 When I was in my early to mid-20s and I was contemplating the idea of what marriage looks like in that process that you go through, and I would say the same things to myself. Why do I got to ask dad? That's a conversation I don't need to have. It's her call. I mean, if it's her call, why do I have to go ask dad? I'm not asking him to marry me. I'm asking her. And when you're young like that and you have control or you feel like you have control of your life,