I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks. We live far apart and see each other usually every weekend. Within the 6 weeks of dating, he has urinated in the bed twice. We are not physically intimate, but will hold eacdh other prior to sleeping. The first instance he tried to get it up with a towel, and told me that he did not want to talk about it. He later explained that it hadnt happened in a while and he was sorry and embrassed. Three weeks later he did it again and simply put a towel on it and didnt bother waking me to get out the bed. I was upset since his reaction was to me calm and he was not trying to get it up, plus the room was in my name and any damage to the bed was 250 dollars. For 2 days we scrubbed and he was angry with me. Although he later apologized and again told me how embrassed he was, I cant help to lose respect for him and now dont really want him. Its disgusting and he is way too calm afterwards. He also smells like urine after and wont keep up with his apperance well. He has a weight issue and told him to go to the doctor to see if he has a medical issue like diabeties but I fell like its pschological. Could it be?
Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. bed-wetting or as is called in medical science enuresis, is not necessarily due to psychological causes. Adult Onset Secondary Enuresis is defined as nocturnal enuresis in which nighttime Chat Doctor.