 Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And that's why the ratio I talked about earlier, this five-to-one ratio of positives to negatives, when we do that, we kind of build up a bit of an emotional bank account so that when we stub our toe sometimes, we can make some withdrawals there because I've got this abundance of positive interactions that have kind of accrued to my account. John, how long have you been married? The anticipation of positive effects. That's great. I love it. John, how long have you been married?