How to prove to my friend that aliens have never visited earth I come from a physics background where I don't believe something unless the evidence is shown to me, however I have a friend who believes Aliens have visited earth , which he believes based on conspiracy theories.
My question is: is there any solid scientific reasoning as to why the conspiracy theories aren't true. As for him I need to give him evidence as to why they don't exist , and not the other way around .
I don't think you can prove that aliens have never visited Earth. It's theoretically provable if one had a time machine, but without one, we can't really prove that aliens didn't visit Earth (say) 2 billion years ago. The physical evidence would be long gone (especially with plate tectonics).

What you can say is that the burden of proof is on the person making the assertion. The null hypothesis is that aliens have never visited Earth. If your friend asserts that aliens have visited then the onus is on him to provide proof. If you can refute all the proofs he brings up, you can argue the null hypothesis remains the one to believe.