 But that's my point. One obstacle is that the women are lower quality. The benefits are not the same. Most women are not raised to be traditional wives and mothers. And the cost is getting higher. Divorces are getting more expensive. Weddings are getting more expensive. You don't need to be, but they are often. I agree, but it's not about what I want the world to be. I'm Catholic, too. And I think there's awesome things about the Catholic Church.