  I swore I wouldn't comment on another queer thread, but here goes.  I understand that gays want their rights, and personally, I don't care if a man can marry another man. Marriage is a religious thing, and I am not religious. But I don't make out with my wife in a crowded restaurant and feel up on her while slipping her the tongue and get mad if someone asks me to stop. I don't engage in clothes-on-sex on the subway with my wife and call people bigots when someone gets offended. And I certainly don't try to get people to suppress their 1st Amendment rights by demanding that churches answer for anti-gay statements.  I am not anti-gay, but my own brother was married to a bisexual woman who left him for a chick. She is using the Homosexual discrimination card to withhold his kids. Even though she was cheating on him.  I know a gentleman who almost left his wife for an old boyfriend. He is in therapy now to overcome that crap.  Homosexuals destroy families.  I totally agree with your post, but especially that.