 if a man feels emasculated uh and from a wife perspective i think the proper thing to do is to go and talk to him to see why does this bother you why does this make you feel emasculated as opposed to just expecting him to get with the program gotcha phyllis is back phyllis thanks i'm sorry we lost your signal back there i'll let you pick no problem oh no i just wanted to point out that when i was married and my children were small my husband and i after dinner would look at each other and one would say