 it'll give you a code and you'll jump online i'm going to give it to you free and i want you to jump online and take that and pretend like that you were 18 years old or 19 or 20 years old and you didn't have any kids and you said okay what am i going to do with my life what's my career going to be what's my future look like because you've been reacting to life rather than happening to life