Dear SirWe have undergone three ICSI attempts. Beforehand, my wife, reported to be of PCOS, had operated for Hysteroscopy and Laproscopic Ovarian drilling and the path was observed clear. My sperm count is essentially poor (only 5 million/ml and motility 20%). After 1 failed attempt of IUI and failure in ICSI (three times), now we are advised to consider for doner egg as the doctor perceive that the embroy is not of good quality because of defects in egg. We are in a critical situation to decide the matter. I am already 36 and my wife 34. We shall be extremely happy to get your wise suggestion.
Hi I think if embryos are not good then you should go as suggested by your doctor.  What you can do is to use both your wives eggs and donor eggs. After fertilisation, you can decide which to use.