 at the forefront of an argument i think there's often a much deeper thing at play and i know you mentioned in your intro there that sometimes there can be some wounds you carry from your past or things like that that you're bringing with you with that sock on the ground so it becomes much more than just the sock on the ground so i think that um it's just important to note that yes chores can be a leading division point but i think oftentimes it's a call to go