 Yeah, I think it definitely does apply. I mean, there's always like a baseline, you know, love and respect with your, or love, I should say, hopefully respect with your kids. And it's, you have to remember, especially as your kids get older, I think it's harder for me to do, but I try to do it to remember that they are, you know, who they are, not what they do. I think like Rachel said, that was really important. And they might make, you know,