 saying hey i know you're in college but your mom and i just got divorced and we just blew up your entire world and it's going to be hard for everybody and i'm hurting instead of that which is an emotionally mature response it is oh you didn't make me feel good about my like what i did then fine screw you i'm taking i'm literally going to steal from you and uh i'm going to hold it because you can't do anything about it yeah i can't wrap my head around it all for your own good though i can't like that's the one i just