 And and you have differing opinions on whether you should spend money on X, Y or Z or take that vacation. And one of you wants to when one of you doesn't or one of you wants to buy the nice flat screen and one of you wants to use the money for something else. Or, you know, the difference between a vacation here and a vacation there. Honey. Yes, dear. I think we have to make a decision on this as soon as possible.