 You know, very small molehills become very big mountains. A great example of this comes from the TV show Seinfeld. The character Elaine is on a crowded subway train, happily thinking about an upcoming wedding she's about to attend. I'm really looking forward to this. I love weddings. Maybe I'll meet somebody. Maybe not. Oh, man. We're stopping? Oh, this is great. This is what I need. Just what I need.