 I want to start with an email that came in yesterday, because I thought it was pretty good and got a few things to say about it. So here we go. Hi, Doug. Need your advice. I've been married for 26 years, and my husband gives me a clear message every day that I mean nothing to him. That hurts. That's painful. He doesn't take my opinion in anything, even in simple things. For example, when we go shopping.