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1. Evite tretman an silans: Fanm ak gason tou de yo se koupab de taktik sa, ak li a èkstrèmeman danjere ak destriktif. Lè yo bare se esansyèlman fèmen patnè ou soti, e ke sa a pa benefisye adrese pwoblèm yo reyèl nan men. Osi difisil ke li pouvwa sanble, sèvi ak mo ou a montre sa ou santi ou, ak pa bezwen pè yo ka resevwa espesifik. Sonje, moun nan dwa ki pral travay avèk ou sou pwoblèm relasyon, pa sèvi ak sa ou santi ou kòm minisyon kont ou.
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1. Avoid the silent treatment: Women and men both are guilty of this tactic, and it’s incredibly dangerous and destructive. Shutting down is essentially shutting your partner out, and that’s not beneficial to addressing the real issues at hand. As hard as it may seem, use your words to show your feelings, and don’t be afraid to get specific. Remember, the right person is going to work with you on relationship troubles, not use your feelings as ammunition against you.