My husband and I purchased the same ring in different sizes.  We are nontraditional and I didn't have an engagement ring.  I love that this ring is timeless and elegant.  It is sturdy and comfortable.  The milgrain is subtle.  There are a few scratches, but those were expected.  I'll probably get it cleaned and shined in about a year.  I've been wearing the ring since October 31, 2013, 4 months.