They call my house every hour starting at XXXX and quit at XXXX then they call my cell phone I have explained to them that my husband passed away on XXXX XXXX He worked in XXXX And did XXXX years in the XXXX Before we got Married we were Married XXXX years when he passed! It is taking time to find out if I even qualify for any spouse benefits from over there I am to young to collect benefits here I have to be XXXX i have XXXX years yet but calling me XXXX days a week XXXX times a day is n't going to get the XXXX government to do any of their decision any faster!