 and we are just going to turn off so we would like at the end of the day on Friday we would make sure that we got off at the same time and that we would go to a hotel usually attached to the Mall of America and we would say we have five minutes to talk about work before we can't talk about work the rest of the weekend and so for the next two days we would just go to the mall we would you know go to movie we would go to eat we would have beautiful and rich conversations with one another