 And so you never talked to him? Well, I, by the time, by the time I looked up and he had been talking to this person for a long time and I just felt like, well, I could go butt in and probably save him, but he looked like he was engaged and happy. So I didn't want to, you know, I didn't want to go back. We were sitting, Gwen and I were sitting there and with Corey Miller and, and some of the guys and just relax. And so we were, I think it was before I went on stage and did our thing, but it was his past year. Uh,