So thank goddess for the reviewer who says to put these in backwards. Without that tip I don't think I would have managed to get these in! They are definitely difficult, but well worth it. Ive had them in for over 2 weeks now and no issues! (I have very sensitive ears and usually cheap earrings cause all kinds of issues) but these feel like they aren't even there! Would deff recommend to someone who plans on leaving them in for extended periods of time, or someone who will have an extra pair of hands to put them in. Very cute little hoops!