 they are prepared to deal with the dangers of life. So I can assure you that there are listeners right now listening going, that's my husband, to a T. Or that's my wife, to a T. Or that's my son, or that's my daughter, right? And how does that help you feel? Do you feel warmer towards them? Do you feel more loving towards them? Or do you feel rejected by them? Do you feel like you're not competing with the new girlfriend? I'm competing with the phone all the time. Yeah, competing with the phone all the time. So this is a good conversation to be had. Ask yourselves, my wife and I did this just the other day.