 So you're really pointing back ultimately to childhood as being the main source of the lack of ability to commit and needing to go back, do some healing. So it sounds like if there was a broken home that you came from or attachments weren't quite there in those first handful of years of your life, that's a really good indicator that some work needs to be done. What would you recommend people do? I know you're recommending therapy. What about on the prayer side and even some of just the self-help type of practice of processing what's happened?