 And a lot of times, and this is what happened in the black community, and anybody can attest to this, a lot of the black men on the black blogs, they're always saying that these black women are so aggressive and they're so mean and they're not as compassionate as white women. These are black people saying this. This ain't me. And one of the reasons is because when you grew up in a single mother household as a girl, your mama don't need no man.