Speaker 1
My favorite hobby is scuba diving. I've been to hawaii three times. I'm a us marine veteran. I have two pet snakes. My wife and I just got divorced.
Speaker 2
A male human. He has red hair. He has a thin build. He wears casual clothes. He wears glasses.
Speaker 1
I am on vacation. I know how to scuba dive. I am in Hawaii. I burnt one time in Hawaii because I forgot sunscreen. I used to be a US Marine. My work with the Marines damaged my relationship with my wife. I am single because my divorce was recently finalized.
Speaker 2
I am getting a pair of new glasses. I have red hair. I like dressing casually. I would like to visit Hawaii. I am very skinny and my wife left me because of it.
Speaker 1
Hello, how are you?
Speaker 2
Hi! I am good, did you have a good day?
Speaker 1
Yes, I'm on vacation and I got to go scuba diving. What did you do today?
Speaker 2
I went shopping for new glasses!
Speaker 1
I forgot my sunglasses, and I'm in hawaii. I need to buy some.
Speaker 2
I would like hawaii but with my red hair I would burn in the sun!
Speaker 1
Sunscreen is important. When I first visited, I forgot mine and got burnt.
Speaker 2
That would be bad! I would fit in there with my casual clothing choices1.
Speaker 1
Yeah, no one dresses up much here! I used to have to wear my us marines uniform.
Speaker 2
Thank you for serving our country!.
Speaker 1
Thank you! I was proud to serve, but it damaged my relationship with my wife.
Speaker 2
I am sorry. My wife left me because I was too skinny.
Speaker 1
I'm sorry to hear that. My divorce was just finalized. It's hard being single again.
Speaker 2
Yes it is. Most people do not like my red hair either.
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Speaker 1
I am on vacation. I know how to scuba dive. I am in Hawaii. I burnt one time in Hawaii because I forgot sunscreen. I used to be a US Marine. My work with the Marines damaged my relationship with my wife. I am single because my divorce was recently finalized.
Speaker 2
I am getting a pair of new glasses. I have red hair. I like dressing casually. I would like to visit Hawaii. I am very skinny and my wife left me because of it.
Speaker 1
Just got back from vacationing in Hawaii. It's so weird being in the house without my wife. I'm thinking of selling it and maybe getting an apartment. 
Speaker 2
Yes, divorce is hard. I don't like being on my own, but I'm getting used to it. How was Hawaii?
Speaker 1
the weather was amazing and the views were great.  The food was great too.  They have seafood food trucks!
Speaker 2
Fantastic! Did you do any scuba diving while you were there? I hear it's a great spot. I would love to go, but right now I can't afford it because of the divorce. Boy, those things are expensive!
Speaker 1
Yea i went to O'ahu, the wrecks of USS YO-257 are there it was amazing seeing history.  And yea trips like this are expensive but I needed a break.
Speaker 2
Wow! That sounds amazing. And right up your alley, military-wise. I hear you about needing a break. We're just getting started with the paperwork and there's a lot of it! I don't know if I can afford a good lawyer. Did you use one, or did you go through a mediator?
Speaker 1
We used a mediator.  It ended up pretty amicable as she wanted out and I was not going to force her to stay so i just let it go.  I mean it sucks and it hurts but its probably for the best.
Speaker 2
Yeah, a mediator is what we're going to use, if we can find one. There is a lot of animosity between us, though. She says she left me because I was too skinny. How weird is that?
Speaker 1
I mean thats a pretty out there thing and it's not like you are hurting other or yourself because of it.  If she cant get past that it might be for the best.
Speaker 2
Yeah, I think there's more to it than just me being skinny. I'm not unhealthy or anything, I'm just thin. I can't really do much about it, since it's a genetic thing. Both my parents were thin. 
Speaker 1
I dont see how thats a bad thing.  I gain weight easy and have a hard time loosing it my metabolism wants to hold everything.
Speaker 2
I'm just the opposite. I've always been thin. I guess my metabolism is just high. I don't have a lot of muscle either. I've tried to bulk up, but I just can't. 
5 days
Speaker 1
I am on vacation. I know how to scuba dive. I am in Hawaii. I burnt one time in Hawaii because I forgot sunscreen. I got  back from vacationing in Hawaii.  I went to O'ahu. I needed a break. I used to be a US Marine. My work with the Marines damaged my relationship with my wife. I am single because my divorce was recently finalized. We used a mediator. I gain weight easy and have a hard time loosing it. My metabolism wants to hold everything.
