She is married to Arnie but later comes out as a lesbian after he leaves her , then admits to being bisexual .
Nancy Lynn Bartlett is played by Sandra Bernhard , Nancy is a part owner of the Lanford Lunch Box .
Nancy Lynn Bartlett is married to Arnie but later comes out as a lesbian after he leaves Nancy Lynn Bartlett , then admits to being bisexual .
Nancy Lynn Bartlett is played by Sandra Bernhard , Nancy is a part owner of the Lanford Lunch Box .