 makes you feel good about your choices in life watch that show you're gonna feel really good about your choices in life but if you know there's a lot of um cultures in which men run the show that's just the way it is i love american women who marry these uh guys who come from muslim countries and then they're surprised that he thinks they're surprised when he tells her how to dress and how to act and what she can and can't do etc and i'm just like you know would have helped if you picked up a book i'm just saying you know get online do a little quick search about what culture is like in the country