 I I sympathize with what you're saying because I you know, they're your parents. You love them. You see them drowning and you want to save them. Right. But at the same time, you've got to get yourself into the raft first and save yourself so that you can pull them into somewhere safe. So there's there's all of that there. It sounds like your dad, at the very least, it sounds like he's willing to talk to you somewhat about this.