 and you might only drive it on warm sunny days you'd be so proud of your car you'd want everyone to see how much you value it and care for it you might even think about your car when you're busy doing other things investing that much energy in the car can be enjoyable but devoting that kind of passion to your wife well that can transform your marriage when your wife feels cherished by you her heart will come alive and she'll be much more willing to invest herself into her relationship with you