 Well, and what we feel, and it's hard because, you know, today we're talking mostly about, like, the parents, not necessarily what we're doing for our kids, but having to take a look in the mirror and saying, whoa, am I maybe handling this a little unhealthily? All of these things that we're doing are coming from a place of love. And it's coming from us wanting to protect our children from something that we might have experienced that we haven't fully healed from. And so what we need to ask ourselves is,