 you need to hand those off. And so that's what I explained to my employer is that it wasn't fair to her because I'm not showing up as my best, as my best. And it's not fair, you know, and it's not fair to me because I'm not able to be there for my family and the things that are most important. And I recognize that. And so we, she was moving her office. So we had decided that I'd go down to part time. So that would give me Mondays and Fridays off. So I would just be there during surgery days on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, which really helped open up my schedule just to be able to breathe and