 kind of flooding in some ways it's like there's a lot of sensory input the house is loud the kids are chaotic it's really fun and lively and it can be stressful at the same time so I would say kind of finding creative ways to implement that exercise the other thought I have thank you Monica the other thought I have Rebecca is is there perhaps something else going on like some ADHD or some other issues like that right that might be getting in the way of his ability to concentrate and to