 then they're feeling secure in your love and your high opinion of them, and then they're a little less likely to be asking for it and bragging about it. Another thing is, I think, do not participate with them in any unkind speech about other people, but point out other people's virtues. And I think that can be very, very helpful. And another thing is, too, I think, at the right time, gently point out to them that,