 and you run across a woman talking about sex and answering questions that people have mailed in to her about, how do I do this? How do I do that? How do I know if she's happy? How do I know if he's happy? You know, I just can't do this, and I just don't seem to be able to do that, and she's answering those questions. But the lesson for all of us is she was in her 50s, and her first gig was only a 15-minute segment