I think the irony in this story is that even though it's BS, let's pretend it's true for a moment. How would the customer know the waiter was gay? Oh that's right, because he was probably flaunting his gayness to the customer like some badge of honor.     That's what they don't get. The only way a customer would be able to determine your sexuality, is if you're displaying your sexuality in some way. Does displaying your sexuality at a place of business and dining seem professional? No. Your sexuality as a waiter, has no place in your work.    And the truth is that gay people need to understand, is that people eating at a restaurant don't need look at me I'm gay!. You're there to serve them, not the whole I'm here I'm queer get used to it crap.     I think if you're an employee and a customer can tell your sexuality, you've already acted outside of professional capacity, and are technically badgering the customer with your sexuality like a giant purple dildo in GTA.    That's the problem with gays, they too often like to display their sexuality like figuratively rubbing balls in strangers faces. They can't keep their sexuality to themselves, yet everyone else is the problem to them. It's childish.