So flattering. The pattern is slimming and the front is just sexy enough while still being modest and not too much for my 40ish mom figure. Really surprised how many compliments I got wearing it too - even from my mother/hub! One thing, I think if you're big busted and want to be tasteful/modest it may not be the suit but is worth a try on. My first time ordering a swimsuit online was a success! Also, Im 145 & 57 & got the 8.