But the fifth commandment gave me an epiphany: "You shall honor your father and mother." "Honor," I said. "That's so different, and better, than obey." So it becomes my tool to climb out of this Confucian guilt trap and to restart my relationship with my parents.
Pero el quinto mandamiento para mí fue una revelación: "Honrarás a tu padre y a tu madre". "Honrar", me dije. "Es tan diferente, y mucho mejor que obedecer".