 and we're kind of worried about what to do especially because with the has anybody talked to him about the fact that he got scammed we've tried to but and he doesn't believe it kind of fuels him no he doesn't believe it and it's kind of fueled him even more he's like oh i'm going to prove to them that it's not a scam by sending more and then every time he talks to the person he sends money to with some doubts she's like oh i'll give you more how is he communicating with this person