 10 million open jobs that nobody wants to take, workers dropping out of the workforce, grown adults living at home with their parents and so on. We aren't seeing that people forego families and then go out into the work world and obsessively pursue their ambitions. That still wouldn't be the right way to live, in my opinion, but that's not what's happening. What we find more often is that people give up on kids and soon everything else follows. In the end, it's hard to, we find, in the end, it's hard to live for other people, but it's harder to live for yourself.