 Right? You're trying to be nice. Do not put that on my plate. Meat is fine. Corn on the cob is fine. Broccoli is fine. French fries are fine. A beer is fine. Something like potato salad, I should have to decide whether I want that on there or not. Yes. I'm the person in the family, go to Carl and Donna to make the potato salad. However, I'm sick of making it.