 our weaknesses right and i remember a couple i dealt with quite a while ago that newlywed couple only married maybe two months and uh they is pre-covered so i still seen people in in an office and they came in and they sat down on the little love seat there you know and i said so what's going on what can i help you with and the husband's eyes immediately went to the floor and the wife reached over and grabbed both of his hands in her hands and squeezed them and then she looked at me and she said my husband has a problem with pornography