 and, and, but he was the same way with family as he, as he was with the public saying to the doctors, what he said, saying to Nancy, what he said, saying to be his son, what he said, when I walked into a hospital room, you think they ever buy me a new suit. And it's much the way Trump is also acting and reacting to all of, all of these things. And, uh, that just shows absolute leadership. He's not angry. He's not mad. Uh,