 having a church family a community around you and here's the thing i get it like anybody listening they're like i don't follow jesus i'm not into that i really don't care being in a place where people will love you and care for you it is such an answer that it's a place where you can go when you need somebody to look after the kids is a place where you can go if you need somebody to help you go down the car dealership and buy the right car somebody who has a car that they're selling it's some place where you can go where you're heartbroken and people will put their arms around you and pray with you