 yeah completely i know completely everyone's takeaway well i only bring it up because i'm about to play you an audio clip okay and i mean this and and and before you hear the audio clip i i want you to make a promise we're on 150 radio stations you got it no and i mean this i'm not trying to be funny don't you ever and i'll i'll promise you the same thing we're in love we're married been together 20 years we have a kid don't you ever do to me what this woman did to her husband last night and i will vow not to do the same to you uh here is the clip josh clip 41