 They feel defeated before they've begun. And it's up to parents to really be like Condoleezza Rice's parents, you know, to encourage them, to inspire them, to take them to extracurricular activities, to help them find what it is that they're passionate about. Well, that's great. They're depressed, unhappy, family structure, meeting a man, or if you're a man, meeting a woman and forming a family, having children, struggling, working hard. That's a problem, isn't it?