 the drug down and, and really wrestling. So it's morphed along the way. That's, that's my whole point. It's morphed along the way of, can I help a woman change her life? Absolutely. Wow. Here's, here's where I sit now. And it's just such a privilege and an honor. That's interesting. And was it a conscious decision to, to work mostly or only with women? Um, or are you able to help men on their journey too? Or is it, are the sensibilities different between, between us? Sure.