I agree with you, sure life isnt fair but if you dont put anything in then youn dont get anything out of it either. As for wishes, long as you stay true to youeslf and donyt try to be something your not and keep it in perspective then its fine. I mean i could wish to do better vids on here but I know I will never be a Peter Jackson lol not in a million years, so wishing is pointless but I can improve from how I was and get better than before.