 Sort of what what leads to things kind of becoming like going off the rails that we are already making assumptions about each other. Yes, I totally agree. And one of the things I relate to that as a marriage and family therapist is when I was counseling couples and they weren't communicating, then that narrative starts. And I liken it to if you've ever filled out Mad Libs, we start to fill in adjectives, nouns, you start to create a story.