 So a young man can see what he want to replicate in his wife and family, and he know what it's like to be a man because a man lived in his house. And the same thing with a woman, a woman who knows how to treat a husband. And a lot of times, and this is what happened in the black community, and anybody can attest to this, a lot of the black men on the black blogs, they're always saying that these black women are so aggressive and they're so mean and they're not as compassionate as white women. These are black people saying this. This ain't me.