 Sometimes they need a stern kick in the seat of the pants, you know, and it's like, and how you, you know, especially when you do couples work, generally you get to a point where one's like, you know what, when are you going to stop picking on me and start picking on my spouse, right? Or when are you going to start paying attention to me? I got needs here too, right? What about me? You're focusing on my spouse all the time and both need to be held and it's a really tough thing to do. So, yeah, good point.