 your priest that is saying this just ask people not to pray at church and we were stunned i mean everybody you could just see the mouths fall open i know i but let's assume goodwill on his part let's give him the benefit of the doubt um and and let's pray for him and i don't mean like some people say well i'll pray for you usually that's kind of a put down like you know you really need prayer therefore i'm going to pray for you and we don't mean it in that sense you know let's just