 by texting 98 98 98 and text my name kate k-a-t-e as the in the message just k-a-t-e so simple but do that for me right now i really appreciate it i've got midwest melissa with me and i was just going to say just a brief one minute on this if it comes to where you don't realize where uh where the baby starts and you have a hard time in a conversation on um when life begins