It also cautions about the use of nick names and the combination of certain first names with a given last name. Also, if you are considering going by your middle name on a regular basisâ¦.how this could affect you personally. Here is a link to see what your name really means.See if it is correct.t means that the way you spell your name and what your name is affects who you are....that's a pretty big deal. If there are negative things in your name that you don't like but agree with....it gives you the opportunity to use your middle name if it is stronger etc.