I don't have the slightest clue about picking jewelry but i gave this one a shot for my girlfriend for our anniversary. I guess i picked right because she and her whole family LOVED it..i wasn't expecting that. The necklace i got had a blemish in the silver but it was only visible if you looked really close. The chain is a bit thin and could break over time but it's easily replaced. But overall its a great piece and the girls love it so i would recommend this necklace.