 We can make this a better place. We can love each other again. We can disagree without hating each other. We can have passionate debates, and we do. Now Cox acknowledged that while the United States is deeply divided, most Americans are tired and want to change, but that change won't be easy. I feel like in our country today, we've gotten really, really good at tearing things down, and people down, and institutions down, and parties down, and building is hard.