 you have to have a sense of humor with them too. And, you know, whatever, like this little guy said to me, he was two and a half years old. I love you, Mrs. Diddy. You know, he couldn't say my name. And I said to him, I love you too, but there's rules and we have to follow them. Do you understand me? But I'm not crude or, you know, tough on them. They know I love them and they're looking for direction. They're looking for someone who,