 Um, but I just, I have so much going on. I can't get to that. I can't do it. Um, those are hard words at first because you feel like you're gonna let the person down. Um, but you're gonna let them down if you can't do it. And so it's just, you know, your yes means yes and your no means no. That doesn't mean that life doesn't throw us curve balls. But if you have a relationship with somebody and their yes means yes and their no means no, and now something exceptional is happening, you're not going to question it.