 You want to be genuine with your feelings. You want to make sure that you validate them and you become even a better listener to them. You want to let them see you grieve appropriately. And grief is different for a child than for an adult than for all people's grief is different. And grief will come in waves. It'll knock you off your feet. And it's OK. The worst thing, you know, what not to do is to tell them to bottle their feelings or