import std;

// dfmt off
T lread(T=long)(){return readln.chomp.to!T;}
T[] lreads(T=long)(long n){return generate(()=>readln.chomp.to!T()).take(n).array;}
T[] aryread(T=long)(){return readln.split.to!(T[]);}
void arywrite(T=long)(T[] ary){ary.map!(text).join(' ').writeln;}
void scan(TList...)(ref TList Args){auto line = readln.split;
foreach (i,T;TList){T val=line[i].to!(T);Args[i]=val;}}
void dprint(TList...)(TList Args){debug{auto s=new string[](TList.length);
static foreach(i,a;Args) s[i]=text(a);s.map!(text).join(' ').writeln;}}
alias sread=()=>readln.chomp();enum MOD =10^^9+7;
alias PQueue(T,alias less="a<b") = BinaryHeap!(Array!T,less);
// dfmt on

void main()
{
    long N, K;
    scan(N, K);
    auto b = new bool[](N);
    foreach (_; 0 .. K)
    {
        long d = lread();
        auto A = aryread();
        foreach (a; A)
        {
            b[a - 1] = true;
        }
    }
    b.map!"a?0:1"().sum().writeln();
}
