and just programmed her and then when she was asked you know why not she had no clue absolutely no clue and i'm glad this is