 And your Wellesley Women's Study reasoning is utterly useless to those people. So why do you get their attention? That's what I tried to teach my daughters. Well, right. What are you? That's what I was thinking. What are you hoping for? What's the result you're hoping for out of this? Well, you're declaring your staunch womanhood or whatever. This one woman who looked naked when I turned the corner to the parking lot seemed to be talking to her grandfather.