 and skills that we're talking about today to have the best marriage possible that they can have so uh that information will be found on our website as well uh under the heading marriage workshop yeah and i love what she said because it's so critical and i know that we say this to a lot of couples that are in crisis we need to build each other up and edify one another out of reverence for christ and we do not do that enough we rip each other apart pick out the faults but it's to bless one another with our words and thank you