 And so if a man feels emasculated, and from a wife perspective, I think the proper thing to do is to go and talk to him to see why does this bother you? Why does this make you feel emasculated? As opposed to just expecting him to get with the program. Gotcha. Phyllis is back. Phyllis, thanks. I'm sorry we lost your signal back there. Sure. I'll let you pick it up. No problem. Oh, no, I just wanted to point out that when I was married and my children were small, my husband and I after dinner would look at each other and one would say,