 three years ago um and i'm having i'm having trouble trusting him or three three months ago i'm having trouble trusting him with money i'm like well you should have trouble trusting him with money he's been dry for a whole three months that's reasonable but if he if you call me up and say you've been dry for three years or 10 years and you're having trouble now that's on you that's not on him anymore because he's demonstrated a pattern of not returning to the bottle