 That stuff comes from dads. It's very hard for a woman, any woman, a mother, to connect with a 14-year-old or 15-year-old boy. Especially once they're post-puberty. That's what I mean. Once hormones and adolescence and everything kicks in. You've got to have a dad who sometimes grabs you by the scruff of the neck and talks to you. The best privilege in America today is a two-parent household.