That's true to a point, however I believe we are all stronger than you make it sound. In addition to that, if you take care of your wife in all ways she won't want to leave you. Of course divorce rates are high in our country but I would bet that WN rates are substantially lower.     You might end up with the wrong woman but you can never regret the kids. Kids are awesome and make life worth living. If the woman wants to leave for whatever reason who cares, go get another one. Like I said, if you do your part then she is stupid to leave.       Your ratio is far too low. WN M to F runs probably 20/35 to 1.  To fellow Washingtonian **JT**:  In my experience and through observation, this balls thing rapidly changes from benefit to hinderance.  Today's most professed Racialist White woman can get nervous and jerky _AFTER_ the meeting, courtship and commitment have transpired, when _her_ kids are involved, even if you're the biological father. The biological mindset of ALL women is these are _my_ kids. To elaborate:  Joe and Becky meet, marry, and are active in pro-White ways. Some kids come along. Life is bee-utiful, marvy-dinks. Joe continues some activism, and might have a brush with trouble, such as loss of a job due to personal convictions, maybe some anti's threats left on the family phone machine, who knows. Could even be the _fear_ in Becky if Joe posts strongly worded emails or articles via the internet under his own name. It need not be impending danger, just the notion of danger to _her_ kids is sufficient to throw a serious rift into the relationship.  The courts are on her side today, in well over 80% of the cases. Her next, trouble-free husband called The State is ALWAYS ready to step in if Becky decides 'ole Joe is, in any way, jeopardizing _her_ kids. She can pitch him out, love and racialism nonewithstanding, AND clamp child support on his butt. At that point, Joe has been marginalized and outsourced in the most brutal way; his reproductive worth has been passed on and, by having balls and working for his race, he ends up with _nothing_ shy of occasional visitation, his record collection and maybe the family dog. The overwhelming norm today is Mom, X-# kids, biological Dad (pro-White or lemming) removed from the picture.  White women, even pro-White White women, all but a very few, very unique ones, have totally lost their American-pioneer strength. After all, the modern, technologically work-reducing world we live in has softened both man and woman. Pro-White women will talk a convincing conceptual dedication to activism when _her_ children are completely safe; but complete safety for Whites who are active and verbal does not exist. When the going gets tough, Becky does what her biology dictates, she insures safety for her kids by breaking those lofty promised ties with the father of her children, EVEN though pro-Whites talk endlessly about how nuclear, Mother/Father families are so important to the children.  This is not _my_ construction of thought and analysis... We have examples of pro-White men who seem to drop out of the scene for inexplicable reasons. The _real_ reasons are found on the homefront. It all depends on how close danger, real or imagined, comes to said homefront. 