hello, i love my blond hair 
Awesome!  Is it light or dark?  There's something called the Fischer–Saller scale that gives a range of blond - it goes from A for light blond, to O for dark blond.
when I was younger it was lighter but as I get older it gets darker
Yeah, that happens.  It's interesting that the English word blond was first documented in 1481.  It derived from the Old French blund or blont.
did not know it was a french word just assumed it was englis
So did I.  I also didn't realize that the dark pigment eumelanin is what characterizes the blond color.
interesting, a dark pigment causes lighter hair
Yes, if it is in low levels.  The color can vary from very pale blond to strawberry blond.
strawberry blond is sort a weird description, seems more red than blond to me
Yeah, it is weird!  And it's interesting that some colors of hair are associated with ethnic groups