 My husband will never be able to have a relationship with his father. Okay, that's different. That's different. That's different than destroying your finances. Well, it's kind of a combo question. No, it's not. No, it's not. Your husband and his dad can choose to have a relationship in spite of the Parent PLUS Loan issue and without you agreeing to pay the Parent PLUS Loan. And so at no time have you destroyed your finances because