I dress within my work's dress code when I'm there.    When I'm not at work, I dress in metalhead style: black tee or band tee, blue or black jeans, Docs or engineer boots, leather jacket and/or vest with patches. It's the opposite of ghetto and not appealing to black men, so I can walk around without getting catcalled. The only thing they're more put-off by is heavy goth (but so are most people).