 i have each and every one of my clients read that and after they read that i tell them that my commitment to you as your therapist is that i will not let you self-abandon i will not let you reject yourself i will be on this journey with you and i will remind you that you are the most important person in your life because your life does not exist and your life does not work without you and so the assignment that i give to every client if you are listening right now you know i'm telling the truth