 weren't nice to me when you right i came in you know the other one you need to practice in this is compromise compromise okay and the top three things what make marriages last a long term there's the three biggies right number one is both have hearts of gratitude yep gratitude we already talked about the number two one on that list is that they have they have flexibility and they're happy so they're adaptable and happy and that's not a third happy is not a third you have to be adaptable happy