 okay yeah we'll walk with you kiddo and you need to get out of this hotel and you need to get out of this lease and you need to throw your shoulders back and get your dignity back because you're worth way more than you sound like you think you're worth so you hold on and we'll pick up and get you hooked up with one of our coaches and they'll plug you into a good church and between the two we're gonna get you in community and get yourself squared around hang on kiddo this is the ramsey show