i understand what mcwhip is saying - only many people need it to be a secret.  people want  pro service - pro is personal wihout the 1st names - mcwhip is saying that being a domme can actually be a life choice devoid of secrecy shared by man and woman openly. For many this would conflict with their current life - this girl is great and she enjoys her job. on another note 'Prostitution' - is only a bad word, because of religion.