 might pocket a little bit out of this it might might be but it's not you're not going to make you rich to raise these kids but it's not going to cost you anything to raise these kids and so then they know that's going on and then the trustee knows what your intentions are and you've talked that through the trustee so you don't die and then everybody has to figure out this is what you're trying to do you cover all of it while you're alive yeah we did the same and and it's it is there's a great piece it's sobering too what it is it's heavy no question