 the financial thing I don't feel like is what I, what I want advice on. It's the relationship piece. I have three young kids who love their grandpa and, um, can we go for it? How do we go forward? I ended my letter saying, you're still my dad. I still love you. You're still welcome to have a relationship with me and the kids. Um, so I just haven't heard anything. Do you live by him? No, he lives, uh, he lives in Michigan. I live in Colorado.