 is there's everything, it's not necessarily true. And so you're always posting your best self, you know, when you look your best or when you're on that great vacation or whatever else, and you build up this false image that you think, well, only if I present this will I be enough to stay in a relationship. But the truth is, we can't sustain that. We can't sustain a lie, a lie that maybe we even create ourselves.