 But they had to come up with it, just like they do with racism. And in the LGBT trans world, they have to come up with the control to control your thoughts and actions. Everything is coming from that sense of control. I have to shame you. I have to make you say my pronoun. If you want to be kind and respectful, you're going to say it. You're going to say it. You're going to join me in my delusion.