 we need to have the ability to empathize, sympathize with other people's situations. And it's difficult, especially when we have our own problems and, and we feel that our problems are worse than others. I mean, I have a friend of mine who tells me all the time, you know, pain and suffering is not a competition. Everybody's going through it at the same time. Uh, we're going to a few calls right now. Cause there are a lot of people that have been waiting for about an hour and I want to get them on to talk to you. Let's go to Jerry in Pennsylvania. You're on with Jason and Steven. Go ahead. Hi, quiet. Thanks for taking my call. Uh,