 sudden or gradual whatever the case may be so we're going to broadcast this on all 238 stations it will be up on youtube so if it's your husband or it's your wife or it's your dad okay or your mom that you want to tell you know don't listen to me go watch this go up on the youtube channel pull it down or go up on one of the podcast channels and they can listen to it you know while you've got them in the car okay