 I've known my aunt and their family ever since I was born, and I don't want to rip it apart, but I can't tolerate this without any intervention because I know it's wrong. But I fear if I do, I'll ostracize myself and the rest of my family. Any advice you have would be greatly appreciated. P.S. I'm sorry if this was confusing. This is my first mailbag question, and I know this sounds like a wild story, but on my honor, this is an entirely real story. Yeah, I believe it. So first of all, don't worry about tearing your aunt's family apart. She has done that.