 nowadays women are in the workforce and sometimes some women make more money than the husband does and that's going to be okay. I mean, if my husband made more money than me, you wouldn't see me feeling defeminized or, you know, I would, that'd be great. I'd be more supportive of that. And I think we need to adjust the way we look at that and be accepting of that and be there for each other because the bottom line is, is in this reality,