 I'm struck by how young you both were at the time. You were 19 years old. You are forced out of the military. What do you say to family? You both chuckle at that, but I don't suppose it was funny at the time. No, no. So for me, I had one family member that I was talking to by phone, a trusted aunt. And she knew the truth of what was happening. But I wasn't gay when I went in. I left a boyfriend behind. I didn't know I was gay.