i have a small pea sized hard lump on my vagina lip, it is under the skin but sometimes, when i walk or sit down it gets soar. i dont know what it is, and i dont know how to remove it. i dont want to go see a doctor cause that involves my mom knowing. i am not sexually active but i do shave there. are there any ways i can remove or shrink it  myself?
Hello! Thank you for the query. It is hard to tell not being able to see it. The most probable reason of this lump is Bartholdi cyst. This is a benign lesion which appears due to vagina gland obstruction. As the gland is obstructed, it becomes inflamed. This causes the pain, swelling and can make it larger. This lump has nothing to do with sexual activity. And it can not be treated at home. The best treatment of it is an incision and Chat Doctor.  Gynecologist should do that. Hope this will help. Regards.