 So I'm just thinking, I'm just thinking about interjecting here. So we've got a $400,000 house and several hundred thousand dollars in some sort of retirement, which mom isn't really touching and she's living off social security and a pension. So now Chris goes on to write, a friend's father is in failing health and my friend is in a family of seven siblings. His parents own their home. Both are now moving to a nursing home due to health issues.