 um so i'm feeling lonely when you're spending some time with friends i'd like to ask you to please carve out some time for me um do you think perhaps saturday night we could you know go to dinner or we could you know you could stay home watch a movie or something like that so i think you start off by telling them that you know that you feel a little bit lonely right now that you love him that you want to spend more time with him uh and then ask him for you know specifically when it is that you would like to be able to spend that time with him makes perfect sense how's that sound