damn I should have watched that video before buying this dress because i have the same problem with it. i was able to get my head through it which was not easy at all but the dress was choking me during all the evening. and there is no way you can fix it. the only way is to order similar dress from a different seller, f.e. Nyteez. I have ordered the same white dress from them and it is fine! the problem is not in me, my head or neck, I have a very thin neck. the problem is in that design. i also had a thought that probably there was a bad consignment and that girl from the video and I were just unlucky to get those impossible-to-wear dresses. cause as I see all the other people are satisfied with that product. so of course you can order this dress and see how lucky you are :)