Ive bought a few pieces of Lark & Ro cashmere. Some colors seem to be softer than others. This one in Toast was soft but not as buttery soft as my slouchy turtleneck in Wheat - which I also ordered in Navy and returned because it was very itchy. Bottom line, these are hit or miss on the softness level and you just have to try them on. I love this particular style, which does run small, because its simple and classy. It fits more like a long-sleeved cashmere t-shirt and Im OK with that. Im 53 with 32G and while I usually buy M or L for tops, I got an XL for this based on reviews and it fits great. Skims over the stomach, sleeve length is good (hits just above my knuckles which may be too long for some but its fine with me), feels really nice around the shoulders but not too tight in the arms, falls just under my hip, and the color sort of of a light fawn - not as yellow as camel, not as light as oatmeal. Yes it is thin but not like its going to fall apart; its lightweight, perfect for a plane flight or spring weather. Hope this helps!