 that's the truth. And I think that's why it's so relatable for so many people too, because they can see themselves in a lot of these characters and a lot of the challenges that they have. I just, I, it's so funny because the number one challenge that I come across as a romance author is convincing people that think they don't like romance to read romance. And, you know, if you can get the right romance into somebody's hands, you can convert them and make them a lifelong romance lover. And I think that's,