 there were some folks who had a hard time with it and that doesn't make them not loving friends. I think, you know, it was a lesson. And for anybody out there is going through, you may, you know, people, people react to these very, very hard moments in other people's lives in different ways. And you never know what it might unearth in them, what, what kind of memories they might have. And so we had good numbers of friends who were just so there for us and,