 yes you know you and i've been i mean you were on the apprentice man i mean you around this guy every day it's not like you know you just casually know him and you hadn't expressed so once i agree with you i haven't spent as much time with him nearly as much as you did but i've spent enough and i turned and i said to paula there is there's a more sober look about him now like i mean how could you not i mean you and i thankfully haven't been through a situation like that where a bullet has nicked my ear off thank thank the lord