 What often happens is these conversations and arguments happen because the family never thought about it. And everybody just assumes what mom and dad wanted. When if mom and dad would have just had a very clear conversation or a written plan saying, hey, this is my intention. It's easier to have that conversation and think through that and say, hey, guys, at Thanksgiving this year, was there anything in this house that you really wanted? And most people, it'll become really obvious. Well, I want this or I want that.