 you know, I'm perhaps less dumb than I used to be about some decision making out in the world since that time, uh, because I don't want to leave her without another parent. And so I think about that more than anything else, but it doesn't cripple me. Um, beyond that, I really, in some ways try to live from what I learned from her on that path, which is not to get too wrapped up in it. And, you know, again, I feel like I'm getting into the world of cliches, but just, just be as present as you can. And, um,