 Stay calm, smile, pray more, be kinder. Even when you don't feel like being kind, that's when you get the greatest merit. Be kind, be patient, be gentle. And if you can't direct these feelings of outrage and fury, then just pray all the harder and ask the Lord to take those emotions away from you. And it doesn't mean that you're caving in. It certainly doesn't mean that you're compromising. It doesn't mean any of those things. It just means that you're trying to do what Jesus did.