 When children get married, you need to let them go be one. They need to walk away from mom and dad and go be their own unit. It's healthy. It's the right thing to do. Parents, sometimes you have to be proactive and force yourselves and force your kids to go be one. The tendency is you want to solve their problems. They come back, you solve their problems like you always did. You have to force yourself to force them to become one with their spouse and figure it out on their own.