 tell me specifically how you can't, how you fell on this topic of, of passive aggression, because I find it interesting. And I meet people like this all the time that, you know, they're kind of like, you know, one minute they're okay. And the next minute they're like, well, and there's a little passive aggression there. And it's like, Hey, where'd that come from? So I'm just curious. Well, the, well, passive aggressive, basically you can hurt someone or change a situation by not doing anything.