and I had a very sheltered life, I was an only child, I hadn't been around much, I hadn't stayed away from home  erm  and  I came to Suffolk to visit a girl penfriend who was working at Brandeston Hall  and erm  she at that time was expecting to get engaged to  a chappy in the village here who was, and still is a friend of Hector's and ours, and  they didn't marry in the finish  but she at that time wanted me to come up to Suffolk to see her  and to meet this chappy who she thought she was going to marry  and erm  so, it was  holiday from the art school where I was and I thought well  why not?