 you don't want to change someone yeah exactly yeah and you just have to accept them for the who they are he's a great guy and we hadn't dated like for two or three months he was very sweet you know lots of things yeah got me flowers all the time i love that stuff flowers are cool yeah that's great but um but yeah i think like lifestyle things are important like i like to run and go outside and i asked him i was like oh can we go trail running runs he's like i don't do cardio oh what