 The next thing I'd say is fortify your self-esteem and do some self-soothing, right? So, you know, take up some hobbies, right? Find some things that help you feel good. You know, things that build your self-confidence, right? Exercise, work out, go for walks, et cetera. But things that make you feel good because your husband's probably not going to do it. And if you're counting on him to be the person that's going to make you feel so good,