Don't be put off by the negative reviews. This is a really beautiful, feminine piece of jewelry. If you love crossbones and want to add some flair to your wardrobe, this adds the perfect statement. This piece is about the size of your thumbnail, so if you're looking for something large, this isn't it. I would like to add that the fact that this piece is small is what makes it all the more beautiful and expensive looking. I have noticed that the larger some skull necklaces get, the more gaudy they are with poor workmanship. I really love crossbones, but I wanted something classy, so I purchased this. The chain isn't too thin, but it definitely won't last long if there is too much tension on it. I personally like the thin chain and I'm not bothered by it. However, in the end it just comes down to taste. You want something classy, feminine with rocker goth flair, get this. If you want to make a huge statement with something that you can wear to a death metal concert, definitely look elsewhere. For the price, I think this was great as it has diamonds and real silver. Just looking at the tasteless stuff that jewelry stores at the mall chains sell, I think this is about the best you'll find in this price range with personality.