Eduardo Bonilla-Silva, a Duke sociologist,  asked his white students how many had a black friend on campus. All the white students raised their hands.   He then asked the black students how many of them had a white friend on campus. None of them raised their hands.   The more he probed, Mr. Bonilla-Silva says, the more he realized that the definition of friendship was different. The white students considered a black a friend if they played basketball with him or shared a class. It was more of an acquaintance, recalls Mr. Bonilla-Silva.   Black students, by contrast, defined a friend as someone they would invite to their home for dinner. By that measure, none of the students had friends from the opposite race.      That about sums it up, these White people who think these Black people are their friends....:rolleyes: They're not your friends you just think they are, they know better than that. Most of them will stab you in the back at the first good opportunity.