 You feel like you're losing something in order to make others happy. These decisions rarely stick, and even if they do, the person that made the decision can be miserable to live with because he or she felt manipulated or coerced into the decision. The key to change is the will to change. A deep-seated want to leads to a choice that leads to a lasting commitment. Life simply requires that we try our best. Mitch Anthony reminding you once again that life is whatever you make it.