 say but it is true though anthony i mean i listen you and i have talked about this i think this is how our friendship grew so quickly was because you and i you know feel this to the core that growing up in connecticut you feel like you're wedged between boston massachusetts and in the big apple and and connecticut is this pass-through state but i've learned so much over the just the last couple of years that connecticut has so many things going on and and you know the idea of