 You could look at the website it's N J C C dot online, or you can call 2 0 3 2 4 3 7 7 1 4. But, um, you know, with kids it's, it's important to really think about what you want to say and even practice or write out what you want to say to them, you know, find that right moment, know what they know, correct them is correct. Any misinterpretations or miss, uh, misinformation that the child has, uh, use age appropriate language, share your feelings.