 That's not what kindness is. I realize that's still pandering. It felt wrong still. It still went against my gut instinct. And I realize, no, it's kind to say the truth. That's what love is. I'm not saying it to be offensive. I'm not saying it to deliberately hurt someone's feelings. I'm saying it to be authentic and to show that it's okay to use clearer language. Our language has been, and this is one of the most eye-opening things I've learned these past two years,