 I found difficult to wrestle with, right? Because I did empathize with the personal reparations that she wanted. She felt taken advantage of by her family and left to do all the hard work. And that's what she wanted to talk about, what was most close to her, not these abstract ideas about whether her father was a racist or not. Because what does that matter? Because her father loved her. Her father was the last man in the family who gave her the time of day.