Long story short when I was in the military I took out a private student loan from XXXX XXXX XXXX. After I got out of the military in XXXX XXXX, I graduated college that XXXX XXXX. Some time between XXXX and XXXX my loan is being serviced by American Education Services. After I got out of the XXXX I got a job and was struggling to make my payment of {$320.00}. The intial loan amount was {$30000.00} with Interest I owe {$42000.00}. In the last 3 years I have paid over {$7000.00} in interest and only {$3500.00} in principle. The interest rate is at 5.83 %. So lets fast forward to XXXX XXXX, XXXX right now I am unemployed, I am 100 % XXXX with service connected through the VA. I am back in school doing XXXX credit hours using my post XXXX XXXX XXXX. I am married with XXXX kids XXXX of the children I pay {$1000.00} a month in child support. Also in the mean time my wife and I are trying to start a business so all her time is spent raising a XXXX year old and office management stuff to find customers for our XXXX business. Finally I have had enough and I called XXXX XXXX XXXX, I was told they no longer do student loans and they ca n't help me with my private loan in restructuring it. They said technically AES owns the loan and they can do it. I called AES and talked to a supervisor named XXXX she told me the same thing I have heard over the last 3 years XXXX XXXX XXXX only allows 2 month forbearance that is it. After threatening to call and write anyone and everyone that could help me handle the situation XXXX said that they would forbear it for 60 months while I am in school. She sent me the paper work and it only says forbearance for 2 months. I am at my wit end and do n't know what I can do to get help besides start writing and calling everyone to get help. PLEASE HELP