 affirming that confusion is cruelty but i think belittling them is also cruelty so the question is how do we actually get to the bottom of what many of these kids are struggling through rather than resorting to physical intervention how about for adults do you have a different attitude if it's an adult my attitude for adults is this you're free to live your life how you want without the government standing in your way and you deserve to be treated with dignity but that's different from kids kids are not the same as adults now on adults i also believe this