 And then when you use words like, you know, why can't you do these easy things, these simple things that really kind of denigrates me and my intelligence, right? Or things like, geez, you know, I asked you to set the table and you still haven't done it. What a jerk, you know, name calling. What's so hard about that, right? Or, you know, when you come home late and don't call, it's really rude, right?