hat
Ou yo, se pou sou pwen lè ou di, “Mwen pa janm te vle apresye preferans mwen an pou yon madanm sou sa ki mwen te bezwen nan yon madanm.” pafwa, Mwen santi mwen neglije kòm yon fi paske pèsonalite m 'ak tanperaman se yon sèten fason. Mwen se ki sa ou ta ka rele “etranj” oswa “diferan” selon anpil moun mwen konnen. Gen sèten gason tankou yon ti fi ki moun ki nan yon ti kras plis nan mòd endikap oswa yon moun ki nan yon ti kras pi plis sosyal ak gwo ènmi pase mwen menm. Nan yon lòt lè, Mwen panse ke petèt mwen fè tèt mwen mwens disponib pa pwòp lide ti kras mwen diskriminasyon. Moun sa yo ki fason yo pa ki baze sou ras, men plis sou background yon moun nan oswa mòd yo nan transpò… paske mwen monte otobis la nan lekòl, epi mwen pa apresye li lè yon nèg ap fè ti jwèt ak m 'sou transpò piblik. (Lide a se ke si tankou yon moun k'ap monte bis la oswa tren, ou pa kapab peye yo ka resevwa yon machin ak kondwi yon sèl, ou gen yon ti lajan oswa yo ap depanse l 'sou bagay sa yo sa ki mal, ak Se poutèt sa pa gen okenn biznis ap eseye pale dous m '. LOL… men sa a se tou sa ki mal.) Mwen priye pou Senyè a ede m 'yo rete nan volonte li pou sove lavi mwen, se konsa ke lè lè a va rive pou sa yon moun sèten yo jwenn nan “bon bagay,” Mwen pral pare. :)
eng
This is hypocritical but when I see an interracial couple in public I think nothing of it EXCEPT for when I see a Black man with a non-Black girl. I don’t even flinch if its vice versa but I do know that being a Black man in this society is harder than most. I used to work in a hotel alongside Black men and while guests treated me with respect and believed I could do my job with excellence, they flipped the switch with my Black co-workers right in front of me. I could deliver towels to their room but the guests wouldn’t open the door for them. I could check guests in with ease but they were asked “I don’t know. Can you handle this?” I could stand outside on break without bother but the police stopped them to ask “What are you guys doing?” People judge and treat Black men differently and I haven’t figured out why. So when I see a Black man with anyone else, my first thought is “He is trying to make life easier on himself.” My second thought is “He wants his kids to have her features.” But hey, who am I to judge? (Even though I do) I will most likely marry outside my race simply because of my LOVE of adventure so like I said in the beginning, this point is just straight hypocritical. At least you married yours for the right reasons.