 and if he had a girlfriend I would find out I would track them down I'd speak to the father and he so he changed his name how often did you do that and tracking I kind of went on for years we went up for a couple years you know for several years how do you do that well actually you have private detectives yeah in fact we did okay paying private detect my father paid for the detective he could find out where this guy was in a moment's notice so we would find this out but also