sorry to disappoint you but we are mixing. come to CA and see for yourself- for every black couple you see five brothers with a white chick, asian chick, latina, etc. your idea of whites trying to be like blacks because they use slang & listen to rap is the same thought process that says black people who enunciate, get good grades or listen to classical music 'want to be white'. (Condi Rice?) People like what they like & keep it movin.