 or unwillingness to properly communicate. You know, what is that? You know, when we were kids, you'd just say whatever you said and you would say it. It just, there was like no filter and you didn't have to mince your words and worry about the other thing. It seems like as we get to adults, we play too many games in our own head and we actually never say what we really mean to each other. Two things happen. One, the person who has something to say struggles with identifying how or what to say.