I have worn an open bottom girdle with stockings for years - they work but are work in the morning. I have always felt that a girdle shows and that I have "that girdled look". I also find that a girdle just does not good under shorts or slacks. I decided to try control Berkshire all day control top hose - they are wonderful - comfortable, conrolling and the nude ones just look nice under shorts. the control top does hold me in and make me feel good.
Control top hose are nice for someone who just does not to have a girdle one - main problem was that the front panel of my RAGO 1359 was very obvious.