you're amazing!jesus i wish all guys out there were at least 30% as honest and caring as you are.i can totally understand what she is going through but i still think you should give it a try. If anything you can say that you met and it just didn't work out. theres no point on basing opinions on what could have been. if anything, you could always go to the beach in Cali if nothing else works out (: theres other things to see in a whole state then just one girl.