First , one must determine if the questionable behavior is age appropriate , since children use different conflict - resolution tactics during various developmental stages .
Weihe suggests that four criteria should be used to determine if questionable behavior is rivalry or abusive .
First , one must determine if the questionable rivalry is age appropriate , since children use different conflict - resolution tactics during various developmental stages .
Weihe suggests that four criteria should be used to determine if questionable behavior is rivalry or abusive .