 sissy acting boy and i ain't trying to be ugly uh he just was he was raised by his grandmother never had a man's influence in his life and i had a son my son's about the same age and i said you know what we're gonna do we're gonna take that young man and we're gonna make a man out of it if it kills us i mean we're gonna take him bull riding and hang gliding and rock climbing and fishing and hunting and we did made a young man but we went fishing one day and uh