Divorce laws vary by state and in most countries. Most require a court and a legal process with issues of alimony and child support and visitation. I was divorced in 2001.
Woa that is hard, how different is the law now, compare to 2001 when you divorce? im in a relationship never been married!
I am not sure how the laws have changed but the reasons for divorce can be due to incompatibility, lack of independence or just a basic personality clash. Are you engaged?
No, not yet, im too afraid of divorce, i have expierenced all of the reasons you just mentioned, was it to hard getting divorced?
We were together 15 years so yeah it was rough. We had major personality clashes where we found ourselves in conflict over fundamental incompatibility in our personalities and lifestyles. Don't be afraid though! It can be wonderful! 
Wao 15 years, thats so much, i cannot imagine getting back on track after 15 years, how about kids? did you have any?
Yes, we had two daughters who were 6 and 12 at the time. Luckily, we had no issues with child custody, visitation, parenting time, child support or any of those issues.