 Because God loves us, even with our defects and our craziness sometimes, right? So now, I mean, the fact that you need to accept your spouse's defects and even try to learn to love them doesn't mean you should not provide them with the opportunity to improve and to overcome their defects. And there are specific ways to go about having that conversation. And we're going to talk about that towards the end of this show. So you don't want to go away. What does your pattern of conflict look like?