 Contact with people who understand what you've been through is what I tell people. Don't bottle it up. Don't live with it alone. But begin to seek out other people who have had this shared experience, and thereby I think there is a new culture of consciousness of these phenomena that is growing in our midst. So the nature of the cover-up, if this phenomenon, when we talk about the paradoxical nature of it, and I use the term inscrutable,