 and uh because you cleaned up the mess got the income up got the career shift done and did all of that in a in a cheaper cost of living area and got your foundation like so it's not as if this is a decision that has to be a permanent decision um it is it's you don't want to jump and move every three weeks it's expensive emotionally and financially but but sometimes folks go i'll never be back yeah you can be back you just decide to this is the ramsey show