This dress is truly beautiful. Good quality and build, flattering design, pretty bling on the bodice. Go by the HIP measurement in the size chart pictured in the listing photos! The top of the dress is adjustable by the laces, but the hip measurement will tell you if the drop waist will go over your hips. Also, it seems the dress is shipped from a warehouse but returns get mailed to China ($$) so try to order right the first time.