Smale was married to Phyllis Weaver for 56 years until hear death in 2006 .
They had four children , John Gray Jr , Peter , Catherine Anne Caldemeyer and Lisa Smale Corbett .
Smale was married to Phyllis Weaver for 56 years until hear death in 2006 , and they had four children , John Gray Jr , Peter , Catherine Anne Caldemeyer and Lisa Smale Corbett .