My wife and I are trying to concieve, however I am having problems ejaculating. It seems the only way i can ejaculate is through masterbation. Is there anything that can help stimulate and make me ejaculate faster without resorting to masterbationin order to properly concieve?
Hi, Thanks for posting in Chat Doctor. I understand your concern. It appears from your description that you are having delay in ejaculation rather than premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation means getting ejaculation soon after inserting penis into vagina, most often within a minute of sexual activity. Since you are able to ejaculate during masturbation, things are fine and normal with you. Delay in ejaculation could be due to lack of proper sexual stimulation or Aurora and due to apprehension or anxiety. Spend more time during foreplay to get enough stimulation. Penetrate slowly and relax in between while having intercourse. Use proper lubricant to achieve good lubrication. You must remember that every sexual activity doesn't always end up with ejaculation. Gradually, you should be able to overcome it and perform normally. Hope the information provided would be helpful. All the best.  Chat Doctor. S., MBBS., MD.