whoa! dude, im just using a gay idiom for you man i thought it would be easier to communicate with you since you use that word more often.. have you ever consider being a cross dresser or are you comfortable about the fact that you're hiding in the shadows?ï»¿ i can give you consult or referal if you want man.. just don't be mad about the fact that you can't deal with this.. youre genes.. its not you man.. or maybe youre just too gay not to admit youre gay..