 uh... yes he is okay and did he come around to see as you're growing up and didn't really hear from him uh... no i probably see him about once every five years just because i wanted my daughters to meet him one time yeah yeah did he start coming around once you're successful uh... no okay well let's go back so so you're growing up the industry and and everybody in your areas working for the factories and i guess your parents your mom expected your mom expected you