 I can understand why a man in this country is hesitant of marriage. The court system is certainly pitted against the men, without question. Pre-nups would be the best answer to any uncertainty when going into a marriage. Unfortunately, from I have seen throughout my life, women ARE usually, natural born socialists. They, along with black and other ethnic groups are looking to remove white men from thier places of power, and replace them with homosexuals, women and people of color. You hit the nail right on the head sister. No-fault divorce is one of the biggest weapons that Jewish lawmakers and judges have used to weaken the traditional roles of men and women in our society. The man is most cases will still have to pay alimony, so what's the point in marriage if you can be penalized in ad finitum even though you are not at fault?    While I say that there is no bigger coward than a man that strikes a woman, domestic violence laws and false claims of such are not uncommon either. A friend of mine married an Asian woman in his last year of college. She was able to get her green card, and once she had it the abuse towards him began. I had seen her strike him no less than three separate times, and had seen her in the city we were living in alone with another man on at least one occasion. When he finally wised up and told her to get out and that he was filing for divorce, the first thing she did was go to a women's center and they advised her to go to the police and have her file a restraining order against him.    Now this friend is one of the gentlest people I've ever known in my life, and if anyone was being abused in that relationship, it was him by his filipina hussy wife. Would have liked to have told him I told you so but he had already learned his lesson so I just consoled him as a friend should. He went on to grad school and met a beautiful woman from Romania and they ended up getting married. That was 14 years ago and they still seem very happy and have 3 kids. Time has changed their appearance a bit, so they both look and carry on like Mr. and Mrs. Claus, happy as can be.