 Sadly, it's because of those things that we're not getting the pats on the back or told that we're awesome at cooking or folding that underwear, those socks or putting those socks away or doing the laundry. We go to where we feel that we're being the most appreciated. And sadly, sometimes it's monetarily. So I literally used all of my energy and everything I had on a daily basis through what I could prove and how much money I could make and didn't leave any of my energy, my care concern for the home.