 So here he goes. My husband is a closet alcoholic. We've been married for 40 years. My husband travels weekly for business and always has. I often suspect he's been drinking when he calls home in the evening, but he always denies it. When he is home, I go to bed earlier than he does. I also suspect he drinks after I go to bed. Then, last month, I found a lot of empty wine bottles in the trunk of his car. Well, there's a clue, right?