You have to teach your kids at a young age that there's an official line that they have to humor and a practical and real one that they have to understand to be street-smart and racially conscious.    Let them experiment at a very young age (kindergarten or first grade) with blacks and jews. The first time they get betrayed by either one, you have your first opportunity to educate them on why they are different and undeserving of either respect or sympathy.    Do it while they are young and their intentions are innocent. They will hold this lesson close and dear and harbor an innate trust of both groups. Once they know this in their hearts, they will resent what they are being force-fed in school and will become yet even more racially conscious.    This is exactly what the jews and blacks do with their prodigy and it obviously works for them. We should all follow suit but remind our kids that we are not empowered now so we have to keep these feelings to ourselves until the time is right.