this could be the one. It is so soft and comfortable, slightly fitted, nice deep pockets, warm and good looking. I liked this sweater so much I got one for my daughter, one for my best friend and one for myself.  High priced for my budget, but worth it. The black is sort of speckled with grey, in other words it's not a pure black. The light blue and the plum are similarly "heathered". The one thing that surprised me was a slightly sloppy weave in places. But you have to look pretty hard to find it. Nothing that would bother me, but if you expect total uniformity, it might be off-putting given the price tag. Then again, I must have a dozen less expensive sweaters that I rarely wear. I have pretty much lived in this one. You can machine wash, but reviews caution against machine drying. All in all, it's a lovely sweater, and I would recommend.