I thought this would be a nice lingerie item for the bedroom. I wear a 28H in the Panache Women's Jasmine balconnet bra. I am 123 pounds, 5'4 and the straps killed my shoulders! There is no way I would or could wear this thing for more than 2 minutes! It is so freaking painful! I have found in my experience trying on different bra brands that Panache straps are not comfortable at all for me. I sent this back.