 a house uh you've got equities you would i'm assuming you have more than just a bank account and a house correct i would say it's more of some property yeah well yeah you want to you you absolutely want to talk to us trust an estate lawyer and you tell your uh your husband you are completely out of your mind i mean there's a time to be cheap and there's the time to not uh does he buy uh for example use tires uh when uh his tires go south on his car