goth or not, girl or boy, this little cross packs some style. Silver with black tribal design is a cool way to have a symbol of faith in a unique, dark, and non-format fashion. as soon as I got it, put it on and I've been wearing it all day and night. I would describe the cross as 'medium size' not small, not large. The only issues, and I knew this before ordering it..the black tribal design is only one one side. So if the cross gets turned around (which happens rarely) then a flat silver side shows instead of the black textured tribal side. However, this is not entirely a bad thing, it gives the necklace two different looks from which to choose. The other issue: it seems like over time the black design will possibly fade, it seems painted, but this could look cool too, of course, natural decay is beautiful. and then just re-paint it as needed, perhaps red where the black was. The chain is a normal length necklace chain, placing the cross over the heart. I prefer necklaces to hang lower, so if that's your style, you'll need a longer chain to go with it. This cross is well crafted, seems very strong, and it's cost efficient. These little accessories are essential.