 somewhere deeper with it, and that it's actually really not about the chores. The chores are just the easy grab to argue about because the dirty dishes are right in front of you. Yeah, you know, and what you're saying couldn't be any more true. Like I said, it took me more than a dozen years of post-divorce life to figure out why this was so severe. I said, come on, it's a pair of socks, relax, take it easy. And clearly, obviously, it was so much more than that, and I lacked the maturity to realize that at the time, or maybe even the empathy.