I have recently committed to WN.   My wife is a loving woman to a fault. She doesn't love blacks and mexicans but she is completely programmed to accept multiculturalism. I am hoping some folks can suggest subtle ways to help bring her around. My hard line approach seems to be falling short.   We have a teenage daughter and as most parents know, we need to present a united front to equip our girl for the challenges she is and will continue to face.   We are in a dire situation! We are the only all white family left in my tree and in hers!