 the mouth speaks so when someone is saying something you need to listen because it's coming from inside of them oh yeah because if the words that people use do matter and so i'm listening to that i'm watching that i'm thinking about that so you're going to be on the other side of that justin and you're going to be just fine yeah y'all are going to the point is bust through it and it doesn't matter and over time both of you will adopt the proper pronouns regarding your money