 And then got really frustrated and finally just confessed to like three of my friends and said, I don't know what I'm doing. And y'all did this in college. I didn't have to. So could you show me how to do this? They loved it. It empowered them to say, oh, here's somebody older than I am. I get to help her. They didn't make fun of me. I thought they're going to laugh at me. They're going to make fun of me. And I think it's just it's the fear and anxiety on both sides. We feel like somebody is going to find us lacking. They're going to make fun of us.