 loneliness and abandonment hurts very deeply for women. And so very often when the two of you are getting into some sort of a conflict or you're getting irritated with each other, one of those four buttons is getting pushed. The husband is feeling disrespected or he's feeling like he's failing, he's a loser. Or the wife is not feeling well loved by the husband or she's feeling lonely in the relationship because the husband is ignoring her and not paying good attention to her. All right?