 And if I'm getting it wrong, I sure want to know about it so I can do better. All right? So write that down. I feel when you, I'd like to ask you to please put it on the refrigerator, put it on the mirror in the bathroom, put it in the front seat of the car, put it in front of the television, put it everywhere where you tend to get into arguments. Couples who I've taught this to, who have really embraced it and used it, come back and say, you know what? We resolve most of our issues pretty quickly now. Okay?