 death and for many of us it comes to the death of a loved one or a diagnosis and we are confronted time all of a sudden becomes a really precious thing and I think after sitting in the interview chair and edit bay for so many years that has sort of steeped into my soul and it's like every moment matters every time I get on the ground on my stomach with my kids matters every interaction I have with a stranger matters and to Mary's experience that her life rippled out across 30