 have a hard time accepting those wounds or was that no first off i'm one of those people that obnoxiously vomits their life out on people you know it's like on your first date you just literally the day i met her first off we both realized individually we said to ourselves i said to myself i'm incapable of being in a marriage a relationship because i will mess it up and she was saying the same thing to herself we both had come grinding to a halt