Years ago I fell into the trap that as an older overweight man you have to wear conventional mens underwear. In my teens and 20s I wore bikini briefs. Started with Jockey Skants and a few others. You could find man thongs around Valentines Day, jocks were anything but fashion. In my 30s I put all the sexy underwear away going to the conventional mens brief, some boxers and the like. In my 40s I went through a divorce gained weight. Later in getting back into shape I met my partner. Still wearing the conventional underwear we really hit it off. One day I was looking at Amazon and though out loud I wish I could wear something more sexy my partner said why not me what if someone sees me in them. So a back and forth conversation which lead me to ordering these. When i decided that the best way to get an honest trial was to wear them to work. When I put them on I pulled the front too high and as I walked around the creeped down my back side. I remembered a previous post about not pulling them up too high in the front. I readjusted them. They are really low in the front but feel great. I wear scrubs at work and I noticed somewhat if an increased bulge but nothing indecent. I went the rest of the day no problem. Once home I mentioned to my partner they felt great like I was wearing nothing. That was the only time that day I had the indecent issue others talked of because Ad stretchy and low in the the front as they are if something came up they don't contain it.  Im still trying others sexy underwear I don't know which will be in my regular underwear drawer but conventional mens undies are out.