 that person and I don't get along, or this is going to be difficult. And then, well, you just bring it right into whatever the mystery and say this, boy, that would have been difficult for Mary and Joseph for instance, to, you know, lose their child. That was difficult. I wonder what Mary was thinking. In other words, you bring the distraction and you just gather it up and you bring it back to perhaps a core element or an aspect of the particular mystery you're praying. That is to not distract,