 which means money in a checking account, not knowing who's knocking on the door to tell you that you owe a bajillion more dollars on your ex-husband's behalf. They would want a mom with peace more than they want this giant $600,000 house and a mom who's just walking around stressed all the time and who's going to ring the doorbell next. I'm not saying you have to sell the house. I'm afraid it's not worth it.