 discipline and my parents were very smart they told me you're only as popular as the show that you're in so don't ever let it go to your head don't think that you're above anybody else you know but at the same time dick it wasn't very easy because you know i i've done some research back here and you know your mom supposedly was such a strong-willed i mean it's i guess in a good sense but but it must have wreaked havoc on home life and i i think that kind of even uh caused some kind of a riff at home am i correct