 whose father was doing some satanic ritual things with him as a boy. Okay, so very nasty abuse type stuff. Very, very, very nasty. And people used to say to this guy, they'd say, you've got to forgive your father. He'd be like, no, I don't. No way I'll ever do that. Right? Yeah. And one day he said to me, I finally figured this out. I don't have to forgive him today. And it's true. There's this idea of saying, well, I just forgive him, I forgive him. Okay, that's grand. Listen, bless your heart if you can pull that off.