 he's very grateful um you know that that god spared his life and it's not right that a man died a fire a firefighter a father a husband that day um but i i think that my father-in-law feels that very deeply and that's what that whole scene was about and i'll tell you watching it there in the audience you know you know that there are cameras on you joe i couldn't help it i i welled up i got emotional about it and i i am right now because