 will dress kind of inappropriately or a little bit sleazy or a little too revealing or whatever and then some guys are like you know what i wish you wouldn't dress like that because i don't want to i don't want to think these kind of thoughts and that that leads me into temptation if you will uh and so but are there things regarding men i mean are there certain things that men inadvertently do or inadvertently wear that might be causing a woman battling with pornography to struggle