 You know, maybe not the part where you're turning tricks on the boardwalk so you can afford bus fare back to the city. I'm being silly. But you can't indulge a lot of your worst impulses if you're really committed to being a good parent. So in that regard, I say Lincoln is the best thing that ever happened to me. And I think embracing the fact that I didn't always have the answers is also empowering in its own right.