 heroic and patriotic right he's i think he is a guy that likes to lead in those ways but he's the one that put the pressure on the obama administration to legalize gay marriage and he's the one that put pressure he said look i'm going to be the first one to appoint an african-american woman to a supreme court i'm going to have a female vice president this identity politics stuff matters to him or at least he's learned how to use it in a way that looks like it matters to him and so i think if you if you convinced him listen you can leave