 we never had a conversation about what either one of us thought about the other person or our roles or responsibilities in the marriage relationship. But what I distinctly remember is that it wasn't so much wanting to compete about making money, I started to become distraught in the relationship because the marriage was not where it needed to be. And still very much to this day, Drew, when our marriage is not where it needs to be, I tend to check out of the relationship. I don't feel most