 above all, tell the truth with them and let them know that they're loved and they're safe and it's okay. And bottom line is, Melissa, you and I both believe the things that matter are eternal. And that's where you do your best on this in this life, in this realm, you do your best to be the best version of yourself that you can be to the glory of God. And that's kind of where I believe your head is at and my head is at. And yeah, our listeners need to know that, hey,