i guess i didn't know how to pick out earings online. i was hoping for small pearl earings but i ended up with some honkers about the size of a peanut M&M's.. so if your on the web looking for earings know that the size they say is not the bar its the ball or the stud. so 3/8 in is bigg!! so if your like BIGGG! than you would like them :) if you like smaller ones get the smaller sizes :) hope i was able to help ya :) but overall i turned out to wear them.. lol