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Pou jwenn plis lanmou, li vrèman ede konnen dezi seksyèl ak lanmou, nan sans lyezon, yo pwodui pa de separe, men sistèm lye nan sèvo a. Nou ka santi yo angaje nan yon zanmi, men se pa dezi seksyèl pou li oswa li. Nou ka gen dezi seksyèl pou yon moun san yo pa santi yo estokaj. Yon balans sante nan dezi ak lyezon se pi bon baz pou yon long tèm, kè kontan, relasyon seksyèl. Tou de se rekonpans natirèl.
eng
To find more love, it really helps to know that sexual desire and love, in the sense of bonding, are produced by two separate, but linked systems in the brain. We can feel bonded to a friend but not have sexual desire for him or her. We can have sexual desire for someone without feeling bonded. A healthy balance of both desire and bonding is the best basis for a long-term, happy, sexual relationship. Both are natural rewards.