it is the leading of the government that gives a message to diss parents due to disagreements.  devide and conquer.  if you can one to let parents bond be broken then who do you have aligence to?  makes it easier to leave other family members like your kids. the government cashes in on all of these situations after you follow their lead.  not something many of our grandparents did nor did society accept it as they do today.  see it works.