 and showing you the way and even maybe helping you a little bit with the money stuff but we're not going to give you money we're just going to you got plenty of money your money's just out of control because your heart's messed up okay so we'll walk with you kiddo and you need to get out of this hotel and you need to get out of this lease and you need to throw your shoulders back and get your dignity back because you're worth way more than you sound like you think you're worth