 parents and some of the navigation when things haven't been what we hoped what we needed and healing from that so just a thought to throw in psalm 27 from the old testament while we're talking about this but i did want to say congratulations amanda on your baby and i really admire your self-awareness and your courage to ask this question but also to recognize that this something's up it needs to be worked on that congratulations on your marriage and your baby even in challenging seasons that come it's a part of thank you so much