 And confess your sins and say, God, I'm, Lord, I am so angry and so hateful towards this person. And then God reminds you, judge not lest ye be judged by the same measure. Do you want me to judge you by the same way, the same measure, the scale of measurement that you're judging and hating your husband, your ex-wife, husband, whatever, ex-boyfriend, whatever, that girlfriend, boss, whatever.