And thus, the common ground perhaps we could (and should) be agreeing on is this: the better health care available for educating and caring for citizens - the more accessible neonatal and pediatric and maternal care is to those who, under the current for-profit health management system we have now may not receive, the more likely couples (men and women) will be wiser, women may choose to carry pregnancies to term, and children who are born will have a likelier chance at good health.