 And men seek that. And sometimes these women grow up in a way in which they feel like a man is not a man if he want a woman to be nurturing to him. It's like, well, a male boy grows up with that love and nurturing from his mama. And he don't get with you and you like his daddy. That is not that's not going to. And that's why young men a lot of times end up gay because they don't have a dad. So when you don't have male love.