 The way their dad treats them, they'll see God that way. So if you're abusive to them, that's the way they'll see God. God's not abusive. He's loving. But he's also strict. He's also stern. He's also just. And so as a dad, we've got to stand our ground and let our kids know, hey, I love you, but no, we're not going to do that. We're not going to do that. Years ago, I heard an old preacher preaching.