 mid to late 30s um you know and their kids seem to be normal and i had kids you know in my early 20s and um i think they're kind of on the same scale as other kids i work hard put them through private school because here in california we don't you know like the public school system but yeah i don't blame you i would i would put them you know just move to a better district you know and maybe be a little more involved with the the school maybe a smaller district i live in a rural