 That's a big trigger. Or has your spouse just ever gone silent, just stopped talking to you? They just shut up. They sit there in the room. They're not looking at you, and they're just not responding to you. They're just going silent. You're like, will you say something? I got nothing to say. I got nothing to say. They just shut it down. And it's really frustrating when you cannot get your spouse to engage. But realize they're doing this as a protective measure.