 And Alfred Lord Tennyson's quote says, better have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Okay, it's better to have tried and lost than never to have tried at all. Wow, I can see her face right now. I am shaking in my boots. If you saw me in high school, you would laugh. I mean, we would be, Gary would be your, if you're the high school teacher, Gary would be your most worst teacher.