The Dalai Lama encourages Harrer to return to Austria and be a father to his son .
Harrer tries to convince the Dalai Lama to flee , but he refuses ; not wanting to abandon his people .
The Dalai Lama encourages Harrer to return to Austria and be a father to Harrer 's son .
Harrer tries to convince the Dalai Lama to flee , but he refuses ; not wanting to abandon his people .