I am newly married, and had sex for the first time with my husband yesterday night. It was really aching while he tried to enter and after the intercourse, i saw some spots later in my innerwear. And also i feel pain in the lower abdomen. Feel this is because of the broken Hymen....Please tell me whether it is fine to have such symptoms and any precautions if i need to take in future and now also
Hi. Thanks for your query. This sort of pain after the first intercourse and spots on the underwear are normal, although the pain in the abdomen may or may not be. The precautions to be taken are: have proper foreplay for the vagina to get well lubricated before the next sexual act; ask your husband to be slow and careful, not harsh till you and your body gets accustomed to the new life. Do not worry, everything gets OK with time and wishing you both a great married life,