 Everything came undone and had to have another surgery. They had to take a portion of the muscle from her back and pull it around to her front. All of that is to say I understand mastectomies and what can and cannot happen, and I think if anyone in their head decides I have to go through a double mastectomy to conform my body to what my brain says I am, that person is seriously going through something, and we should be deeply, deeply empathetic to that person's mental state.