 And how much of a slap in the face it is for him to say that, especially when these families are out there and are suffering from their losses. So this is one of the Gold Star families. ...members, bodies were returned to the U.S. in Dover, Delaware. Joe Biden met the plane. But he made the occasion more about his son, lost to cancer, than our sons and daughters lost on his watch. Worse than that, he has never said their names out loud.