This set is gorgeous! The tiara is too bendable to the point where I broke it trying to adjust it. However, I didn't use it. I did not have any irritation from the earrings. I did disinfect them and my ears with rubbing alcohol before putting them in. I had to almost shorten the necklace to fit to my liking because I didn't like how the chain was showing. Its beautiful, its not too fake looking and just the right amount of sparkle. It was perfect for my boyfriends military ball.