 you know very weird that's okay it's an interesting discussion though yeah if broke people are making fun of your financial plan you are on track that's one of the things we always say is a great joke line yeah and it's like if fat people are making fun of your diet then you're right on track you know it's the same deal right and uh so if you've been divorced 62 times i hope this next marriage works for you but i don't want to read your book on marriage