 Um, and I, so I think we've got the best thing you can do really here is manage yourself because you're not going to change the world around you. Yeah, that's a really good point. And, and I think it's also like you said, getting honest with ourselves, Julie, I think, I think it's recognizing that. So it's, it's interesting, you know, just to give kind of an example, I felt like in the beginning of this year, um,