 you stem from a lot of this for sure. If he's possessive with girls and things like that now, a lot of that stems from his insecurities and the breakdown of the way things should be and that expectation that if you're expecting something to be one way, as he might have expected your father to be one way, and it didn't go down that path, then he's trying to control whatever he can to make sure he doesn't go down that path. And in doing so, he's