  I don't know what the deal is, but I am approached by non-whites interested in dating on a much more regular basis than white women. I can't help but wondering if it's because I just don't have the right look for white women or something else entirely.  Could this have to do with non-whites being encouraged to seek out white partners and whites being antagonized to date interracially? I mean, there are tons of white couples everywhere and the girlfriends that I have had have all been caucasion, but in all the states I have lived in since I have been a teenager it seems to be the case that non-whites are far more interested in me than my fellow white females on average.   Has anyone else had this problem? :confused: I can't figure it out for the life of me and I really do wish it would stop. I constantly have that conversation with an interested non-white female about how I don't date interracially, and then I face the you're racist accusations.  Of course the non-whites are seeking out white partners...I see it and experience it all the time. I've noticed over the years that they are becoming more and more aggressive. As a white woman, I often feel like a walking target.     It's the non-whites trying to politically position themselves. They want the mixed babies in order to justify their place in this country. They don't have anything to offer us, so they have mixed children to try to become part of our community.     For those who do approach me, I simply tell them that I'm not interested. I don't bother to go into to racial preference because their political agenda doesn't allow them to be reasonable. It's useless to try to reason with them.    FYI - If you want a white woman, then approach her or at least give her an indication that you're interested. I think the issue of white women not approaching you as often has more to do with culture rather than whether you possess the 'right look'.