 as a godly wife, you know, I've, I've been doing your program for like 13 to 15 years. So thank you for all your help. I've got a house, a car and everything is fine on my end, but on his end, it is not. And I am not sure what is like my responsibility financially as a godly wife and what is how to get him to talk to me about finances. He won't do it with you. He just doesn't like you at all. I'm sorry. Yeah.