 So, you know, one of the ideas is we need to be tolerant of each other's faults. You've got to accept the fact that your partner's broken. They've got defects. That doesn't make them a bad person. You've got defects. It doesn't make you a bad person. But we've got them. We've got to be, you know, tolerant of them. I believe, I don't know there's any theology behind this, but I believe that God gives you a spouse whose defects are the ones you most need to acquire the virtues you most need to get into heaven.