 Why didn't somebody see this before? Obviously, this wasn't the first time that he. How often do you hear about a family who one of the parents is just held in such high accord with other people? They're always telling the other spouse, like you're so you're so blessed that you have them in your life and telling the children are so blessed that this is your parent. And meanwhile, they don't realize that that parent that everybody thinks is amazing is beating their spouse and children. Mm hmm.