This is a very nice piece, but I didn't pay attention to the size (my fault, not the seller or amazon)and no way will he wear something this big. Being stainless steel, it will make a really great key ring and I will find another phoenix pendant here. The points are indeed sharp, but I doubt they would cut skin unless it's really pressed hard, and why would anyone do that... just don't sleep with it on lol. One side is a dull brushed finish and the other is a mirror finish, super shiny and nice. The opening is large as well, so a nice heavier chain or a keyring could be used with it, there is no chain included which I was fine with. Comes in a decent box with a velvet pouch suitable for gifting. Very pleased, would buy again :)