conversation: User (FuckSamWalton): "I am 23 and she is almost 22. I just moved back home about 6 weeks ago and the estimated date of conception is that exact weekend, meaning god has a sense of humor :').\nI am a personal trainer and since I just moved back into town I have no clientele and am therefor bringing in no money I am currently looking for a job to hold me over until I do build a clientele. She is working 35 hours making about $430 a week with no savings and slightly more financial obligation. She was taken off of her moms insurance a while back so she is uninsured at the moment.\n\nI have about $9,000 saved up with very little financial responsibility, only about $200-300 a month of expenses. I've been saving up to purchase my first real estate investment.\n\nAnyway, my questions:\n\n1. We want to leave child support out of this. We just want to contribute equally to our child without having a legal obligation over either of us. Does she need to file for child support in order for the state (Oklahoma) to come after me for it, or do they automatically come after child support if my name is on various documents as the father? Is there any way around this?\n\n2. I want to get her some insurance so she doesn't have to worry about anything. Is there an insurance plan out there that is traditionally known as the go-to for people in our situation? Is there any benefit to private insurance over medicaid? Can we even get insurance right now since it isn't the enrollment period? Would signing up for state assistance like medicaid trigger the state to come after me for child support?\n\nThank you so much guys. We've been doing our own research on this, but a lot of this information just isn't coming up as easily as we would hope."
  Self: "Just wondering any thought about getting a paternity test.  You have a short window after birth before you are financially responsible for good  "
  User (FuckSamWalton): "I plan on staying with her and want the child. I'm not trying to lose my financial responsibility. lol"
  Self: "Well I'm happy for you \n\nBest wishes for you and your new family "
  User (FuckSamWalton): "I will be getting a paternity test, as I believe everybody should. Just not to try getting out of financial responsibility. Thank you! :)"
  