No, you're not a failure at life. I think you'd probably be surprised how many guys that are 20 are still virgins, especially if they're religious, there are probably alot more than you think. I used to work with a guy who was 20 and still a virgin and we always teased him about it. We used to listen to the classic rock station at work and they were taking requests, we called in and told the DJ our friend is 20 and still a virgin and we wanted to dedicate I Can't Get No Satisfaction by the Rolling Stones to him:roflThe DJ played it and he's like okay this one goes out to Tim Smith(not his real surname) from his buddies at work, etc... :roflYou shoulda seen the look on his face, man that was funny stuff. He was a real cool guy too though.     http://www.oregonpremiersoccer.org/v...ike-swoosh.gif But you know what the folks at Nike say... :D