 not a good relation at all healthy enough the abuse and stuff uh... it wasn't worked out yet but something in my heart was just like i forgave him you know actually forgave him so i'm sitting here ministering this this young man not to kill his father and to give him a chance and he listened to me and he said to me he said since you he said the only one i would probably listen to is you that told me that because i know you come from what i come out of and i see you're a really sincere