 to holy matrimony, to be the best husband, and if the Lord so grants you, father, the best wife, and if the Lord so grants you, mother, that you can be. Those who are called to the single vocation, to live out that vocation in a holy fashion. Likewise, those who are widowed, the religious, the clergy, and those who, for whatever reason, are no longer with the person to whom they were married, to still live a holy life. It's holiness that we should strive for