 And so when they come home, it's almost like you want them to come home and say, mom, it totally happened today, just like you said it would, instead of coming back and feeling like I was totally ill-equipped for what I encountered today. So this is done by opening the conversation to your kids. They don't know what to ask. They don't know the right questions to ask because they haven't encountered some of these experiences yet. And so one thing that we talk about a lot in the book is something, I call them conversation starters, but