 don't tell anybody what i do because there's going to be a fight or they're going to say you know there's just going to be something they're going to look at you differently the rest of the night unless they're really cool about it and open about it too those are the people we want to meet right oh actually i've got a great story about that because i was talking to a couple of people it was here in vegas actually it was a sort of art gallery thing and they were they were quite clearly christians