 How long have they been married? How long has she been your stepmom? 16 years now. Okay, so this is locked in. What's your relationship with her? It's really terrible. She was physically and verbally abusive when I was little. Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. So, yeah. So, I'm not trying to put words in your mouth. You're looking at this and you're going, this woman is dragging my dad down. A little bit, yeah.