 And I'll tell them, can you put your foot out of the covers? And they say, yes. And I said, that's your next right thing today. And that's what grief is about. It's about doing the next right thing to get to the other side of the enormity of it, but you will never be on the other side of grief. You live with it. It's a new normal. Susan, I want to ask you about the dying process. We hear so many stories of people dying in their sleep