 that child can't unsee that and that's going to mean something to them and how they interpret that, no one can really predict. Are they going to be responsible and feel a sense of stewardship and shepherding what their parents have accomplished? Or are they going to have a downside where we're out to dinner with mom and dad and they didn't offer to pay for that? Gosh, what? That's a really tough dynamic. So we want to caution our client's