 I totally agree with you. And it's not always easy. I mean, I've seen this as a rabbi where sometimes people, by the way, will have fractured relationships and they're not forgiving. And you ask them, like, what was the impetus? Like, how did it start? And they may not even remember. And it might have been something small. And it's like a little crack of an invite me to this event. OK, well, maybe there's a valid reason. But then.