 Yeah, and that's the problem. We can't control it all. Life is not personal. Life just is. We make it personal because we feel like we have to control things that we can't really control. So what it boils down to is learning to accept life on its terms instead of our terms. My near's intention is to love everything that gets in the way, or at least to forgive everything that gets in the way, like the person who cuts me off in traffic.