 and are trying to make their way, uh, in life. So he, the career resources story spoke to him. Uh, my New Jersey connection turns out my dad's name is exactly the same Dwayne, uh, which was funny. And then the clincher, which I just can't even, uh, it's hard to talk about in some ways, but, uh, he lost a brother, um, this year and, uh, tattooed on his arm, uh, my brother's keeper, a version of my, my brother's keeper. And, and so, uh,