 Or, you know, to get to the movie on time, we need to leave by 6. If you're not here by 6.05, I plan to leave without you. And then leave. Once you set the boundary, you've got to follow through on it. And so he's got to know, I'm just not going to accept being treated like this. Not expect you to change. I'm just not going to stay around when you do it. Now, she mentioned gaslighting.