 everything and get nothing so for the first time in history we're saying no you don't get a free incubator you don't get a free maid you don't get a free chef we're saying no and y'all losing y'all minds no ma'am and then y'all calling me a feminist if you know me you know like i still want susan b anthony here so that's not even the thing y'all just need to label to put on somebody who's telling y'all no we said step y'all up and y'all made podcasts that don't that don't seem weird to you