 Just off the main kitchen, there's a powder room. Jeff in his wheelchair can't get through the doorway. He has a jug by his bed to relieve himself, and he uses a commode in the garage. The only usable shower is located in his mother's house, 15 minutes away. They call beforehand to let her know that they are coming over. Jamie once saw their home as a place they would stay until their golden years, but that's changed.