 And isn't that the response of the woman at the well? Like she saw something in Christ that no one else saw in her. And she, I would argue that she felt loved or at the very least she felt known and seen for the first time. And you keep talking about how fear of commitment stems from childhood and lack of childhood bonds with parents and how important that is that she received something that she hadn't received before. And as I was thinking about this, if you struggle with commitment,