 Oh, yeah, I'm sorry. I don't want to get defensive. Let me find another way to say about this. If you can keep these four horsemen out of your marriage, your marriage is going to be a much smoother place. These are the four bad boys that take you to a dark place, all right? So write them down, put it on the refrigerator. Criticism, contempt, stonewalling, and defensiveness. All right, so we've got a caller out here out in California. Let's go to John. Hello, John. Hello, Doug.