 And and I had this desire to be a really good singer. But I found myself when my daughter was taking voice lessons and really developing this talent. I was like frantic, like you cannot quit. You cannot stop. You have to do this. And I was pushing her and I was eventually projecting my goals that were unfulfilled onto her. Oh, wow. That it stressed her out. So when we look at these parents who are getting involved in sports, I bet if we asked