 it's an important part of our life however i would say that if if we live in a home and my wife who's if she was on this phone call she would agree with me if if i let her run with her her natural feminine instincts to its end our kids would never leave the home they'd never grow up she'd have me pay for everything we'd cover their groceries and at 20 years old my son would still be wiping his nose and paying for his groceries and that's what's happening with with the progressive left they want a mother