 it can become a bit of a burden. Sure. I mean, the problem is that we get surprised by it. It doesn't fit our narrative, right? Our narratives, get grades, get grown, get gone. But if we don't get grades, get grown, get gone. But it surprises us. Financially, their failure to launch, start working, that stops us from being able to retire and stop working. But then also emotionally, the National Institutes of Health say,