 it's back to what you're willing to do, right? Or hire somebody to come clean your house for you. And they say, well, I'm not paying for that. Well, fine. You say, no, it's your wife. Say, honey, you know, this hurts my feelings. I just, I can't handle the chaos and the mess and everything. And I know you really like to leave your clothes around because you just are tired and don't want to put them away. What's a solution we can come up with? And we say, well, let's get a maid. You say, but it hurts me to think I have to go work to get a maid because you don't want to engage in the things we do to make a household work.