 he, there is a line that he's crossed a long time ago. And it sounds like you're in this position where it's like, once I get my footing, I'm out the door. And I don't know what you guys have talked about in way of counseling. You know, I, I kind of have this acronym when you're in these situations, I always say it's, it's a safe acronym about keeping your money safe. And it's the S's you need to seek counsel. If you are experiencing things like a addiction, abuse, uh,