 that I was rejecting or not respecting him. And then I took even on a more aggressive role of thinking, okay, he's not making enough money, so I'm going to go outside the home and work, and I'm going to make more money than he is. I mean, it just became a competition instead of a coming together, working together on the same page to build this relationship that God had intended for us to do from the beginning. God wasn't a part.