 to stop the you know the hate i think he's got an opportunity we know there's a saying uh this is usually about relationships that the same things that bring us together the same things that tear us apart yeah we'll flip it the same thing that tears apart also bring us together bring us the other moment like this yeah it's just going to be you know we've always you know i always talk about like god when we're gonna have a 9-11 moment not that we want another 9-11 or any 9-12 yeah 9-12 moment you know where we kind of like hey it's more about america than it is us you know