I bought this ring to wear while I'm pregnant since my wedding rings are too tight at the moment. I've had it for 2 months and wear it for all the things I would wear my gold/diamond set - washing dishes, going in the pool, in the shower, to put on lotion, etc. It has held up very well and shines up good as new with a little dawn soap and water. For $40, this ring passes for real and is a great deal! The only thing of note for wear and tear would be that the inside of the rings show a few scratches where the rings rub together. Not a problem though and only noticeable if you take them off and inspect them!