 And if they don't, the parent that want the kid has to take full responsibility for the child. If a man decides that he want the baby and the woman don't want the baby, then the man has to take full responsibility of the child so she can forego her rights. Vice versa. And I don't want to hear any excuse of women talking about we carry the baby. Well, you had sex too. I'm going to say this until I'm green in the face. I do understand the excuse. Men don't have an excuse either.