Guys: This isn't the hoop earring your looking for.  It's got a "flare" in the front, right as it enters your piercing, that makes it look distinctly feminine. I got 2 of the BDES series (006, 004) and this applies to both.

I can't speak for those lacking a Y chromosome, but I guess it's fine. I don't like the clasp and it doesn't have much heft, so it won't rotate downward as you cock your head. That's all.