 But then for the women, we do tend to be, as you had mentioned, we tend to hope that our men can be mind readers. Don't they just know already? Don't I just have to say something? I remember a time after my first baby was born, sitting on the couch, breastfeeding and trying to eat dinner. And the baby was crying and it was not going well. And my husband came home from work shortly after, sits down on the couch, puts his feet up on the coffee table and opens a beer. And I was just seething.