 Does she shower? Does she brush her teeth? Yeah. Does she like doing those things? No? Yeah. You do them because it's part of being an adult. So she needs to understand that some things you do, even though you don't like doing them, she's got to act like an adult instead of a child because she's 63 years old. I'm afraid you're going to have to go back to work, Lee, because she doesn't want to do the work on herself and on your marriage, so you may have to go back to work. She's going to find more things to get payments on if you're not careful.