conversation: User (pfthrowaway7890): "Hi all,\n\nI'm a 18 year old high school senior, and I'm leaving town to get a degree out of state within 4 months. My family has been saving money for my brother and I to attend college ever since we were little, and I have about 150k to get me through undergrad, almost all of which is in the form of land. I've worked service, construction, and government jobs throughout high school that have allowed me to save around 4k for college, but that hardly compares to the amount that my parents are contributing.\n\nI've been taking advantage of a local program that allows high school students to take classes at a local college, and I will have racked up about 20 credits of general courses by the end of this semester. My school has about a 250:1 student to counselor ratio, and unfortunately I haven't had much input on what to do with my future from anyone except for my parents. I've gotten into a bunch of schools, and I have to enroll at one within a month. \n\nI'm hoping to get a BA in economics/business administration, and another BA in Spanish language and literature. I applied to a bunch of small private liberal arts colleges (mostly ivy league professors, less than 25% acceptance, 2000ish students, 500m+ endowment, etc.) and one public school, and got dismal deals from all of them except for the public university. The public university gave me a surprising amount of merit aid, will waive about 16 additional credits from my graduation requirements because of my test scores, and offers a total cost of attendance of about 9000/year. The private schools range from 40k-60k per year, and most of them won't take much (if any) of my credit. My parents are urging me to attend the most prestigious university I can because of better graduation rates, alumni networks, grad school acceptance rates and internship opportunities, but I don't know if I can justify spending an extra year and another 150k for the same degrees, especially when the benefits of the more expensive schools aren't clear whatsoever. I don't care too much about attending an elite school; I just want to be employable and support my family.\n\nWill it really matter where I go to college? What else should I consider before I pay my deposit? If I don't spend all of my college fund, what should I do with it to help set my brother and I up for the future?"
  Self: "Not to be the grammar police and apologies for going off topic, but isn't the correct way to say this "for my brother and me", rather than "saving money for my brother and I to attend college ever since we were little."\n\nCan anyone opine? Asking because I always see people write like this on this forum and I'm doubting myself"
  User (pfthrowaway7890): "You're right, since the two of us are the object of the sentence you'd say me. "
  