This ring is definitely a man's ring, it's relatively thick.  The color is like a silver or white gold ring with a subtle darker tint; no one would know it's tungsten unless they were relatively familiar with that particular material.  I actually prefer the effect to that of silver or white gold.  It's heavier than a typical alloyed ring, but not so noticeably so that your finger will be fatigued.

My ring has held up through amazing stress with no signs of damage.  Because tungsten is one of the hardest materials available, it would take quite a bit to scratch the ring.  Accordingly, the high polish finish is long-term, which is a nice feature.

If you want a practical choice for a ring that isn't simply a visual statement yelling "I spent a lot on this," this is the ring for you.