 But she's still over there, and she's the ex, and the only involvement you have is just around the children, and so we'll try to be nice and pleasant and give the appropriate amount of child support. As long as you're trying to do that, then I don't think you're going to have any issues. There's nothing she can just, you know, or unless she shows up at the doorstep and your husband just caves and starts handing her money, but that's a husband issue. That's not a protection issue then.