 uh servicer so that i can pay her back without interest and so i'm just wondering if um because i've heard you kind of go against inter-family loans and saying that that might rub the relationship and i don't want to do that with my grandmother so i was just wondering if if i should tell her that that's a good thing to do or if just taking a gift maybe you know less than the full amount of the loans i just am wondering how to navigate that yeah