 And I don't mean to make light in any way of a crime or sexual assault or suicide of a family member or something like that. Quite the opposite. But the idea that if that happens to you for the rest of your life, if you're normal, if you even hear a mention of something similar, you will be devastated. You will never heal. You will never get to the point where it causes a pang. But you're strong now. You must never do that.