 And so has she said, I'm out of control, I need help, I don't know what to do, I'll do anything? Yes, yes. That's called repentance, and that's a chance of turning this around. If she said, well, it's just the way life is, you're screwed. No, no, no, no, no. She's been crying, she's been carrying the shame for years, trying to struggle, trying to get out of it without finding solutions for it.