 I've never seen it like this. 25% of millennials, their parents are paying their housing, house payment, their rent, or they're living in their basement. You pay your kids' bills. Psychologists call that enabling. As a matter of fact, enabling is quite the opposite of loving. The Ramsey Show, weekday afternoons at 3 on 830-WEEU. The voice of Berks and beyond. 830-WEEU-Reading.