She apparently arranged and planned the child 's funeral without her husband even knowing of his death .
Pliny records that Arria 's son died at the same time as Caecina Paetus was quite ill .
Arria apparently arranged and planned the child 's funeral without Arria 's husband even knowing of his death .
Pliny records that Arria 's son died at the same time as Caecina Paetus was quite ill .