 i mean i don't care if you lived with the worst spendthrift in the world you got enough money you're living your life and thank god you got that pension so by the way people who are getting divorced be very careful before you just give up on the pension and just say oh i want to do this versus that and these are assets that have great value down the line like a pension so important can really really help you so i think you're in really good shape which is fun jason writes