 Uh, but yeah. And by the way, Allison, he's going to stop calling you and he's going to blame you. Who gives a crap? And these are not your, these are, you got to move on. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cause you create a pattern where he, he's going to be pissed off when you don't keep giving him free money and coddling him. But yeah, honey, you've really, this is you, you, you, you need to love your son better.