 um and even after he found she found the empty wine bottles and i um but we we don't really know how much he is drinking right and in and if he is having just one glass of wine i mean there's no sin in a glass of wine in the evening right there's nothing but i do think that that is telling right that he's hiding it and i think part of this is i mean hiding in our sin or shame is tale as old as time it was adam and eve's first move