 Truth and honesty is the answer. Well, that's truth and honesty is love, isn't it? When you're truthful and honest with somebody in a loving way, they can maybe look at themselves and say, you know what? Thank you. I needed to hear that. Or they can also say, go to hell, get out of my life. You can say, okay, I just wanted to say that. If this is the last conversation we ever have, you know how I felt. And guess what? If you ever change your mind, my phone will be on.