I bought this ring as a backup wedding band to wear on my honeymoon.  We were going out of the country and I didn't want to risk losing my actual band.  One of my best friends saw the ring and bought it as his actual wedding band.  It is extremely lightweight and it looks good.  It will scratch and get dull over time, but that is just what you get with titanium - it has better scratch resistance than platinum, but not as good as gold, cobalt, or tungsten.  It is darker than white gold, but lighter than tungsten.  Tungsten is noticeably dark - this is much lighter than that, and if you aren't doing a side by side comparison with white gold or platinum it looks pretty light.