 But and that's interesting, Julie, is because we live in a world right now where where a lot of adults don't even feel like they have the right to feel. So when we come back, I think we need to talk about before we even address some of these things with our kids. Are we in check? How are we the parents and we the adults understanding and processing a loss before we even go to the kids to see how they're processing it? We're going to talk about that after traffic and weather. Don't go away. You're listening to Melissa in the morning.