 That's what I said. And he's going through, he wants to, he's 64 years old, and he wants to go through bankruptcy to get rid of his debt. That's not taking responsibility. And I'm like, do not do that. I don't know if he's bankrupt or not, but what we've got here is a bigger problem. The debt and the out of control is a symptom of his arrogance and his pride and the two of you not working together. And those are marriage issues and really what you're calling us about.