 Remember, I'm not a marriage counselor. I'm a plant counselor. Usually when I hear my wife wants to do this and I want to do that, I usually get a little nervous because that could be a dangerous, slippery slope that I do not want to cross. I mean, I'm happily married since 1986 and I plan to stay that way and I will do whatever my wife asks me to do and directs me to do because she is the boss.