chivalry just isn't worth it anymore. it's often taken for granted or not appreciated at all, and it really doesn't get people anywhere.     the idea of chivalry is nice, but women do not need to be told they're equals, then be treated better than others by having things done for them. it ultimately leads to a distorted view of what equality is. men then become chivalry-dispensers to women. like a butterfly going from flower to flower for niceties, without actual true appreciation.    if women want to be equals, then they should be treated like equals. I'm not giving up my seat for some woman anymore than I'm giving up my seat to the guy next to her. I refuse to go along with living in a world where others think they deserve what I have, my time, my efforts, or deserve more anything than myself, at my or others expense.