 where we don't abuse alcohol or drugs, where we're faithful to one another, and then work together towards that goal. And I would say neither one of you would say, yes, we just want to get drunk every week, and that's a great idea. Even if you're an addict, you'd say, yeah, it'd be better if I didn't. I might not know how to get sober, but it'd be better if I didn't. So I would paint that picture of what you really want as a couple together.