 because i still um i talked about being in touch with that kid i'm still in touch with the the 20-something who was you know trying to figure things out and who was scraping by and i learned all about hotel etiquette from working in a hotel and how hard the housekeeping staff worked and i learned about tipping housekeeping by staying in a hotel and how grateful they were and how hard they worked and how often you know people just take it for granted