 Erin says, I'm 32 years old and my fiance is 29, and together we are worth $1.4 million. We have no debt, but I'm having trouble justifying the cost of our wedding. With current quotes, we estimate the total cost to be around $50,000 to $65,000, and that is after cutting out a lot of things that you traditionally plan around a wedding, like a bachelor or bachelorette trip.