I have not written a review for bras until now. What strikes me are the comments about how this FOAM FILLED bra is sexy?? Men don't find it sexy---after all, are they the ones it supposed to appeal to? I checked this out because of the embroidery, + lace only to find out it is FOAM padded. I don't care if it is thin padding or not. Padded bras in my day are considered FALSIES, and no one would be caught dead in something that was "not the real thing". I love being sexy and have been buying bras since I was 12! never padding