So notice next time you say, "Watch out, you're going to get hurt," or, "Don't do that, it's dangerous." And remember that often what you're really telling her is that she shouldn't be pushing herself, that she's really not good enough, that she should be afraid.
Así que atentos a la próxima vez que digan, "Cuidado, te vas a lastimar", o, "No hagas eso, es peligroso." Y recuerden que a menudo lo que realmente le están diciendo es que ella no debería esforzarse, que; en realidad, no es lo suficientemente buena, que ella debe tener miedo.