 absolutely i think we've gotten away from that you know we used to say at the kitchen table and i could disagree with my cousin or my mom or my grandmother i tell people all the time my best friend and i don't agree on everything and now we've made it this if i don't agree with you i dislike you and we're at a time where we really should be embracing uniqueness embracing change everyone's experiences make up who they are and they're all going to be different our country is a melting pot