 When it changes something, don't think you're broken. Go with it and heal that portion. And don't skip any of those healing. It's like an onion layer. I didn't think that I needed counseling. I thought I'm good. I'm a tough woman. When that layer of that part of your life comes off as you lose the weight, go with it. Get counseling if you need to. Deal with every single layer because if you skip one, you're going to miss a whole section of what God has for you.