conversation: User (VitaMinDy3): "My husband LOVES to spend money. It is impossible for him to hold on to even $100. He can't just sit on it and wait. He has no savings. Within the last week we both finally put each other on each other's accounts. This prompted me to open an account in my name without him knowing. I have now made sure my job takes $150 each month and puts it into this account. This way come 2016 Summer Olympics, we can make our trip to RIO that we've been talking about for the last year. I know if I don't do this, the money won't be there. Yet, I feel so guilty. I know there are savings accounts that require 2 signatures, blah blah blah. But this man has a hold on me and I say "yes" to EVERYTHING. It's kind of opposite of most relationships. I'm much older (35) and he's much younger (24) so he wants, wants, wants whereas I want to save, save, save. Does anyone else open accounts like this? I feel soooo guilty but satisfied too.\nBTW, I have this mail coming to my job and everything, including the debit card is locked in a file drawer in my desk. I know he'll react in shock but he'll be thankful I did this come 2016."
  Self: "Maybe you married the wrong person and time for you to bailout while it is still cheap.  Women marries a man to change him, man marries a women hoping everything will stay the same.   You being 35, sound like you my dear settle."
  User (VitaMinDy3): "HA! Wrong answer. I waited 6 years to marry the right person. No one is perfect. He will grow out of this sort of thing and I can influence him to be more thrifty but I'm in no way out to change anyone. "
  Self: "You want to influence him? I can see a divorce in the future."
  User (VitaMinDy3): "We have a psychic everyone!"
  Self: "I have seen this story played out many times.  You think you are special, but you are not."
  User (VitaMinDy3): "Mind reader too."
  Self: "If you consider experience as a mind reader, then I am a mind reader."
  User (VitaMinDy3): "I'm sorry you've had so many divorces. That sucks."
  Self: "Never been divorced and happily married for 25 years and counting."
  