 I'd get started. I'd break down. I'd start to make my dressing and I would break down. And finally, I remembered one of her dresses. And I went and got the dress out of the closet and brought it in here in my kitchen and hung it up on the back door. And I felt as if she was in the room, like she was saying, OK, girl, you know, come on. And it just cracked open this whole much larger thing for me.