His family was poor .
Barry left the family when Cross was 10 years old ; the two have not spoken since he was 19 , though they both primarily resided in New York City until Cross sold his home there in 2011 .
His family was poor and Barry left the family when Cross was 10 years old ; the two have not spoken since he was 19 , though they both primarily resided in New York City until Cross sold his home there in 2011 .