 carry around cake for later. I don't carry around a sewing kit. I'm out. I'm partying. I'm having fun, which I think is really fascinating because it reminds me of long nails that don't let you do much with your hands or high heels that don't let you walk very far. These things that are actually limiting, but they are liberating in some ways because it is such a luxury to not do anything and to look like you don't have to do anything.