They are much lighter than I expected. But look lovely. I'm on the fence about what makes these hurt my ear after a few days. Maybe I shouldnt sleep in them, or maybe my ears react to the material.  I cant be sure. especially since they are supposed to be made especially for sensitive skin. It hasn't happened since the first time i wore them, but i also don't sleep in them anymore. could it be the design of the post? not sure. I get compliments on them often. they're different and elegant