 and it becomes a manipulation and all that kind of stuff. Like, you know, well, only when we have a big fight is when I yell at you and say, it's my money. Yeah. But other than that, I say it's our money. You know, and it's like, yeah, if you're going to play that, that's a power play. It's a manipulation play. And then that's when you find out what's in the heart, out of the abundance of the heart.