 some of our plans for our upcoming travel it's all going to be there so you know we can all we can we can easily kind of work together on it but then there were some other parts of it that i think people really reacted strongly to around their relationship like they had a section called principles which kind of laid out what's important to them as a couple and they had a section called learnings that outline you know things they've learned about each other like what which love languages they are