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Li se pwobableman konfonn kòm poukisa ou te pran yo pou yo akòde oswa trete yo seryezman. Sa a pa nesesèman vle di ke ou bezwen fè moute kèk istwa elabore sou poukisa ou te fè. Sa vle di dwe onèt. Li ta ka ke ou te jenn ti gason, ou pa t 'konnen ki sa ou te gen jiskaske li te ale oswa nenpòt kantite rezon. Pa gen moun ki se pafè e si yo te renmen ou se vre wi: yo pral renmen ou pou tout bagay sa yo yo rayi sou ou twò. Men, kominikasyon se souvan yon gwo baryè nan relasyon. Yo bezwen konprann poukisa ou te fè sa ou te fè. Ou dwe yo ki epi yo pral apresye onètete ou ak lefèt ke ou te brav ak matirite ase yo admèt ke ou te mal.
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He is probably confused as to why you took them for granted or treated them badly. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to make up some elaborate story about why you did. It means be honest. It could be that you were young, you didn’t realise what you had until it was gone or any number of reasons. No one is perfect and if they love you truly they will love you for all the things they hate about you too. But communication is often a major barrier in relationships. They need to understand why you did what you did. You do owe them that and they will appreciate your honesty and the fact that you were brave and mature enough to admit that you were wrong.