 a lot of them part of it's because they've grown up in a in a society that tells them that every impulse they have is wrong yes and makes them toxic and yes when you reach adulthood and you see normal human interactions you realize that's not true and actually it's okay to be masculine or it's okay you know it's it's it's okay to be who you are right it's so true so yes there is hope for the future you're gonna turn this thing around baby