 Read that one right there. It says, forgiveness comes for me. Comes for me when I contemplate the forces that have formed that person to be who they are. God forgives me. I need to accept that and wish that for them. A hundred percent. A hundred percent. And she said, but it does not mean being a doormat. Of course not. No. And as Duke says, don't be too quick to forgive. We need to process it.