 I know you say you don't want to give man advice. No, I say every man, you have to decide for yourself. But let's say the man came to you and said, Pearl, I know what you, but I don't care what you want, I demand. Why do I have to be in these hypothetical situations? Well, we're just discussing a concept in the abstract. And I think you're kind of sneaking around giving advice. Because I think you're saying, look, through my reason, I've arrived at this conclusion about what's rational and advisable, but I'm not giving advice. So let's get through all that. Let's say the man comes to you and says, Pearl, give me the advice.