 but let's assume goodwill on his part let's give him the benefit of the doubt and let's pray for him and I don't mean like some people say well I'll pray for you usually that's kind of a put down like you know you really need prayer therefore I'm going to pray for you and we don't mean it in that sense you know let's just let it cool down and be okay and assume the best on his part and thank God for his priestly ministry etc this is one of those things where it's not