 I really don't know what the next step is. What do I do? She asked a mentor for advice who came back and said, Tara's just spoiled. She's not taking on any responsibility. And I thought, taking on responsibility? She's an elephant. What do you mean? He said, Carol, she's so much smarter than you know. If she was in a natural family herd by this age, she'd be babysitting her little sister.