 so joseph that was the most husband answer we didn't really have let's be clear candace told him not to do it let's be clear and he didn't listen and he had a spreadsheet he was like no no you don't understand here's what's going to happen and she was like i don't feel good about it he's like no no you don't get it and this is a classic class then he was like you want to take fpu again if you talk to candace if you talk to sharon ramsey she'll tell you i did the exact same thing okay just it's okay