 talking about how fruitful it is for your marriage, how it can strengthen it and help marital intimacy, a whole litany of other things. We're just taking a look at how it works. I know every marriage is a little bit different. I had a friend one time tell me marriages are like countries. She says they got different borders, different language, and different currency, right? And I thought that is such a great way of looking at it. It's true, what rolls for me, what happens with Kathy and me might be different for Nick and Olivia or somebody else, right? But there are certain parameters.