I thought the part that, you know, she forgot it er well I know she didn't forget it, she just did it on purpose, but three days after my birthday it's her wee brother's first birthday  and she had, she had the nerve to ring me up and invite me to her brother's first birthday party  accept and go up there with a present and a card and all  and she couldn't even have rang me up to say happy birthday   So I haven't  