 But John, you and Dina adopted. We did, yeah. That was a foreign adoption, not quite the same thing, but our son had gone through some trauma in an orphanage over there. And so I'm identifying, I wish I had your wisdom, Bishop, because there's a real, it's just hard sometimes. These kids bring so many different things. They're just equipped to manipulate. That's just survival, as you said earlier. Yeah, it's so true. Sharon, ending with you then, wait no more here, focus on the family. So people are going, okay, what do I do? It is kind of a...