 listen well you know that's interesting because the fetching mrs hewitt and my son who were watching with me both got up and left fetching mrs hewitt just can't stand it because of course if you've had her father died from alzheimer's and parkinson's and we've all seen this show before and it's awful for people who are living with it to watch this and my son who is uh separating from the navies on terminal leave they call that so he's done his eight years served his country been in harm's way