 But the mom or the allies, they never get to see that. So the other person on the side of the argument is still the enemy. That's right. And that's bad. That's unhealthy. I have an experience with this with a couple that are somewhat kind of like your son. But this happens to do with anybody that's in a relationship, going into a new relationship in particular. Or if you have children that are looking at getting married, that we can talk about some of the things and the phases they go through. If you have somebody looking to get married,