 is uh the greatest thing on earth it really and um it wasn't until then that i i dug myself out of that hole and once i dug myself out of that hole i filed for paternity and i knew that i would break down any barrier and you know withhold no pity to anybody when it came down to my daughter because that was the one person i was going to protect and be there for till the day that i died i love that you had said that you never once thought about abortion