I bought this ring to wear during trips so I could leave my wedding set in a secure place.  I had previously been using a titanium band, but it became scratched and dull after 2 trips.  After reading up on tungsten, I decided to buy this ring.  I *love* this ring.  The weight reminds me of platinum.  It is a domed ring,approximately 1mm thick, but I don't mind that. I find it to be very comfortable to wear.  I normally wear 3 bands on my ring finger and the 6mm width is perfect for me, as I've developed a permanent indent from my wedding set.  If your finger widens below the knuckle, this may rub a bit against your other fingers--but with Amazon's free returns policy on it give it a try.  I knew going in that the color would be gunmetal gray, which I find lovely--if you're looking for a silver-toned ring (i.e. silver/platinum/white gold appearance), this isn't for you. The shine on the ring is incredible and I'll be interested to see if it truly holds up.  After seeing it, my husband said "maybe I should get one too!"--and he isn't a jewelry person at all--so that's a ringing endorsement from him.