Ive recently been going through a tough divorce, Do you have any advice that can help me out? 
Not a lot I'm afraid :(  Do you have any idea what the cause is?  Was there a lack of independence or a personality clash or anything you can try to adjust?
i think it has a lot to do with out personalities clashing actually so that might be something I did wrong. How much does it generally cost for a divorce? 
It can vary a lot, depending on if there's a child involved, if you have to do child support, and how distribution of property and debt will work.