 and she's going to say, oh, I thought we were on a budget. And you said, I'm just pausing it for one meal. And I want you to take her out, and I want you to put your spreadsheet, because I know you knucklehead. I've already put this in a spreadsheet. And I want you to, however you've mapped it out, I want you to put it on the table, and I want you to say, this was me trying to love you, and I'm sorry because I was wrong. And then I want you to look at her and say, I am scared to death about our financial future.