 moms and dads don't want to do that right but at the end of the day it's a good way to start just being responsible no different than going into a physical and saying all right where am i at am i staying flat am i obviously going down a little bit and it's hard like if you talk to these neurologists and because we're in this industry we've talked to you know dozens it's very hard to tell the difference between a cognitive issue and a mom and dad that just don't listen