 and felt unable to extricate themselves. They thought that they could evangelize Him. They thought that they could bring Him round. I sat with them and said, if He's not about to bow before your Savior while He doesn't have your hand in marriage, do you think He's going to do when you marry Him? Oh yes, I'm sure. He promised me that when we get married and so on it goes. And I've had occasion just to sit and say to the girl, you can either cry now or you can cry later. You can cry now because you've lost Him or you can cry later because you've got Him.