 does not have any intense desire to wear dresses she's asking well why do you want to wear a dress he doesn't care like you could easily you know even if the if the boy did have some intense desire to wear dresses as the parent you still say no and if the desire is that intense you know there's something psychologically going on you give them some counseling right if that's what it comes to but but the point is in in like 99 of cases wouldn't even be necessary