 it you know if there's something like that happening on your phone it is very frustrating it's just it's not the way it's supposed to be and so um... hopefully one of those things works the other thing i would do just real quick is going to your messages and um... at the upper left hand corner i'm sure you've done this but there's a thing called filters and you can see you've got all messages known known senders unknown senders unread and then recently deleted you can go into recently deleted it will delete these up to um...