 I have a bunch of them. Not too worried, dear voice in my head. I got some letters and we're good. Okay. I've got one from Janie in Eustis, Florida. Please explain what it means when someone says offer up your pain. It's a tough one. I've struggled with this over the years. But the dear nuns, when I was a kid, always said, well, you're miserable, offer it up.