Kimberly,That is so true.  Life is full of contradistion and contradiction is life.  I think some people have too much free time on there hands to try and judge what people look like.   I was always told that too much of anything, even a good thing, is not always good.  Life must be in balance reality with fantasy.  Everyone must dream. Keep dreaming of peace.... and one final comment about your looks...  You always look beautifull and your boyfriend is lucky to have you.  Take care........