 I know it's hard, but also I'm going to try and implement that though and see if she does have any. Yeah. I mean, it's, this matters to me. Me too. That's a big deal. If you, if you say that to your spouse and our potential spouse and they go, yeah, well, I don't care. We're not doing it anyway. Unless it's something that's harmful. I mean, what, what's the downside?