Do most planetary systems have fewer planets than the solar system? It is my impression that most planetary systems have, at most, three to four planets. Is that real? Or is it just that we lack the ability to detect most planets?
Perhaps the way to answer this is ask - could we detect the planets in our solar system if we were looking at the Sun, using current technology, from distances of many light years?

The short answer is that we could detect Jupiter using the Doppler radial velocity technique, if we observed for more than 10 years (at least one orbit is required). If we were lucky, and the orientation is right, we might then also be able to detect a transit of Venus or the Earth, using a satellite observatory like Kepler. Kepler could detect Earthlike planets by the transit technique, but the solar system is not "flat" enough that you would observe multiple transiting planets.

So the answer is that we would currently have seen Jupiter and maybe one other planet. Therefore we cannot at the moment conclude that 8 planets is an unusually high number; it may be quite typical. Although we do know that solar systems can be much more densely populated with planets (in their "terrestrial planet zones") than our own.