I bought this ring as a gift. I'm really pleased with it and she loves it as well. Its of substantial weight and a beautiful polished white gold. The milgrain adds a nice subtle touch. She has said the ring is very comfortable for the wearer. I would recommend the 3mm for those wearing this ring with other rings or with very small hands but probably opt for the 4mm for all others. I would describe it best as simple but pretty and defined. If I could get a picture without the flash bouncing off I would post one as it is much more attractive than the stock picture. Almost one year later this ring is still very lovely.