Honestly, it shows lack of respect for YOU on her part that she didnt tell you what was going on, she left you hanging babe, shes ignored you, from an outsiders point of view, her actions say she isnt interested, I could be wrong, just guard your heart is all Im saying, take it from someone who has had more life experience than you, also 2 kids is a lot to take on for someone your age.  Just be careful, take care Myles.Ineke