Women aren't something you can choose by type like you would a car. Two women who appear to be similar in some ways are likely very different in other ways.    Date multiple women and in the early stages, and ask yourself Is she an asset or a liability? Basically, is she going to help you or will she cause issues? Drop her if she is turning out to be a liability, and put a bit more into the asset relationships.    At the same time, cultivate skills that will make yourself an asset and not a liability. Learn to keep your affairs in order and manage your money, show that you can plan for long term, and show that you can take care of yourself. If you're in school, go to class and get good grades; if you work, try not to get fired from a job every year; if you live by yourself, keep your space tidy and learn to make basic meals that aren't ramen and chicken nuggets; if you live with your parents, keep your room neat, do chores without being asked; have productive hobbies that you do independently.    Be yourself, as well, because you really only need to impress 1 woman. And it sounds cliche, but you have to love yourself first before anyone can love you.