To add to that: I'm doing what I'm supposed to do as his father.  That's called proper parental guidance as opposed to these typical buddy-friend dads who have no clue and gotta employ a person from overseas to tell them how to be a proper parent. How shameful.  American parents need to wake up and realize that THEY are the true gardians and masters of their kids lives and take proper responsibility for their kids and therefore, take responsibility for themselves in the whole process.