Write a letter to my birthmother letting her know I've found her and asking if she'd like to pursue a relationship with me now that I'm an adult. Share a few details on the accomplishments I've made and my upbringing with my adoptive parents. The tone of the letter should be friendly and forgiving so she knows that I don't blame her for her decision to give me away. Limit it to under 300 words and use some fancy language so she'll know I got a great education. Her name is Samantha and my name is Carrie.
Dear Samantha,


Hey, mom! I hope you don't mind me calling you that. I've waited 18 long years to be able to write this letter. The joy I felt when I was finally able to put a name and a face to the woman who brought me into this world was immeasurable. The only thing that could have made it better would have been for you to be the one presenting that information to me. 

I know that you've since remarried and that I have two half-siblings that are still in your care. I don't say this to hurt your feelings or make you feel guilty for not choosing to keep me. In fact, it was only recently that I learned the details of what you were going through when you put me up for adoption. I now see your decision as a selfless act, and I'm proud that you have gotten to a stage in your life where you can have a healthy, stable family.

The family you placed me with always gave me the option to reach out to you, but being young and confused my displaced anger always fell in your direction. I wish I had taken the time to learn your story back then; if I had, this day could have come much sooner. Nevertheless, I would love to meet you. I'm especially eager to show you all of my academic and athletic accolades and to talk to you about my career plans and life goals. Let me know what you think!

With unconditional love,
Your eldest daughter Carrie 