These PJs would be perfect except for the stingy number of buttons. The distance between the four buttons is greater than a hand span and the soft material gaps very badly. Do not plan on wearing this for any occasion where you don't might giving full view of your assets. I purchased them for their lightweight packing properties for long trips with shared occupancy, ie a roommate. I'd say, unless you add awkward safety pins, or just sew the placard shut and slip the shirt on over your head, that you will end up oversharing.