But some time ago, I came to a realization that I wasn't getting much better at the things I cared most about, whether it was being a husband or a friend or a professional or teammate, and I wasn't improving much at those things even though I was spending a lot of time working hard at them.
Pero hace un tiempo atrás noté que no estaba mejorando en lo que me importaba, se tratara de ser esposo o amigo o profesional o compañero, y no estaba mejorando mucho en esas áreas aunque pasaba mucho tiempo en casa trabajando duro en ellas.