 But ladies, your husband wants to be cherished just as much as you do. A friend told me about a man who was once an elite swimmer, a champion in both high school and college. We'll call him Gary. The training and dedication required of Gary to compete was woven so deeply into his life that he lost an important part of himself after he retired. What got him through that confusing time of life was the way his wife cherished him. In the midst of his struggle...