I love this dress!! It was perfect for my bridal shower, it is a little bigger but I don't think its that bad at all. It is slightly seethrough at the bottom of the dress but nothing nude underwear won't fix! Im also 58 for reference. Also, I liked the little criss cross thing so I purposely wore it backwards! I liked it better that way but I feel you can honestly wear it either way and no one will notice!