 A mother that he'll listen to. So you need to say, honey, I'm going to marriage counseling because I'm afraid our marriage is going to end because I'm terrified that I'm married to an addict. You are completely out of control. I'm going to go see a marriage counselor to try to save our marriage. I hope you'll come. Okay. And set an appointment and go. Okay. Regardless of whether he goes or not, you go without him.