 you know, in fairness to them, I kept everything from them because I was so driven and so dedicated. And I thought this coaching style was just tough coaching because that's what we're brainwashed to believe. And I didn't want to, I didn't want to share anything with them because I didn't want them to pull me out. You know, I was so committed to this dream. And then I think they became brainwashed into this system as well. I think the parents become brainwashed. This isn't