 you pay attention to the stuff but i am surprised that that that that's what he's saying and i certainly disagree with that i think um... even if there's not necessarily abuse involved sometimes you get divorced you marry the wrong person you're just at a point your life where it doesn't work out for whatever reason i think you should have the ability to uh... married someone else if all parties agree and have a better life for instance you know in terms of my own parents you know um...