 Because for those that are in that mire when it happens, you really don't want to hear it. You say, well, you just need to communicate. You need to do this. You need to do that. And people are like, that doesn't help me feel warm and fuzzy. I'm still struggling. So it's not our goal to try to have a therapeutic relationship with you here. The goal is to give you advice. You get to pick or choose the pieces that you like and don't like and take the pieces that might be helpful and try to implement them. What's difficult about life is