 devastating, shocking. I mean, I wouldn't expect the stone not to be here. If anybody knew me, my mom and I were very close. And so the way to get to me would be through my mom. One of Bernard's friends is a stone worker. And he says because of the shape and size of this headstone, it is an awkward 500 plus pounds. So it would have taken more than just one person to move it. In Brooklyn, Tina Dittow, News 8.