 And you don't have to, it's not about asking a question and then zoning out and thinking about your to-do list. By the way, we've always had that. Yes, I've had that myself. But I always, I remember somebody told me this. I don't remember if I read it in a book or someone told me. I've come across so much literature and guidance on the subject of parenting. But one of the things that I think I read was to teach your kids to get curious. And that's one of the ways that you,