 yes i i i would be willing to work it work it hard at the 5 000 a month for two to three more years then i need to really cut it down to like a third of that okay so then why don't you do that and then you don't have to get a real job i don't care that you're not contributing to a retirement account i just care that you're meeting your needs that you're not dipping into that brokerage account how do you pay the lpl broker um i have no idea she takes her money on the side