 some kids can do something when they're can do a lot of talking when they're moving and then other kids love to just sit on the couch and extrapolate and talk and process and that's good that's very good I'll tell you we have some wonderful parents out there who are in the know it's absolutely stunning to me the kind of knowledge that our parents have now and they're doing a good job and they're working hard and of course they care about the kids and