I side more with anti-feminism because it doesn't have the double-standards which plague feminism. Part of the idea is that of male privileges and responsibilities, and female privileges and responsibilities.    Old way  Male privileges: access to education, job market, ability to join the military  Female privileges: taken care of by men and protected by society  Male responsibility: provide for his family, make decisions in civic life, provide for himself, die defending his country  Female responsibilities: raise children    Feminist way  Male privileges: access to education, job market, ability to join the military  Female privileges: taken care of by men and protected by society + male privileges  Male responsibility: provide for his family, make decisions in civic life, provide for himself, die defending his country  Female responsibilities: None    Feminists will promote getting more women in the military, but they aren't trying to include women on the draft as well. That's the most prototypical symbol of Feminism's hypocrisy. I'm not saying to include women in the draft, but if the privilege and responsibility are a package deal it will be less enticing to just go around adopting privileges.    Anti-feminism says women are allowed to do anything men have been privileged to do, however they are required to take up the corresponding responsibility. A woman who competes with men for jobs may have the responsibility of being a breadwinner for that family. If a woman wants to be taken care of, she should pursue a humble career (ex. retail, carer, hairstylist, tending bar, waitressing, daycare, etc. as opposed to engineering, law, medicine, etc.) or date up economically. Personally, I'm in a position where my s/o and I are both educated, both have jobs in our fields, also both have domestic skills, and we want to have kids at some point. Based on our current income, I could very well end up the breadwinner and I'm not going to try to have my cake and eat it too. Whether my contribution is at home or at work, I will be grateful to do either.