Speaker 2
I am getting a pair of new glasses. I have red hair. I like dressing casually. I would love to go to Hawaii, but right now I can't afford it because of the divorce. I don't like being on my own. We're just getting started with the divorce paperwork. She left me because I was too skinny. I'm not unhealthy. I  can't really do much about it. Both my parents were thin. I've always been thin. My metabolism is just high. I don't have a lot of muscle. I've tried to bulk up, but I can't.
Speaker 1
So how is it going with your divorce process?
Speaker 2
It goes about as well as one can expect. Painful emotionally, but working through. Was it hard for you?
Speaker 1
It was much easier than expected, but that might be because we used a mediator. 
Speaker 2
That's a good idea. Maybe I'll look into that. I hate her reasoning for this whole thing
Speaker 1
Our reasoning was the Marines. It destroyed our relationship. What is your wifes reason for the divorce if you don't mind me asking?
Speaker 2
She thinks I'm too skinny. She finds me unattractive.
Speaker 1
Oh that is horrible! Especially if you have looked the same since y'all first got together. 
Speaker 2
I've been back and forth. Mostly always skinny. I just can't seem to bulk up at all.
Speaker 1
Well, you shouldn't have to change your appearance for anyone but yourself. Looks fade in the end, but a good personality lasts. 
Speaker 2
I agree wholeheartedly! I think once this is all over with I may treat myself to a trip to Hawaii.
Speaker 1
Oh that would be awesome, and from the sounds of it you definitely deserve it!
Speaker 2
Are you enjoying your vacation there?
12 days
Speaker 1
I am on vacation. I know how to scuba dive. I am in Hawaii. I burnt one time in Hawaii because I forgot sunscreen. I got  back from vacationing in Hawaii.  I went to O'ahu. I needed a break. I used to be a US Marine. My work with the Marines damaged my relationship with my wife. I am single because my divorce was recently finalized. We used a mediator. I gain weight easy and have a hard time loosing it. My metabolism wants to hold everything. I have experience with relationships and attraction.
Speaker 2
I am getting a pair of new glasses. I have red hair. I like dressing casually. I would love to go to Hawaii, but right now I can't afford it because of the divorce. I don't like being on my own. We're just getting started with the divorce paperwork. She left me because I was too skinny and unattractive. I'm not unhealthy. I  can't really do much about it. Both my parents were thin. I've always been thin. My metabolism is just high. I don't have a lot of muscle. I've tried to bulk up, but I can't. I can't add any muscle. I might travel to Hawaii.
Speaker 1
Did you book your trip to Hawaii yet?
Speaker 2
Have you had any luck losing the weight your body has been stubbornly holding onto?
Speaker 1
No, I haven't. I have stabilized my weight by changing my diet. I cut out a lot of junk food. If I can get more exercise, I might make a dent in my weight.
Speaker 2
I have not been able to book my trip yet, but I am planning to around fall or winter this year. Do you have any recommendations on where I could stay or what I should see? I am so glad to hear that your weight has stayed stable. I have been trying to bulk up before I plan my trip. I have been using a lot of protein and trying to life 5 days a week.
Speaker 1
Oahu and Maui are good starting places for tourists. Make sure you're ready for the sun. The outdoors is great, but you need to protect your skin!
Speaker 2
Being a red head, I am already pretty fair. I plan on using 50 spf sunblock, and an umbrella when I am there. I have heard there is really cool volcano in Hawaii. Is it on one of those islands?
Speaker 1
Yes, they do. The temperature change can be a bit surprising, when you go from sea level to the top of the volcano on a hike. The view is great though. 
Speaker 2
I imagine it is so much more sunny and hot as you go up in elevation. Did you take a lot of pictures while you were there? I bet the scenery is unbelievable. 
Speaker 1
Yes, there are some pretty views. Bring your camera/phone. Also, be ready for some exertion. Going up the trail takes some effort. If I hiked that trail more often, I would lose the weight that I need to lose. 
Speaker 2
I think I should start working on my legs so I can trek up the trails. I have been planning on getting a new camera for the trip, so that I can take a lot of pictures
Speaker 1
Going for walks would help you get ready for hikes. Most tourists just want to lie on the beach and sip drinks. I like to get away from the touristy places. 
