 urging that. So I'm going to stay out the way and trust God, blah, blah, you know, and everything. So she stays out the way and I tell my mom, I'm kind of feeling torn. Like, Hey mom, I, I'm not, you know, I'm on both y'all. My mom says, I understand. I said, God's leading me to do this. I help him pack. He's talking to me. He leaves. He comes back about six months later, just to visit. And he's bragging about, uh,