 so i you know i'm in your bar you had this amazing band playing and you know they take requests so i'm sitting here with paula and i'm dying for it and i was behind like five or six other people and they all recognized me they're going i'm like no no you go first and they're throwing 10s and 20s so i went up to the guy and i was like hey man i go here's a big ben i need you to play for me my my wedding song alison krauss you know when you say well keith whitley but you said nothing at all right i need you to play it and a guy looks at me saying for a benny