 You've now placed in the mind of the mom that the husband's a crud ball, and the mom doesn't get to experience the makeup. They never actually have the thing, so they're always carrying this bad vibe toward the husband. Right. And, by the way, the husband finds out the wife's been talking to mom, and mom says this about him, and now he's in a competition for her love and her connection that it's now two against one. Nothing good happens, mom and dad. Nothing good.