 okay you know so-and-so gets the wedding ring and I'm in charge of investments and you know you're going to do this piece and it just it makes things a lot smoother for those who are are trying to struggle through that tough process anyway Gary you've always taught us that once or twice a year you need to do a little looking back do a little study as to where you've been in six months or a year and where you're going to go in the next year why is that so important