 little one but i don't want my wife to i want my wife to have time for herself i want her to be able to get her nails done when she wants to get her hair done when she wants to i don't want my wife worried about money i manage the finances all of that and so when two people are saying i love this other person enough that i'm gonna do all i can to make your life better i'm here to serve you and if both people in a marriage are serving each other then you have a great marriage