  Frankly, a lot of white men are just plain lazy about it. They know they are smarter, etc, and make no effort whatsoever. And all the facts about how white men and white society preserve the rights of women will mean nothing if you can't make the connection. Just saying. BTW, I am not misinformed, but thanks for the thought.  I agree. Many white men do not make the effort to woo white women. I have experienced this time and time again. I have also heard this complaint from a number of white women.