Her husband , Caecina Paetus , was ordered by the emperor Claudius to commit suicide for his part in a rebellion but was not capable of forcing himself to do so .
Arria ( also Arria Major ) was a woman in ancient Rome .
Arria 's husband , Caecina Paetus , was ordered by the emperor Claudius to commit suicide for his part in a rebellion but was not capable of forcing himself to do so .
Arria ( also Arria Major ) was a woman in ancient Rome .