 We tend to make their life a little easier to try to help them or save them. But what ends up happening is if we make this too comfortable for them, they're going to stay. Right. It's comfortable enough that I don't have to hit rock bottom. So I persist kind of as I am. And one of the hardest things to do is to let that loved one hit rock bottom. Yeah. Yeah. The kindest, gentlest thing you could do for her is to let her fail.