Divorce laws vary by state and in most countries. Most require a court and a legal process with issues of alimony and child support and visitation. I was divorced in 2001.
Woa that is hard, how different is the law now, compare to 2001 when you divorce? im in a relationship never been married!
I am not sure how the laws have changed but the reasons for divorce can be due to incompatibility, lack of independence or just a basic personality clash. Are you engaged?