 tell you it's definitely going to strengthen that relationship as well yeah think about that so think about what a pro move it is like if a guy is listening to this and you really wanted to forget about scoring points for reading it just having the intel you know what i'm saying because it is in a lot of ways a cheat code that's a term we use in video games a cheat code where you could skip ahead to a higher level you've almost given the men a cheat code uh a cheat code sounds in the connotation of relationships like a bad thing but it's not that it just means