 okay and say this is just the way that it is sorry i know you like your uh your snapchat avatar handle whatever it may be uh and instagram but you know our safety is paramount because you don't know where that phone is or who or who has access to it but the fact that she's in oregon and it still says she's in tucson there's some monkey business going on okay if you want me to you know i'm happy to talk to your daughter too by the way i know you said she gets upset and agitated but