If you're getting this for a costume or you want some ridiculous poof-- it's perfect. I needed a petticoat for a square-dancing dress & this was still TOO MUCH POOF. I ended up cutting out one of the layers and it worked perfectly.

I wouldn't consider it "sexy"-- if you're going for hottie undergarments, this isn't really the product. It's more "long tutu on steroids". It is not scratchy and looks as described (but hilariously fluffy).

I'm 5'7" and was around 155/165 when I wore this, it fit me without discomfort.