 She was already choosing them from the church. Yes, and everyone was waiting for them to witness this marriage. Mark went ahead and applied for a visitor's visa to the U.S., and Ladi wrote an official letter to the U.S. Embassy in Salon, inviting him to come. Next up was an interview with a woman at the American Embassy. She said to him, What is your name? I showed her my name. And who is this to you? I said, she is my lover.