Maybe it's "I want to stay sober" or "I want to build a tree house with my kid." You know, instead of going up to the person everybody wants to meet, go up to the person who is all alone and ask them if they want to grab a cup of coffee.
Quizá sea: "Quiero permanecer sobrio", o "Quiero construir una casa en un árbol con mi hijo". Ya saben, en vez de buscar a la persona que todos quieren conocer, acérquense a la persona que está sola y pregúntenle si quiere tomar una taza de café.