That 's what learning is , after all ; not whether we lose the game .
How we lose and how we 've changed because of it and what we take away from it that we never had before , to apply to other games .
That 's what learning is , after all ; not whether we lose the game , but how we lose and how we 've changed because of it and what we take away from it that we never had before , to apply to other games .