 I said that to someone a long time ago and he called me back a week later and said it wasn't working. All I can visualize is this poor guy sleeping in a dog bed. Here's what I want you to do. Take the cat bed, put the cat bed on your bed. I want you to take your head, your head, rub it on the cat's bed. If you have a significant other, the same thing. I want to get your scent all over that bed. Does she hop on your bed at all?