My father is drunkard . so when he use drinks he can t love his family. he create many problems. some times he is very cruel. He can t control him self. he is very doubtful person. These problems are arise only when he use drinks. He is not ready for treatment . Then what can i do for his relief . Please Give me good suggestion.
Hi and welcome to Chat Doctor. Thanks for your question... I understand that it can be very distressing to deal with a family member who is addicted to alcohol and who refuses to take any steps to change himself. It is also very difficult to stop any habit or addiction without the motivation and co-operation of the person. Also, most people who abuse alcohol or any other substance have already been told the enough number of times by their relatives and friends to stop or cut down the habit. But remember, the very definition of addiction implies that the person has lost control over the substance and is unable to stop or control its use, despite knowing that it can cause him / her harmful consequences. Now, at the same time, this does not mean that there is no way out. There are a lot of people who have sought help and have been able to quit / control alcohol. One of the key factors in success is to get the person motivated. Merely telling the person repeatedly to stop usually does little good. I would suggest that the most practical way is to get him to see a doctor whenever you find an opportunity. He may not be willing to see a doctor for his Chat Doctor.  Once you get him to see the doctor, then that can be used as an opportunity by the doctor to discuss his