 And the reason that this can be so beneficial to the parent and the child both is that when you lay down these rules, these fences, boundaries, whatever you want to call them, you lay them down intentionally and preemptively. Then when your child crosses them, as they will, because all of us do, right? We all push the boundaries. When they cross them, both parent and child were fully aware of the rule and of the consequences that were decided upon when that rule was broken.