Three stars because it was the cutest fire umbrella we could find.  I Purchased it thinking it would be very kid friendly, since I noticed the great little round balls that help ensure that eyes don't get poked. Thus, two stars deducted because it pinches- I got pinched and then my son got pinched.  I still struggle a little as an adult to get it up and down.  I would like to be able to give him independence to operate it, as that is part of the excitement of having an umbrella when you are 3, but looks like I won't be able to do that.  That was a disappointment since this was a much anticipated prize.  Honestly if it wasn't  mildly inconvenient to return it, I would probably do that and look for one that was a little safer for kids.  I don't seem to recall having this problem on our kidorable  ladybug umbrella.  If your child is a bit older it may be enough to just warn them to be careful not to pinch themselves.