If you are happily divorced and still love your ex - in a long distance, we share a child, almost like you're cousins now, kind of way - this is a perfect gift.  Especially if, whenever you happen to see him, he has a new tattoo . . . on his neck.  Actually, I picked this out for our daughter to give to him for his birthday.  He really liked it.
I got the Star Trek communicator wallet for my brother for X-mas this year.  He ALWAYS had to be Capt. Kirk when we were kids & I had to be Bones (???)  He's a DA now.  Also - got the robot graffiti for my college aged nephew.  I'll let y'all know how they liked them.
Had to have the pink job with the weird gorilla/big foot for me - I get a lot of smiles from cashiers!