Hi.. This question is to the Sexologist/Urologist. I am a 33 year old male, married since 3 years.Had a healthy sex life till recent 3 to 4 months .. weak erection and cannot ejaculate after insertion. Lately when iam with wife absolutely no erection at all. Masturbation is fine though and erection and retention during masturbation is also fine. What to do ??
Dear, We understand your concerns went through your details. If your masturbation and during masturbation erection and ejaculation after masturbation is fine, then the problem is purely psychological. There could be some episode with which you are unable to maintain erection, ejaculation or week erection. Psychological problems like stress, anxiety, simple disappointment and depression can lead to temporary erection and ejaculation problems. These are temporary, but many people do worry about these issues and obsess. Such obsession and urge to have a proper sex will lead to repeated trying and each time they fail because of the same basic reason. I suggest you to consult a psychologist for counseling. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute detail possible. Hope this answers your query.  Further clarifications are welcome. Good luck. Happy New Year. Take care.