 And then you take up residence there. And you get desperate, you know, when you feel like you don't have anywhere to look. It's like, oh, these are my only choices. I'm like, no, you need somebody with some sense to tell you otherwise. Well, because one of the things when you're in pain, you lose perspective. And you think that it's going to end in ashes. And what Elizabeth Elliot said, one thing I'm perfectly sure, God's story never ends in ashes.