 now but you know you change very like you have kids you you you're you're more lenient as a parent you know i but i but when i was younger i believed in and child you know spanking a child and now i believe that light murder is okay you know light more like murder light a mild show light like it just happened just very bad what what are we gonna do yeah all right next question the next question i mean six kids will do that to you this is from someone named ted um let's see make sure i got the right one uh