 I feel like I'm walking on eggshells every day. When he isn't acting this way, he has a big heart, is very helpful to me, and is just overall a great person. But I can't take this anymore. I take my vows seriously, and I don't want to leave him. I've learned to protect myself, and it's hard to trust him when I tell him things because he will use my words against me to hurt me. I can go on and on.