Speaker 2
So do I. I enjoy seeing the beach for a day or two, but I want to experience all the exciting and new things Hawaii has to offer. It is not every day I get to go there and who knows when I might see it again. 
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Speaker 1
I am on vacation. I know how to scuba dive. I am in Hawaii. I burnt one time in Hawaii because I forgot sunscreen. I got  back from vacationing in Hawaii.  I went to O'ahu. I needed a break. I have climbed from sea level to the top of a volcano in Hawaii. I have hiked the volcano trail in Hawaii multiple times. I do not enjoy touristy areas in Hawaii. I used to be a US Marine. My work with the Marines damaged my relationship with my wife. I am single because my divorce was recently finalized. We used a mediator. I gain weight easy and have a hard time loosing it. My metabolism wants to hold everything. I have experience with relationships and attraction. I have been trying to lose weight. I have stopped eating a lot of junk food.
Speaker 2
I am getting a pair of new glasses. I have red hair. I like dressing casually. I would love to go to Hawaii, but right now I can't afford it because of the divorce. I don't like being on my own. We're just getting started with the divorce paperwork. She left me because I was too skinny and unattractive. I'm not unhealthy. I  can't really do much about it. Both my parents were thin. I've always been thin. My metabolism is just high. I don't have a lot of muscle. I've tried to bulk up, but I can't. I can't add any muscle. I might travel to Hawaii. I am planning to go to Hawaii in fall or winter of this year. I don't like to spend many days in a row at the beach. I want to explore many aspect of Hawaii. I am trying to gain weight. I have been eating a lot of protein. I lift weights 5 days a week.  I am very fair. I know how to protect myself from the sun. I am planning to buy a new camera.
Speaker 1
I just finished my first workout in my weight loss journey. Do you have any tips on staying consistent?
Speaker 2
I would just make sure you eat healthy foods even if it not all the time just more regularly. I would also suggest doing little work out moves at home even if you start off by doing 5 of each move a day and just pick 3-5 that you feel you can do. 
Speaker 1
Ok thanks, that is good advice.  I am at my hotel in Hawaii and might try and hit the gym more while I am here.   How is your lifting weights going?
Speaker 2
obviously i'm not a fitness instructor but that what i was told to do when trying to bulk up at first. Do you have any recommendations of things to do whilst in Hawaii? I'm looking to put a list of things and places to see when I go out later in the year. I would say enjoy you vacation don't worry about the gym haha. Im doing good a lifting weights five days a week i'm just seeing very slow progress, but i'm determined to bulk up so no giving up for me. 
Speaker 1
That's great-  I know that bulking up when you have a high metabolism can be really  hard.  So far in Hawaii I have gone to the North Shore in Oahu- I really like Waimea Valley there and also Koaloa Ranch on the east side.  They film a lot of movies there so that was pretty cool. 
Speaker 2
Yeah it has been much harder than I ever anticipated. Hawaii sounds incredible and those places you mentioned sound great I will add them to places i must see whilst i'm there. 
Speaker 1
Yeah there is some good surfing there. I know you struggle with burning in the sun though so lots of sunscreen!   How is the divorce going?  Everything pretty civil so far?
Speaker 2
Yeah I am going to give surfing a go whilst there. And yes lots and lots of sunscreen for me. The divorce is pretty tough but so far it has been civil. I just don't think I will ever get over her reason for leaving me, like i feel there is more to the story but that was an easy out. 
Speaker 1
I can see feeling that way for sure. Blaming it on looks is really hard.   I just wasn't around enough for my wife.  So I know that was more on me.  Having a mediator was hard- I hope you guys don't have to get that far into the legal system and it can be over really quick. 
Speaker 2
You can't help not being there especially being a Marine. But i can understand that was hard for her. Yeah i just want mine as over as fast as possible so unless she demands something crazy I am just going to agree with her terms. I want to get my life back and go do the things i want to than have to worry about this divorce. 
Speaker 1
Absolutely.   Hopefully done quick and you can move on.  Hey, did you ever get that new camera you were talking about wanting?  Photography is super cool- I wish I knew how to take good photo.s 
Speaker 2
I haven't been able to get the camera yet, I did go by the shop the other day to browse and I defiantly found the one that I want. Yeah I always loved photography but never took it seriously but now i'm really going to try take it further and even try make some money as a side gig.  
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