 yeah i'm speaking with julie bauke career strategist we call julie on the job and we're talking about office romances since the spotlight has shined brightly or shown brightly lately on bp after it ousted its ceo bernard looney for failing to disclose personal relationships um how would you handle it then so you sort of raised the question but i'm gonna i'm gonna ask you you're the expert what do you i mean is a policy i mean it's good to have a policy