 female different sports and uh it's been a lot of fun and i know for me i've learned a lot from coaching and and you know from that that's helped me become a better coach a better dad and realize that there's more ways to do it than just push push push because i tell people you're always going to have the outliers you're going to have the serena williams the tiger woods but majority of kids are going to burn out and not want to play and i always say then where does that leave your relationship with your kid as you all grow older