These are great underwear for a beginner.  They are NOT diapers.  But they do contain a small mess, so you won't have to clean your carpet with every accident.  You will have to change their clothes.  Use when your child is really ready for the potty. They are soft fit well.  These are better than pull ups when your child is ready because many children think nothing of going in a pullup, which feels like a diaper.