 Well, maybe not. Hi, this is Jim Daley with Focus on the Family. The truth is a lot of parents keep doing for their children the types of things they need to let them learn to handle on their own. Of course, a parent's job is to provide. But as a child grows, more and more responsibility needs to be turned over to them so he or she can learn to solve their own problems. This is a skill they're going to need when they're out in the big world as adults.