It's been a pretty difficult year so far.  My wife passed away in April and I'm still pretty lost.  I never thought I'd end up a widow.  Have you ever been married?
No but I am engaged. Im sorry to hear about that are you getting treatment to help you treatments varies but it helps.
That's true, treatment and talking to people helps.  It's nice to know that people are out there who are compassionate enough to listen.  How long have you been engaged for?
for about a year now. I remember one time hearing the term for widowhood could be for either gender.