Therefore , the difference between dealing with conflict through aggression or through harmonious means is a matter of development .
Ueshiba 's metaphor also implies that to attack another human is an act of immaturity , even in self - defense .
The difference between dealing with conflict through aggression or through harmonious means is a matter of development .
Ueshiba 's metaphor also implies that to attack another human is an act of immaturity , even in self - defense .