 Because that actually teaches that, you know, get anxious, act crazy, and then we'll pick you up and get what you want. So you do want to kind of try to train some of these behaviors and reward the calm behaviors. So it's not probably ideal for what's going on in her world, but, you know, if she's happy and content and you don't think you'll be faced with problems when she's separated from you, then just know that that can present a problem down the road and your wife may call you and say, well, I'd