I've been married for about a year and a half.  My original wedding band is a flat gold 5mm band.  I saw this ring and for $50 I just couldn't resist giving it a try.  I've liked it from the first day I wore it.  It is larger and much heavier than my original, but it has beveled edges so it wasn't uncomfortable even the first day I wore it.  (Although if you are in the USA and remember February of 2010... take it off if you go outside to shovel snow... left me quite a callus after a few days of shoveling.)  It has so far proven very resilient, being tungsten carbide it seems to be very resistant to scratching.  Overall I am very happy with the purchase.