Barber married his University of Virginia sweetheart Virginia Cha Barber on May 15 , 1999 .
The couple resided in Upper East Side New York City with Cha 's parents living in an en suite .
Barber married his University of Virginia sweetheart Virginia Cha Barber on May 15 , 1999 , and the couple resided in Upper East Side New York City with Cha 's parents living in an en suite .