 Now once you have heard them you state your point of view. Hopefully they will listen to you as you have listened to them. Now you need to try to find a compromise perhaps. Some kind of resolution. Ephesians 4.26 says don't let the sun go down on your anger. In other words don't go to bed mad at each other. Fight to resolve not to win. If you go into it to win you lose even if you win.