 And so he's got a lot of changing to do, and you've got, you've put up with this for so long, you've become accustomed to crazy, and you kind of think crazy's normal, so you've got some changing to do. Because crazy ain't normal. What you're describing is not normal, and I'm a little bit aghast that it took you this long to wake up. There's something broken in you that caused you to wait this long to wake up. Yeah.