 Okay. I like that. I think that's a, I just think that's very, it's profound in the sense that you are constantly owning what you truly control and you own because you don't know anything about what the other person is feeling. You can't, you're not them and you're not feeling that, but you are you and you're feeling that and you can articulate that and say, it makes me very happy when you do this. Oh, okay. You did this. Oh, you didn't.