 We should all strive, if you're a man, to be a good husband, and if you're the woman, to be a good wife. Even sometimes when we don't want to fulfill those roles, we should still strive to do it, to do our duty. But when you want to do it, when you're trying to, and here the husband is being a feminist, and he demands that you live like a liberal feminist, no. In that case, one of your wifely duties is to remind your husband that he's a husband. Because you're so right.