 But I remember always to judge a man by the fruit of his life. And I don't need to look at every little one little thing and be picking things. You just look at the life of a man and you can see either rotten fruit or you can see a life that is flourishing, a life that is life-giving. Because we're supposed to be life-givers as well. God gives us life and then he gives us this thing called love that is life-giving to others.