hat
kesyon jodi a se nan youn nan lektè nou ki ta renmen rete anonim; nou pral rele l 'Bill. Li kesyon an ankò. Avi sou jan Bill se deja konvenki ke fanm lan pi piti li ap chèche pa yo pral enterese nan yon moun laj li. Sa a se yon ranpli kwayans pwòp tèt ou ki se nòmalman garanti yo rive vre. Si ou kwè gwo twou san fon desann sou menm w ap ale nan fail, Lè sa a, ou pral.
eng
Today’s question is from one of our readers who wishes to stay anonymous; we’ll call him Bill. Read the question again. Notice how Bill is already convinced that the younger woman he seeks will not be interested in someone his age. This is a self fulfilling belief which is virtually guaranteed to come true. If you believe deep down that you’re going to fail, then you will.