 also yeah you gotta figure out if it was joint tenancy because what ends up happening is uh... let's say she says i want to leave a hundred thousand dollars to jesse but everything is held in both uh... my name that's for talking and uh... my husband's name by in joint tenancy that's done than the will means nothing you know there's nothing to probate inside it so i know that was the money uh... what i know that uh... you actually well what you're gonna do is get a lawyer going to ask him that question