 anything other than a godly wife. Secondly, we need to look for a wife who possesses beauty that is deeper than the skin, deeper than the skin. I don't know of anyone who sets out to find a spouse who's physically unattractive, but the importance of a gentle and a quiet spirit is almost unquantifiable. A wise fellow looks for a woman who possesses a natural radiance rather than a glow that comes from a bottle.