Here's a stunning tie that's bright but not overly flashy.  With a white dress shirt and a black or charcoal suit, it's really stylish and you'll be exceptionally well-dressed. If you add a gold, pocket square to that same outfit, you'll certainly stand out from the herd. I don't really understand the increasing tendency we men have to always try to dress downward and to even be kind of sloppy and what they used to call - disheveled. (There's a big 25 cent word.)  Women love a man who is well-dressed and well-groomed.  Women tend to like ties and love men in bow ties, it's just a fact.  There are exceptions but they're just exceptions.  Take my advice men and put some effort in your appearance, you'll be glad you did.  This gold/paisley will be an excellent addition to your wardrobe and boost the image you project to others.  Thanks again TieBar.