 when you're taking on responsibility and that's not your responsibility caring something as a seventeen-year-old kid that you don't need to carry your young man and this is not your job the adults in her life failed her your mom and dad are being generous in giving her a place to stay it is not your job to finance her life at seventeen okay or relieve you of that it's not an act of love on your part it's an act of desperation and displaced misplaced honor