Hi, I have been married for 4 years now but we have been unable to consummate. I have visited several gynecologists as well as a psychiatrist ... They have said that anatomically things are okay but I have vaginismus . We have been following the psychiatrist s exercises for 3-4 months now but there has not been any improvement in terms of penetration. Please help.
Hi thanks for your question. Since you have already consulted gynecologist and psychiatrist, and they have ruled out any anatomical defect. There are some factors which are contributory to viscus, and you should take care of these factors for successful penetration. The first being how mucChatDoctorfortable you are with your partner, how much foreplay both of you are doing before actual penetration, how much knowledge of anatomy and physiology of sex organs you are having and finally one of most important factor how much afraid of, you are of sexual act. I think cause of your vaginismus lies with fear of having pain during sex. You should relax before and during the process of sexual act and take care of above-mentioned factors. To allay fear of pain during sex, you can use lubricants in the begging. The lubricants are freely available with the medical stores. This will help you in successful penetration. Hope this answers your question.