  Yes, I seem to attract non-whites more, mostly Asian women.....  I've never had much luck with White women and many aren't particularly friendly, especially the more attractive ones....  I guess because White women are the most attractive, or the queen bees of women, they can afford to be more picky or selective, because they get hit on constantly by men of all races....whereas non-white women aren't approached as much and are therefore more appreciative of the interest or attention..  I notice you are from Minnesota, a state that has a very high rate of mixed race couples...especially around the Minneapolis and St. Paul areas.   I would like to introduce a different approach. There are four main factors that significantly impact the lives of white women;      (1)  The negative depiction of white women in mass media; i.e. objectivication, oversexualized, doormats, etc.     (2) Interactions in the work world that require them to subvert their receptivity (and many aspects of their femininity) in order to compete.     (3) Trying ot reconcile white cultural ideals of womanhood with modern-day experiences and needs.     (4) The aggressive behavior of minority men.     White women are bombarded on a constant basis with these issues which causes many to be wary of interactions with strangers and how others perceive them. The aloof behavior is a  reaction .     Personally speaking, I always make sure to dress tastefully and I am not as open with strangers (or men I barely know) because I don't want to be perceived as a doormat or 'sexually aggressive' (sorry, lack of a better term). I am more conservative because I want white men to know who I am as a person and whether or not they are receptive to what I have to offer.      I think it is really important to include the mainstream cultural impact when analyzing the behavior of / interaction between whites in general.