 Her personal preference on who she dated and who she chose to love. No, bro, you can't out of one side of your mouth say it's important that she go to a black school, I mean, go to a black university, which means she a part of the community, but then she marry a white man, which divorces her from the community. Am I right or am I wrong? No, it doesn't. She was in the church, can't even keep up with the beat. What black community is she a part of? Because she went to an HBCU?