 Shut up and enjoy the day. But it doesn't mean no boundaries. That's right, yeah. We're going to set the boundaries. We're going to set a game plan, detail, line item out the budget. You're a nerd. You'll be able to do that. You and your spouse agree to it. Be kind and gentle and just smile and tell everyone, no, that is, we've, you know, whatever her name is and I have agreed to this. No, we've agreed to this. No, this is what we've agreed to. We need to bring it back down to that. And this is what we've agreed to. Well, we can't do that because this is what we've agreed to.