 When I see someone who is living a good life, who is respected, honest, upright, I know beyond doubt that they did not come by that easily. They worked at it. Their parents worked on it. Their friends modeled for them. People cared about them and wanted them to be that person. In other words, they did not do it themselves. They had help. Just like with those crabbers, they have the will and the experienced hands show them the way.