 I thought about where he is now and what he's doing. And what he is doing with that college degree is amazing. And this is what popped out of my mouth, and I just said to my husband, he is where he is because he was where he was. And instantly I thought there is a lesson in that. Personally, we are the people we are because of where we were, all the experiences we went through, everything that's happened to us has combined to make us who we are.