Flexees are a really good product, But no product, in this category was ever going to please me, till now. I finally ordered this item in the correct size. I always thought, and had been told, to purchase a shaper (girdle) in a smaller size. Oh, the pain, sweat and tears. Not the crying tears, the ripping tears! This is so comfortable and well made. I've been wearing it for over a week, yes, one week, and no rips. I used to put on a shaper and it would rip the first or second time I'd attempt putting it on. So, I highly suggest you get the correct size and stop suffering. This will still hold everything together and smooth without feeling like you've been poured into it. Relax in comfort and enjoy!!! I LOVE this product Why 4 stars? It would be perfect if the legs didn't ride up, Very little, but none would be better. I still recommend this product!!!