 to make her softball career, not me, to her. I don't go to coaches making demands on this and that, my daughter has to do this or that on your team. There are not a lot of parents that do that. But I won't do that because that's like sending the wrong message to my kid. What message is that? Wait a minute, what message? Why don't you do that? I mean, listen. Why? Because I trust that my daughter has the ability and want to that over time –