 and see how it manifests itself. See if he ever uses it for something constructive or if it's just low-grade rage, which is totally unproductive, and see that there. The best advice is to be who you are. You continue to be his big sister. Not to force those ideas on him, but you had said that he'd come and he'd ask you things. If he's coming and asking things of you, it's because he trusts you and believes you and he's hearing you.