 john you don't have to go overboard with this kind of gathering yeah i mean you don't have to break the budget you don't have to you know your wallet won't go thin with this because it doesn't have to be massive amounts of food you can have small bites you can have for example you know the rayburn sandwiches cut up in small little bites you can have dips and and easy things like that throw some hot dogs and hamburgers onto the grill make it really simple of course ask