Having good judgement on who you choose to date is all a part of keeping your nose clean, and not being an idiot.  I can guarantee with this chick all his saw were large breasts... it was basically muh dik.  you can be with someone for 5, 10, 15, 20 years and never really know them. how convenient it is to blame men for the actions of women. I'm sure alot of MGTOW's and anti feminists would have a field day assessing that.        the whole situation was because he was leaving said woman. so to say it's his fault because he didn't have good judgment, is a bit moot when he was simply trying to leave.     so by that logic, men are not only responsible for the actions of the women they're with, they're also responsible for their choices when the woman flips out because she tells you to leave, gets mad that you're actually leaving instead of begging to stay, then calls the police on you while you're packing up.     if a womans husband turned out to be a rapist, is it her fault that she chose to be with him, not knowing he was a rapist? no? then how is it a mans fault when a woman decides to go off the rails? this isn't 1814....men are not responsible for their women, we live in a free society, remember? you are not to be held accountable for the actions of another. unless of course, you think women are property to be owned and controlled.    he's about as responsible for what's happening to him now, as he was when trayvon decided to backtrack and attack him.