 you know, isn't looking to have a relationship with a person. They're just looking to discover the physical world. And that's fine. If you're a scientist, that's absolutely fine. You don't need to have a relationship with the elements that you're studying. Well, you do want to interreact with them and especially control them. You know, the elements and find out what does what and how they interreact. It's not the kind of relationship you're