 So my, anytime somebody is going through loss, like you've, you guys have worked through, I want everyone to stop if at all possible. It's not possible for your husband right now because y'all have to have groceries. You'll have to have insurance. You'll have to have some basic needs and neither of y'all are working right now and you can't afford to go get a job because you've got three kids that are at home, two of which have some pretty significant special needs. Okay. Yeah. Yeah.