 And then he can take a little more ownership and accountability when he does cross that line because that is the goal of parenting is to get our kids to be accountable for their own actions, to recognize how their actions affect themselves and others. And if they feel like they're constantly being controlled, then when they get a little bit of freedom, they act out in crazy ways. And we as parents are like, what is happening? And often it's a control issue. And so with those sorts of kids, if you have a child like that,