When you're at the beginning of a new romance or a new marriage, you say, "I have found the person who will not break my heart." I'm sorry; you have chosen them out unconsciously for that exact core competency.
Al comienzo de un nuevo romance o un nuevo matrimonio, uno dice: "He encontrado a la persona que no romperá mi corazón". Lo siento; uno la ha elegido inconscientemente justamente por esa exacta capacidad.