 spiritual lives. And this one is, um, part of the spiritual life series that you've written. And I want to, uh, uh, to really get a sense of, of, you know, in as much as you can, a real sense of the impetus for you wanting to write this particular, uh, book and, and the, the major takeaways from it. Sure. Um, well, I, I grew up in the suburbs of Philadelphia, um,