Firstly. I really want to like this jewlery. The sizing options are exactly what i want. The balls are of good size and jewlery is made of good metal. However, the threading and the threaded posts are insecure. Ive had it come out during intercourse once amd it was embarassing. That i can handle, but when the threaded post That is actually inside the ball comes out I have a problem. Can we fix this scrap metal? Id add pictures but seeing as a doctor had to remove the jewlery I didn't get it back...doc found it amusing...she did not.