 is not seeing this he's like now this seems totally fine yeah so there's a lot of issues here number one is the husband and wife aren't on the same page on top of this father-in-law maybe getting scammed i don't know there's too much we don't know well and there's also is this like uh just his name just slipped my mind but like an anna nicole smith situation where he's 90 and she's 25 or is it he is 70 and she's 55 right so i don't know what younger woman means here um