 What would have helped if you picked up a book? I'm just saying, you know, get online, do a little quick search about what culture is like in the country in which you're in love and you're going there to marry the love of my life. But Hispanic males do come from a very macho society. And so having these preachy white women, and that's exactly what this is with their blue hair and this and that, and you can always see them coming.