 too much money on certain things. My wife, for example, I would confront her about it. And then she would make the statement of she works and that she wants to be treated like a child. But I want us to just be on the same page and worry about the future rather than, you know, the now moment. And I'm trying to get us out of debt. And I just feel like we're not on the same page. I was wondering, like, yeah, are there methods like kind of be like, hey, babe, you know, I'm thinking about the future. Yeah, there are.