 where we were in life and what we wanted in life. And we really worked on our communication. And when we got married, we had vowed divorce was not an option. So we said that word isn't to be used in fights and it's not to be used. And it sounds all quintessential and wonderful, but it's actually a true commitment to what we did when we decided to get married. And we actually started our life together in a separate than where either of us grew up place to create that sort of fresh start or new foundation.