 mother you could think maybe well maybe there was some more spite but i think dad just looked at it went yeah and the other family members are like i'm not i have no responsibility for her of course i don't and uh but then it lands back it lands back on alissa and then when she came at alissa alissa went back went yeah but you bought an airline ticket that's true and you got this prescription and you got these other things you could have you know it's a matter of choices and you're making bad choices tone matters but i think the girl