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MWEN RENMEN SA!! Nou se pastè jèn nan yon legliz ti ak mwen toujou di jèn yo, “Gen sèlman de bagay sa yo ou pral janm fè nan yon relasyon… 1) Marye 2) Separe. Kraze fè m mal epi kreye bagaj, Se konsa, si ou pa pare jwenn marye, li pi bon pa yo kòmanse nan yon relasyon.” (Sa pa vle di ou pa grandi yo dwe pare pou maryaj nan yon relasyon, men mwen sitou pale ak 13-16 timoun ki gen ane.) Pifò moun ki kòmanse yon relasyon panse li pral yon ti, efemèr, plezi bagay. Men, Lè sa santiman devlope, ou tonbe nan peche, ak Lè sa a li a pi rèd pase tout tan jwenn soti. Si nou ta pwoteje kè a, Bondye te bay nou kòm koute chè, epi ale nan relasyon sa a soti nan pèspektiv, pèspektiv a nan li fini monte nan maryaj ak yon nonm osinon yon fanm Godly, nou ta dwe byen lwen mwens fè mal ak kase pa tan an ki Godly gason osinon yon fanm Bondye gen pou nou vini alantou! Mèsi pou pataje!!!
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I LOVE THIS!! We are youth pastors at a small church and I always tell the teens, “There are only two things you will ever do in a relationship… 1) Get Married 2) Break up. Breaking up hurts and creates baggage, so if you are not ready to get married, it’s best not to start in a relationship.” (Not that you don’t grow to be ready for marriage in a relationship, but I’m mostly talking to 13-16 yr olds.) Most people start a relationship thinking it will be a small, shortlived, fun thing. But then feelings develop, you fall into sin, and then it’s harder than ever to get out. If we would protect the heart God Gave us as precious, and go at relationships from this perspective, the perspective of it ending up in marriage to a Godly man or woman, we would be far less hurt and broken by the time that Godly man or woman God has for us comes around! Thanks for sharing!!!