Guess we think a little alike?  ;-)Sorry you had a bad experience.  I was lucky.  All my ex's are really good guys, or at least they were last time that I heard from them.And I married the best one.... 20+ years and still going!  (Might not be much longer if I don't get offline and spend some time with him tonight.  He wasn't home when I began my trek on YT.)  Blessings!