 But here's the kicker. He couldn't get it because he doesn't understand himself why it's so difficult to commit until we looked at it. And I want to submit to you, again, if you're in a marriage right now and you're feeling like, wow, it's hard for me to stay, or it's hard for my spouse to stay, or maybe this isn't the right person to date, you got to look at the roots of what might be keeping you from committing. And I want to say this as we get into it.