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Lis la se souvan trè long, epi anjeneral li gen bagay sa yo sou gen ki aktyèlman eklatman ak tèt yo! Pou egzanp li ta ka gen 'ou kalm, ak mete tounen' dwa akote 'pasyone ak enèjik'. Koulye a, mwen pa di ke ou pa ka gen tout moun sa yo kalite nan yon sèl moun, li nan jis ki nòmalman gen tandans nan direksyon pou yon nonm youn nan lòt la. Se konsa, ki se li? Epitou lis nou an pafwa gen bagay sa yo sou ki yo, se pou trivial, tankou 'tatoo' oswa 'misk'. Vini non sou dam! Pa gen anyen mal nan gen preferans fizik men yo ou reyèlman ale nan chwazi patnè lavi ou sou si wi ou non li te gen lank sou kò l '? Èske ou panse ke sa a pral pote ou relasyon ki pi bon pou lavi ou? Ki sa ki sou kalite yo ki reyèlman gen pwoblèm, tankou onètete, lwayote, jantiyès, fòs (nan tèt ou) ak sou sa?
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The list is often very long and usually it has things on there that actually clash with themselves! For example she might have ‘calm and laid back’ right next to ‘passionate and energetic’. Now I am not saying that you can’t have all those qualities in one person, it’s just that normally a man tends towards one of the other. So which is it? Also our lists sometimes have things on that are so trivial, such as ‘tattoos’ or ‘muscles’. Come on ladies! There is nothing wrong in having physical preferences but are you really going to choose your life partner on whether he has ink on his body? Do you think that this will bring you the best relationship for your life? What about the qualities that really matter, such as honesty, loyalty, kindness, strength (of mind) and so on?