Is there a nice description of the variety $G(r,2r) \setminus \sqcup\_{i+j=r}(G(i,r) \times G(j,r))$ in terms of blow ups or a sub-variety of a secant variety or any other natural construction to see it in a better way ? Where the product of Grassmannians $G(i,r) \times G(j,r)$ embedded in the bigger Grassmannian $G(r,2r)$ naturally. 



A sub-variety of a Grassmannian
Per my very recent answer on another question (<https://mathoverflow.net/a/266282/66>), consider an invertible linear transformation with two eigenspaces, both of dimension $n$ (for example, $\mathrm{diag}(2,\dots, 2,1,\dots,1)$). The variety you mention is the non-fixed points of this transformation (by the converse of the logic described in that answer).


**EDIT:** Is "a construction in terms of an incidence correspondence" covered by saying that it is also $\{ U\subset V\oplus W \mid \dim U=n, \dim (U\cap V)+\dim (U\cap W)<n\}.$ That is, it is the subspaces $U$ which are not spanned by $U\cap V$ and $U\cap W$.


