one thing you do when you Remember is Reflect. Remember is related to Recognize. Recognize is a synonym of Spot. Spot is a synonym of Bit. 
Sympathy is related to Comfort. Comfort is a different concept from Pain. 
Reflect <--HasSubevent-- Remember <--RelatedTo--> Recognize <--Synonym--> Spot <--Synonym--> Bit 
Sympathy <--RelatedTo--> Comfort <--DistinctFrom--> Pain 