 We use too many words with kids in parenting. We need more action. Sometimes you take the little buzzard by the beak, so to speak, or you pull a rug out and let the little buzzard tumble, as I like to say, and it's sort of shocky. You sort of blindside them. Honey, I don't feel like getting you a glass of milk right now. I don't feel like driving you to your girlfriend's house right now.