 You might even think about your car when you're busy doing other things. Investing that much energy into a car can be enjoyable, but devoting that kind of passion to your wife, well, that can transform your marriage. When your wife feels cherished by you, her heart will come alive, and she'll be much more willing to invest herself into her relationship with you. And for all the guys who really don't know how to cherish their wives very well, there's great news. It's a skill you can develop today.