Victoria DiGiorgio Gotti , up to that point unaware of her son 's involvement in the Mafia , blamed her husband for ruining her son 's life and threatened to leave him .
He allowed John Jr. to leave the mob .
Victoria DiGiorgio Gotti , up to that point unaware of her son 's involvement in the Mafia , blamed her husband for ruining her son 's life and threatened to leave him unless he allowed John Jr. to leave the mob .