 Like having, being there and just being fully mentally involved is very important. And I feel like, you know, you're not, if you don't have a good foundation of, you know, you think you need to rely on other people to help you feel some type of way. And then when that stops, how are you really feeling? I think getting past that point in a career is very important. And once I got past that and I said, it's all about me, it's all about the way that I carry myself and,