TBH, don't totally shun club girls. I was somewhat of a club girl - went out 3-5 days a week. An anti-Marxist guy I was talking to rejected me 'cause I went out too much when we had Skyped one time, but when I got with my s/o I went out WAY less out of respect for him, and he was patient enough to give me time to adjust {like, OCCASIONALLY 2 glasses of champagne when he's there, dancing to industrial every few months). It takes a while to realize one guy is going to invest his time and emotions, and it's time to forsake all others.