 They want to know whether they should attend this function or that function, whether they should apply to this school or that school in the earlier days, whether these shoes are right with these trousers, or whether this skirt looks good with these heels, or whether my hair looks good here or over there, or whether you like this color on me now or then, and you're just dying under the weight of all the decisions that you have to make in order to help you chart your course. And then all of a sudden, out of the blue,