 You're not doing that. She has done that. She divorced her husband. She decided she was going to be a lesbian like the witches in Star Wars. She found this woman who, so not only has she scandalized her 10-year-old child, done something profoundly evil to her 10-year-old child, but she's found this woman who then left her husband and scandalized a two-year-old child in this awful way. So you're not ripping any family apart. They've done a stellar job of that themselves. So you're torn between two things.