My wife seems to genuinely like this item. Note that it is fairly large; my petite bride wouldn't want it any larger, but I don't think anyone would think it is too large or "gaudy." I think it was a good purchase.
[Edit 1/28/14] My wife reports that she often receives compliments on this item. [Edit 3/12/17] She still wears it and says she frequently receives unsolicited compliments. "Happy wife, happy life."