 very very interesting to see how far this is going to continue uh... i also wonder what role technology place the impact of things like online dating and and social media in this whole thing so i don't know it is interesting i have i know two people in their forties or getting married for the first time and you never saw that twenty five years now now what you did was a stigma if you were a forty-year-old guy never married the assumption was you were yet and a lot of people didn't want