 Well, it can be very, very similar. It's a great question because a lot of times if you have a fear of commitment, and you might not know why, but let's say you've got a date planned with your spouse or with your girlfriend or boyfriend, whoever it is, or with just a friend. It could be a platonic relationship. And the self-sabotage would be, oh, I forgot. I forgot we were supposed to get together. Or, you know, oh, something came up and I can't do it. So