 you know cure the blind and so forth so we certainly are called to we we are asked to trust him like little children and little children when they're in pain ask their children ask their parents to take the pain away that's what we should be doing but it's a both and right we ask to take the pain away but then we say as jesus did in the garden you know not my will but thine be done but if it's not your if it's not your will that i have this pain diminished then i want it to i want i want what you want