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Gen yon defo nan estrateji nati a, yon ensèk nan sistèm lan, si ou renmen. Kole desann ak premye moun nou tonbe nan renmen ak rete estokaj pa ta ede gaye jèn nou yo. Gaye jèn yo se nimewo nati a priyorite 1. Bonè endividyèl nou an pa figire nan plan an. Se konsa, prèske tout mamifè, ki gen ladan nou moun gen yon bati nan, ansyen mekanis ki syantis rele Efè a Coolidge. Li opere pou fè chache 'patnè roman' roman lè travay fètilizasyon nou an ap parèt. Li travay pa bati tolerans, oswa annwi ak, moun nan menm oswa estimilis. _ Apre tan prezans yo vin mwens 'rekonpanse' nan sèvo primitif la. Apre yon tan nou jis gen mwens ak mwens dezi pou menm patnè seksyèl la.
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There is a flaw in nature’s strategy, a bug in the system, if you like. Settling down with the first person we fall in love with and staying bonded would not help spread our genes. Spreading genes is Nature’s number 1 priority. Our individual happiness does not figure in the plan. So almost all mammals, including us humans have a built in, ancient mechanism that scientists call The Coolidge Effect. It operates to make us seek out ‘novel’ mating partners when our fertilisation job appears to be done. It works by building tolerance to, or boredom with, the same person or stimulus. _Over time their presence becomes less ‘rewarding’ to the primitive brain. Over time we just have less and less desire for the same sexual partner.