 And so in the book, I give a number of tools to help them break that log jam. The only way you can break it free is you just got to pull one log out at a time. And what are those logs in your marriage that are keeping the communication from flowing that are going to kill you if you don't break this thing free? What are some examples to solve it? So often we can overlook this, but just pray. Pray, ask God to help you.