 that, you know, I feel like is probably even more so as women. When you're growing up, you think, like, okay, I'm going to go to college. I'm going to get married. I'm going to have two kids by this age. And, you know what I mean, you have a picture of what your life is going to look like. And every single aspect of my life did not go as planned. And I came to realize, okay, you're so miserable, Heather, because you are not –