I love the color blue it is one of the many primary colors of pigments. 
i really love blue! it's my favorite color
Pink is one of my favorites as well especially with my flowers.
I'm not a big fan of pink. it's too girly for me
Pink is a little girly lol but if you like blue you have to like violet which is close to blue on the spectrum and also close to pink in color.
so is violet and purple the same? i can never tell the difference
Yes they are very similar both are between blue and close to red. 
but they are not the same?
No not the same the color pigments and spectrum light is a little different but from the same color lights.