I ended up returning this. The bow was VERY unflattering sitting at the front, and made me look very poochy when I am not. I tried flipping the bow to the back, but I'm afraid I just don't have the butt to pull that off nicely, so it was also not flattering on me. The material is cheap and thin, but looks easy nicer it is and has TONS of stretch. I would say I could go down a size, but the waistline is NOT very stretchy. Overall, it's just awkward so I returned it. For reference, I am 5'3", 125 lbs, 38-26-38 and I ordered a S.