 think it is the important stuff is being taken care of this is one thing i've never quite understood about the the trans movement like i i'd they live it live your life the way you see fit i harbor no ill will towards you live your life be you okay but i don't understand why anybody in that movement would have a problem with ball boys and ball girls because if you've decided if you were biologically born a male but have decided you are a female isn't the claim that you're a female so if someone calls you a girl would that be offensive to you