 that they see as a, you know, a brave decision to come out and become your true self. And so you get all these applause. But the moment that you hesitate and you're like, oh, well, maybe this is not me. Maybe I will not become more happy. Maybe this is a wrong decision. The moment you start thinking like that, you get like thrown out from this community pretty much. And you get, you're like considered like a bad sheep and you're,