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Wi, nou te tout te gen jou move nou an, men yon dat (espesyalman yon dat premye) se pa plas la nan lè tout nan plent ou. Chans yo, dat ou ap tann yo gen yon bon, plezi tan lè li satisfè moute ak ou. Si li se akeyi ak yon 'trafik bondye papa te tankou yon painÖI rayi townî sa a li pral imedyatman dwe etenn. Pote plent kouche ton an pou yon estrès, kontan dat. Menm si ou te gen yon jou Fiskal, pa pase nwit la la fè rechiya sou li. Jis gen kè kontan yo dwe pase tan ak ti fi a ou enterese nan. Souri yo kontajye men sa yo se reprouv. Si ou konnen li ou pa, atitid move ou ta ka afekte dat ou ki jan li santi l sou ou. Ou vle dat ou a sonje ou kòm komik ak optimis, pa yon downer.
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Yes, we have all had our bad days, but a date (especially a first date) is not the place to air all of your grievances. Chances are, your date is expecting to have a good, fun time when she meets up with you. If she is greeted with a ‘Gosh traffic was such a painÖI hate this townî she will immediately be turned off. Complaining sets the tone for a stressful, unhappy date. Even if you have had a taxing day, don’t spend the night whining about it. Just be happy to be spending time with the woman you are interested in. Smiles are contagious but so are frowns. Whether you know it or not, your bad mood could affect your date and how she feels about you. You want your date to remember you as funny and upbeat, not a downer.