 do you you know can women should they shy away from romance novels because the romance novels are going to lead them to 50 shades of gray kind of books which is then going to lead them to full-fledged visual porn or how do you tend to look at that and are there some gateway triggers for women that they should potentially avoid absolutely i think there's a lot of um you want to watch out for the romance novels even christian romance novels can can get women so i i even caution women against