 is there a wisdom in the way that your grandparents or your great-grandparents structured their marriage? Perhaps there's something very valuable that we can learn in what people today call traditional marriages. Today we remember the redefinition of marriage. It was nine years ago the Obergefell decision came down. So what a good opportunity, what a good day to talk about marriage. What's your secret to a successful marriage? A lot of successful marriages, couples embrace the differences between their sexes.