 It's earned authority. And we talk about how do you earn the authority. Again, that's in the book. But that's the key. And the second thing that we teach is the proper use of discipline. Again, it's not being permissive. You know, the authoritarian parent, many of us grew up that way. And that's, you know, dictatorship type parent. Just be quiet. Do what I say. I don't want to hear anything out of you. And that's it. You know, maybe a lot of us were raised that way. That's authoritarian. But authoritative parents,