 because you set yourself up for problems. You set your uncle up for problems. You set up relationships for problems. You're living on the edge, and you don't even know it. You don't even feel it. You've not assessed the risk that you're under correctly. You've taken on way more risk than your heart is grasping, or you're about to. Please don't. Just take your time. Every time I read the book The Tortoise and the Hare, the tortoise wins. So be the tortoise.