 accepting of yourself. It's your willingness to work at it and try. What was the rest of the backlash like? I'm, I'm guessing she wasn't alone in her critique. Did the, um, did the, the race hustling left jump on top of you after that saying, I can't believe that, you know, you didn't say you were black. Uh, yes. So, uh, after that exchange, uh, a few, um, a few, uh, exchanges, exchanges later, um,