 There's two victims here. There's the poor addict and then the loved ones. Sure. And a lot of times the one spouse who is the victim here is going to wonder, like, when is it my turn? I hear this a lot. When is it my turn to be able to heal or to air my grievances? And that time comes. If you're in therapy, that time comes. It just can't be right away. And part of it is a very gentle balance as your spouse is...