 You kind of think there are many, many heroes in history who haven't had that. I think of all the saints. I think of Dietrich Bonhoeffer who didn't have that. And so that lie that this is a must for everybody and you've got to find someone, and if you don't, you're going to be horribly lonely, that's part of the lie that forces people, I think, into moving along the lines that you initially were in your life before you found freedom.