 children were once called the poor man's wealth which changes a little bit in the industrial age but but nevertheless that that remains a visible phenomenon it's because people get attracted to the things of this world it's because of it's because of uh selfishness basically usually is you don't need big headlines here wow shocking here's the secret to getting ahead be diligent and do your work and be virtuous wow here's why people aren't giving of themselves to other people it's because they're kind of selfish sometimes yeah yeah wow