Ive recently been going through a tough divorce, Do you have any advice that can help me out? 
Not a lot I'm afraid :(  Do you have any idea what the cause is?  Was there a lack of independence or a personality clash or anything you can try to adjust?
i think it has a lot to do with out personalities clashing actually so that might be something I did wrong. How much does it generally cost for a divorce? 
It can vary a lot, depending on if there's a child involved, if you have to do child support, and how distribution of property and debt will work.
Oh yeah never thought about that, What percentage of people in the US get divorced anyways? 
I think I've read somewhere that it's like 50%, though that includes second and beyond marriages.  I know a lot of people stay together because they don't want to deal with the court or a legal process, and dealing with alimony.
Wow that seems rather high, I suppose the couples just dont get along as well today, any other divorce facts I need to know? 
There's something called a no-fault divorce, which is when there's no requirement of a showing of wrongdoing by either member of the marriage.  You could look into that.