 about gender roles coming up in just a moment. I do want to hear from you. So feel free to sound off. Maybe, you know, you held, maybe you held down your job for a long time and you're like, oh my gosh, you know, I just can't do it anymore. I'm raising the kids. And you went back to stay home and maybe your husband went to work and you thought, oh, this is great. Or, or maybe, you know, maybe gentlemen, your, your wife has a job. She out-earned you dollar wise. You think it's better for the family for me to stay home. We could talk gender roles. I'd love to hear how it works. What if both partners work?