why do we ever tell ourselves we shouldn't be attracted some one else? do we truly believe in a point where all those desires will stop? are we more/less apt to act out these desires when we actually engage with them? when we're attracted to some one else, are we only aiming to fulfill a physical fantasy, or is there ever more? can everything on a deeper level only exist between you and your partner? i shudder to think of the choices we make when we limit what can be possible to think and feel.