 that's how you feel as a dad so if you just came out and said listen i love my son so much i want to be able to share this experience of being in the nba with them and i want the lakers to draft him so he and i can have these incredible memories i'd respect that but the fact that you're telling me that no no i think he gives us a really great chance to win and he's earned all this no don't lie to me don't stand there more and look me in the eye and lie to me tell me the truth and i'd accept it and i'd actually say you know what that's a pretty good dad