 not necessarily breathing down my neck but the the sound of the was close enough and you know if if you're in in another room and somebody does that you're not going to hear it so i knew it was at the top of the stairs it was that close so i slowly turned back around and i'm just thinking in my head what do i do what do i do i don't want to scare my son and i just get back into my normal position and all of a sudden he whips his head around and he goes you heard it too and i said i did and we just both ran out of the house