you are wise for your years. i'm a mother of 3. 2 teen daughters and i agree with you completely. i am so impressed with your comments.i think its very important to REALLY spend time with my kids and to have REAL conversations., alot of adults are so self-absorbed today they seem to forget what is precious.  relax and enjoy each other and get to know your kid.i hope you mom sees this. she should be proud.