i have some really strange symptoms, it feels like some one is squeezing my kidney then it goes numb and then it tingels and i can feel  the urine flow out of it, it happens constantly and there is this area on my back where if you touch it  i jump like i have been shocked it is that tender any clues
Do some routine investigations like ultrasound, urine re me and routine blood tests and other tests to rule out organic cause. If nothing is found, then psychiatrist may be consulted if symptoms are troubling you a lot.