 I'm also going to talk about the four behaviors that destroy most marriages. You're going to want to write those down so that you can make sure they don't show up in your marriage or in your relationships with other people, for that matter, too. So, I mean, you know, listen, are you and your spouse locked in a pattern of conflicts that you don't seem to be able to get out of? Do you argue about things that never seem to get resolved? We just go around and around and around, and then we just kind of give up, go our own way. We never...