 The ability to laugh will get couples through more than a few rough spots. I think about Susan when she came to Scotland with me after we were married. First of all, I had no money. She had a little money that she'd saved. I took all her money and we used it to get back to Scotland. We sailed on a, we cruised to London from the port of New York. Don't get any illusions about how beautiful it was. It was horrendous.