 so if the kids off the ranch obviously you know they're out there going crazy and whatever we're not gonna you know we're doing heroin i'm not buying them a house right i mean you're not obviously your child's not gonna be doing that but dear god i hope but the uh you know what i'm saying or if they you know they marry somebody who's got a screw loose or something then you know we're not going to do it but if the two of you are sane and you buy into