First of all, I don't really think women are so hellbent about rank. Those alpha beta designations are for wild wolves, not people. Humans are not pack animals. A few women like dominant guys, but not all.   How do you know, do you know how I interact with these women? You don't have a clue. I'm doing absolutely nothing wrong, just being a decent guy that girls should like.  :facepalm:  Girls SHOULD like? How do you know that's what girls like? That's what they SAY they like, but is that what they actually like? Really???    And who are you to decide what those girls want? They all have different preferences.  That's like a fat chick saying: how do you know what guys like, they all have their preferences   And I know what beta is and it is nothing like the way I act around women (and even if I was there wouldn't be anything wrong with it, not all women want to be dominated). Again, what you are doing is claiming that your computer is equipped with a Trojan device and you have been watching my dating experience. Don't you get it?  I have posted these facts about me,   -Christian faith -German descent -Very cute -Work hard in school -Determined -Have goals and ambitions -Motivated -Driven -Dominant/leader -Physically strong and athletic -Due to being physically active -Good hygiene,personal care -Muscular -Stubborn -Decent -Mature  -Gentleman behavior -God fearing -Right wing (not racist or nazi)  -Traditional -Protective -Caring -Respectful -Not judgemental -Moral  None of which are beta. I know you're doing it wrong because it hasn't worked. If everything you said is true, and you are doing it right, you should be slaying girls left and right every day. But you aren't, so something is wrong. The amount of emphasis you put on being a decent, caring, gentlemen is telling me that this might be the issue.     Love stories are for women. This whole romantic fantasy where you fall in love, and roll around on a beach, and propose...etc, this isn't really how a man typically approaches a relationship. This is what female first grade teachers tell little boys they should expect from a girl, but this isn't the reality of the world. I mean, just look at the title of this thread, you're looking for your soul mate, this is typically what a woman will say, not a man.     Women don't want to date women. Women don't want to date the nice, tender, compassionate guy. Women want men. They want a brute. They want someone that's going to take command. To be dominant, be confident, be an a-hole if that's what it takes. To go out there, kick the **** out of everyone, and bring home some food for dinner.    ----------------------------------    I'm not saying you should change your personality and act like someone totally different. But you can can change your approach. There are normal looking guys (short, no muscles, no job....etc) that go out and sleep with 20 different hot girls a week who they've never met before. How is this possible? Because they know how to carry themselves, and how to approach the situation. Guess what? They don't treat the girl like a queen, as a matter of fact they're kind of mean to her. And the girls love it, they trip over each other to get at these guys.     So do some research. Talk to people, use Google. Figure out what you're doing wrong and fix it.    WARNING: Don't ask women what they want, because they'll lie. First of all they don't know what they want, and second of all they'll always tell you what they think they're supposed to say, rather than the truth. They'll say they want the nice, tender, compassionate guy, only to dump him when he shows up on their doorstep. Don't fall for this.  Instead, you should be asking men who've had success. Read their articles and their blogs. Watch their videos and tutorials on how to play the game. It will change your life. The resources are out there for you.