 strategy for helping your kids have empathy. And he talks about this in a parenting vein because this is a way to get to the root of the problem without blaming your kids for a problem. Let's say your kid is having trouble getting out the door for school in the morning. Instead of berating them, a more productive solution would be to get curious about what's bothering them, what's preventing them from accomplishing this task. And getting curious, I think, is