 um is there a greater success in traditional gender role marriages than that and not so you can sound off on facebook and twitter or actually just what's the best way to get a hold of you nick if they want to get their comments in right now probably uh twitter or then youtube during the chaplet at some point i'll get if they want to comment a little bit on their the gender roles um yeah twitter would be great all right that's at drew mariani charlie you just sharing me about a guy get ready to go into uh was the pink flamingo you said