In doing this , they condemn themselves to a wildly ineffective strategy , increase their chances of being hurt and extend the duration of the conflict .
Unfortunately , most people attempt to go into a situation with the assumption that they must crush their opponent .
In doing this , people condemn themselves to a wildly ineffective strategy , increase people 's chances of being hurt and extend the duration of the conflict .
Unfortunately , most people attempt to go into a situation with the assumption that they must crush their opponent .