 Part of this is if we don't meet them with like love and compassion and understanding and kind of a more growth mindset of we can learn from the relapse and we can learn from the addiction, it's going to continue the shame spiral, which keeps us from actually healing or making effective change. Yeah. One of the things I talk about is the predominant fear in most men is the fear of failure. And I think it goes back to Adam and Eve, Adam's failure to protect his wife.