I always have to do everything to perfection.  My wife calls me a perfectionist
Well, many psychologists not only agree that it has negative aspects, but also POSITIVE aspects! It's a multidimensional characteristic to have.
I think its slightly mixed with OCD.  I always have to make sure that I do everything exact, like putting all the dishes away exact
I can definitely lead to a sort of OCD where you strain compulsively toward goals that are unrealistic and unobtainable. And sometimes you may even measure your self worth by those accomplishments or lack of.