I wouldn't disown them, but I wouldn't support it.    I think of homosexuality as an abnormality a bit more severe than what used to be known as Asperger's, or perhaps mild schizophrenia If I were to say You're abnormal, get out of my life, I don't think that would be constructive; at the same time, if I were permissive and said If you want to pee anywhere you want and hit people, do should do it if you want to express yourself that way that wouldn't be constructive either. It basically just turns a person loose on the world and the distinction is: do they have a chip on their shoulder or are they ignorant?    I'd want to teach them how to have insight into themselves and develop ways to cope. Society, it seems, wants to tell homosexuals to do whatever they want if it's what they feel like, then turn it up to 11. Turned on by your friend? Make out with them. Feel like you were born as the wrong sex? Dress like a slutty version of the opposite sex. Turned on by men? Surround yourself with naked men. Nowhere does anyone say, Acknowledge your feelings and move on or This is a side effect of what's happening in your brain.    Then again, I plan to have more than one child so not everything is hinging on a single person.