I don't think women will be turned off by you because you work 90 hours a week, and not all are looking for white collar 90k a year earners. My advice:    Suspend your desire for a mate (at least outwardly), because most women can sense desperation and are turned off by it.    At the same time, on your time off, go do things YOU like. Go to church, go the the gym, go run, or go to a bar, music show, county fair, car show, etc. be approachable, carry something interesting on you, but if you're outgoing talk to other people, women and men. Maybe even a man has a female friend or his wife/girlfriend has a female friend who is single and looking. If women in the same area see you talking to both sexes they might be less likely to assume your just trying to pick them up.    Date multiple women and keep each meeting in a public space, no sleepovers or sex, until you've zeroed in on one with potential.    A lot of the women I know who are married/engaged to pipeliners are traditional-minded but independent and smart, and somewhat tomboys. They can run the show while their husbands/fiancés are gone and know how to deal with a broken pipe or car that won't start. Look for that type of personality.    Ask your friends at work if they have female friends who are single and looking.    Use the internet but be SUPER critical. My suggestion would be to use more specific sites than e-harmony or plentyoffish. Find a specific dating site, and I'm sure there's one for pipeliners too. Find one that most specifically describes your interests or demographic. I tried online dating on the general sites and didn't have much luck (mostly guys who couldn't make a coherent sentence) but I went to a metalhead dating site and there was someone who I wanted to message to about every week and I found two good matches there (both pro-white if you can imagine that). Idk if April Gady is still a matchmaker here.