 works and that she wants to be treated like a child, but I want us to just be on the same page and worry about the future rather than, you know, the now moment and I'm trying to get us out of debt and I just feel like we're not on the same page. I was wondering like, yeah, are there methods like kind of be like, Hey babe, you know, I'm thinking about the future. Yeah, there are. Here's a personal question. Do you treat her like a child? Mm hmm.