It is controversial , however , with some people believing the problem is overstated .
That many date rape victims are actually willing , consenting participants , and others believing that date rape is seriously under - reported and almost all women who claim date rape were actually raped .
It is controversial , however , with some people believing the problem is overstated and that many date rape victims are actually willing , consenting participants , and others believing that date rape is seriously under - reported and almost all women who claim date rape were actually raped .