Returning these....If you wear them too high, and you have a decent size butt, these roll up under your butt cheeks.  If you wear them too low, the tops of your thighs roll out of the tops of the bands and rub together.  I have gained weight, so this is a new issue for me, but I am sure these are not going to help.  Looking at trying to rub, because you can touch up whenever you go to the restroom.